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THE INVISIBLE MEN of RHP COUPLES
May 23 2018
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RHP User
8 years ago
Well, I think it's because women are generally the better looking gender. Women don't care as much as men do about looks. Plus guys have a habit of taking penis pictures while the girls are more 'artistic' - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
You fish with bait, not the sinker. I was part of a couple's profile. He had apealing bait of his own so between the 2 of us we did well together. So yeah, I guess their sales pitch is "FF M oh and my partner" not FFMM?? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Thanks very much for your comment. We are always asking for pics of the male.
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Freaky_Fun
8 years ago
Complain about all the men's horrid responses they receive about said photos of just the female 🤔
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HotNightsGC
8 years ago
And I think some couples forget that the woman needs to be attracted to the guy of the other couple too. We also love some eye candy 😍😍😍 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Well, given that the majority of people on here are looking for females, or for couples where FFM/FMF play is a big part of the goal, it kinda stands to reason that females are the main attraction. All women are bi and are more aesthetically attracted to women than men anyway, don't you know that? ;)
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RHP User
8 years ago
Have to agree, we find it’s usually couples that centre their play around the woman’s bisexuality that tend to have an invisible husband. Maybe they don’t care what the men look like as swinging is just for the woman to explore her bisexual side? Girls play, guys watch... As a straight couple, people are wasting their time contacting us if there’s no photos of the male half, it’s actually the most important part of their profile in getting our interest. We feature equally in our PG. Mr D - Posted from rhpmobile
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Goodfella
8 years ago
Whats funnier is that for many, all the pics are women, but all the profile info is male only. I have found that many couple profiles are actually just men ..... - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
😄 Most likely a male-driven profile with male-driven agendas, with a male lurking out of sight because he knows he’s the weakest link Pretty self sabotaging behaviour really - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
When I was part of a couple on here I was more than happy to be part of the profile with some nice couple shots, a few of her in her underwear, me shirtless in a few and then we had a few naughty ones in our pg if that was your bag ;) I guess it boils down to idea that this is all about the ladies either being the prize or exploring their bi side. I can't help but feel that this can't be good for male self esteem and identity, you've only got to look a social media such as Facebook and Instagram where a lady posting pretty much anything will get a torrent of likes, comments and support where as unless a man is pretty much at the standards of a male model he'll receive next to nothing.I really don't think men in this day and age are complimented enough and we should do more to celebrate masculinity!Raising this issue in the forum is a great start so thank you x
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Laidback_Fun
8 years ago
We encounter the same thing all the time! (Even though it is written in our profile that we want to see both halves of the couple). Plenty of photos of her and none of him, or one or two very poor photos of him. For us, the male is normally a pretty major factor for miss when deciding who we wish to play with - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
The guys are almost always present in the chat rooms with their hand on their cock and no Mrs in sight... I think the profiles like that are mostly fake. I could be wrong though. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
We used to have a pic of us both up. I (Mr3) have no hesitation in declaring myself the weakest link in our union but we changed our pic because we thought it best to go back to a bit of anonymity and that pic was next in line after we put the others in our pvt album. It makes very little difference though. After 4 years on here we’ve discovered what people are looking for in a profile and the majority of rhp isn’t looking this way anyhow lol. It sucks to say but a hell of a lot of the couples are only hunting unicorns and so think they can attract one with an attractive woman. Silly thinking but they think like for like. Women also seem to take more pics than men and have more at their disposal I guess. Anyhow I’m just bored and have nothing to do so thought I’d come throw in my 2c.
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RHP User
8 years ago
For us, the male half isn't in as many pics because he takes the most, and we both enjoy kinky the whole kinky photo experience. He especially enjoys taking pics. We have both of us in our galleries, just more showing off girly bits! 🙂 - Posted from rhpmobile
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Great_vibes
8 years ago
It’s a good sign that they ain’t no oil painting - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Aussiebeef1! Hahaha - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
As the male half of a couple and also as a single profile male as well on rhp it is very clear by the statistics that the woman half definitely sells to the man and the woman either as a couples or singles . Usually once any interest is shown by others we display equal of male and female in our pg . Most couples are aged between 35 and 50 on here thats just a fact. And it becomes increasingly difficult to look 26 when you are 46 say. As well most 40 something’s are usually hardworking family types with many busy hrs of the day spent doong things other than going to the gym twice daily or taking hot selfies of themselves. If I could look anywhere near as hot as my wife then I suppose we could go 50/50 in pics on public profile. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
It doesn’t take that much effort to stay in shape. I’ve been told I have the body of a 20 something, and I only go to gym 3 times a week. And only started going to gym November last year So 3 hours out of 168 hours a week surely that’s not to much ??
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totally_normal
7 years ago
Hasnt made much difference to our views .... perhapx it will attract more genuine couples ... who knows, but we both feature in our gallaries. Mrs ... - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Mr B takes most of the photos. We do have pics of him in our PG and pictures of us together as well. Most people look at the woman first then the male so that's what we have set up. We are not a fake profile or a male pretending to be a couple (hate that) or even a couple who's Mrs doesn't play but is happy for Mr too. If you want to see Mr have a chat with us first - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
We've only recently joined the site but it is definitely a common issue. We receive winks/messages but 99% result in a no from us as there are no pics of the male half of the couples. I get that the Male half is often the pic taker (as is the case for us) but at least have some pics available - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
I don't even see the point of having a couple profile and only showing one or the other, we have both of us and have no issues at all. Seriously if I'm buying a pair of lamps on eBay I want photos of both lamps, not a single photo of the decent one while the banged up shitty one is nowhere to be seen
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2ofus4more
7 years ago
We both agree, but as the female side of this relationship, I am into men not women, and would like to see that it is a couple. I think at least just the first pic should be of a couple!
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