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THE "AGE" OLD QUESTION
April 06 2010
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RHP User
16 years ago
have 45yo as your upper age limit? This would seem somewhat Hypocritical.Cheers Nev
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RHP User
16 years ago
I'm as young at 41 as I was at 21. Well, I know the body isn't as agile as a 21 year old but I'm still a young crazy mofo with an unquenchable thirst for meeting and eating others :D We've had fun with others in their 50's and we don't see them as "old"
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RHP User
16 years ago
Perfect Places age is a barrier for all of us at some point..Perception is not always the reality.. Nothing like an experienced hand and mind ..!
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RHP User
16 years ago
Whilst I agree with your sentiment that not all over 40s are wrinkly, overweight grey haired etc etc..Im not too sure if I agree with the down grading of age.Does changing your age to a younger figure make you more likely to get a hit or message? Quite a few times on here a couple, single will state their age as say 37,39,41 when clearly they appear much older.Why bother? You have to meet eventually and those wrinkles will be there to see if you have them.( Not meaning you per se Perfect_places, just an in general comment) We have found putting our actual ages down not to be a hindrance in any way.We get interest from all ages. We may be totally shallow though and rather go on peoples/couples profile and pics then what age they state. Just my take on it. Cheers Mrs S.
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RHP User
16 years ago
While i agree with the sentiment that age is no barrier for me it is a psychological aspect though as my lovely mother - who is in no way an old lady let me be clear about this - is only 50. I just dont feel comfrotable playing with people so close to her own age. Yes yes I know I am in early 30's and we are likely to meet and date people of a similar age - yes she is single and looking - as I am quite happy to go up to 40 (well thats what my profile says) and am known to make exceptions up to early 40's but gee you have to be very special for me to do that. However, I recently had a correspondent tell me that they had lied about their age and were in fact 50 - not the early 40's initially stated. This is a big no no for me as I value honesty over anything else. Wouldnt you rather people who wanted to meet you reagrdless of your age than have to lie? Just thinking out loud Focus
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RHP User
16 years ago
Our stance has always been around our own age, no older than 35 of the oldest side of the couple. Our main reason: Miss spunky's parents are quiet young and she doesn't like the idea of playing with people as old (or older) than her parents. Having said that we have played with a couple older than our limit but we met them at a party, they looked younger than they were and we're too polite to ask so we definately agree to a certain degree that age is just a number (In the moment anything is possible) but some times people do have good reasons for their age limits, even if the excluded people seem to have a problem with it.
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RHP User
16 years ago
I must declare that my oldest daughter is 21 so anything under 25 is strictly off limits for me which makes me guilty of age discrimination albeit for a very good reason. As a 45 year old male, I tell all prospective liaisons that I am 21 with 24 years of experience. This tends to break the ice, bring a smile to their face and makes them think about whether they want a chiselled 20 something year old 5 pump chump or someone that knows his way around the anatomy of a horny woman and has stamina. My pleasure is gained from being with a horny and willing partner, the penultimate of excitement for me being that moment of sweet surrender when she parts her legs for my probing tongue and fingers and the zenith of ecstacy being to watch her shudder with increasing violence as her hips gyrate and thrust towards the object giving her pleasure during an intense orgasm(s). I empathise Perfect_Places but pleasure can be found in all age groups so no need to diddle your age, just enjoy those that want to enjoy you as you are. Love to all, Ray of Sunshine
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RHP User
16 years ago
After reaching the front of the line after a 30 min wait today, I was offered the only seat by the younger lady in front of me, because I was older! I laughed out loud, haven't been offered a seat since I was pregnant! After revealing my age, I surprised her and the lady behind us, who wished she could get away with wearing the dress I had on... whew... thought I was getting old for a minute there! Lol Nev... I see your point was well taken... We settled on an age range that was 10 years either side of ours thereabouts... We do look at whoever we hear from though and don't automatically say no based on age. Cheers... Mrs P'
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Mr_MrsJones
16 years ago
As a rule I (lady) tend not to notice the numbers under the photo until I look at the photo. Even then I only look at it to confirm the judgement from the photo. i.e. if the person looks wrinly etc in the photo I will check it out as a confirmation. However if they look hot who cares I agree with Nev it is a little hypocritical to expect to only have partners that are younger than yourself and criticise people for not lookling at older couples when you are not prepared to do so yourself. Personally we value honesty and make every effort to be honest with everyone in our lives. Consequently we don't feel comfotable with the idea of people who lie about their age here or anywhere else and I refuse to do so. We know how attractive we are and we don't need other people to confirm it for us. If at the end of the day that means we don't get a flirt so what we have each other and we are happy with that.
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RHP User
16 years ago
I like an older man cause he wont hurt me i dont think he would i havent experienced an oldr man yet but am willing to give it a go if i meet one in his late 50's i think would be nice
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'mdnnlee' I like an older man cause he wont hurt me i dont think he would i havent experienced an oldr man yet but am willing to give it a go if i meet one in his late 50's i think would be nice If I were you Ms mdnnlee I wouldn't assume older was wiser.Some older people don't learn from mistakes.Some younger people don't make the mistakes.You still need to be careful...RegardsMr. SR.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Hi hows this for ironic i have the same prob but the other way around lol. I actualy find you very hot and i love the look of women thats in the 40,s range but i have always liked older women than me the mature look is awsum. ill just say again your beautiful. but as it goes majority of babes like older blokes not younger lol why is that? The majority of the girl friends i have had are older than me (but we both knew there was no relationship goin to happ,n) And they were the best to be with as looks and the looks that goes skin deep. never had a hastle with a woman in there 40,s just great fun because at that age there sick of the young knobs that dont know what they want so stuff them babe. i have seen better bodies on mature women than what i have seen women my age. rock on babe your hot :)
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RHP User
16 years ago
and breast,s too yummo
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RHP User
16 years ago
There are valid points all round, I would not want to sleep with anyone around my child's age nor my parents. Also an amazing coincidence in that I had just said no to a meet with couple who's profile indicated a certain age when in fact a bit older (we recognised the male from a "tame" site). Their reply was "We put down our RHP years". I guess this is to attract younger people??? I just didn't appreciate the porky pie. Just be honest people.There are exceptions to rules when it comes to age and looks. I think everyone should be judged on the qualities they bring to the bedroom. I would consider anyone if they just opened up and said "Hey a bit older but would you consider". I do it when fronting a single or couple when I'm outside their age preference.
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RHP User
16 years ago
It is sooo annoying now I have just turned 41 and now have to push past the question box that says I don't meet this criteria. If you were to meet me you wouldn't put me past 35. I too have a 21yo daughter so under 25 is off limits for me as well. Fab
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RHP User
16 years ago
hi PP we would love to meet u for some fun. our number is listed.
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RHP User
16 years ago
age? your only as old as the woman your feellin.that makes me 0000000. with 41 years experience.ahahahahahahhahahahahahahahahahahahahai am sooooo young, ahahahahahahhahahahahahhaaha.fuck, i've only got the roodog to fall back on. better get my shit together.ahahahahhahahahahahahahhahahahahahahahahhahahahahaEarl
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RHP User
16 years ago
the roodog is a sexual position not a roodog,ahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaEarl
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RHP User
16 years ago
Well it appears that the majority of you don't really have a problem with age, but do you actively look at profiles in an older age bracket, or do you look only around your own ages? I am understanding that you will look only if you have received a hit or message, but not beforehand? If I am correct, why wouldn't you? Sweetiepie2010, I hear exactly where you are coming from - I look nothing like my real age either. I always come clean when meeting with people, and let them decide from there. I have found that some have said that they would not have looked if I had put the real age. Just goes to show that age and looks do count. Unfortunately I have been rejected because of my age - "sorry your not in the age bracket". I certainly don't act or behave like a 40 something, so who would really know? Thanks Checkinout for your comments - given my ego a big boost! PP
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RHP User
16 years ago
have found that older women know what they want and dont muck you around anywhere near as much as younger women. Just our thoughts.
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RHP User
16 years ago
I try not to judge on age alone. I also look at the photos first (but it's hard when there's not face pics in the main gallery... our profile is new and we're yet to take a partial face shot that I'd want publicly displayed...we have full face shots in our PG). I'd prefer NOT to know someone's age.... it's just too easy to be biased. Instead I'm interested in: How fit are you... do you train at the gym / play sport etc; What type of work you do; What are your personal interests; Describe your sexual preferences/fantasies. All of these factors reveal a lot more about a person than their age. I've been with older men (47) who have given me the most mind-blowing orgasms and I've been with younger men who have no clue how to last more than three minutes ! With couples it's a little more tricky as you're trying to balance the sexual preferences of both partners. Ms Fit_Duo
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RHP User
16 years ago
Very nice post this one well done. I have found that most that have frown caution into the air and taken that chance with me were glad that they did and I do know how this sounds and no i do not have tickets on myself,that would be the furtherest from the truth. But hear this there are a lot of younger ppl out there that have good experience sexually but then there still a lot out there that think they do as well and when it comes down to it they really have no idea.But in saying that there are some ut there that have not explored much either in the older brackets. I am and still feel as if I was 21 and I do have something that most my age group have at this point in our lives and that is experience and it can be in a lot of different fields and forms of play something you cannot have when you are or a younger age. We are more patient and attentive to our partners needs. But like i keep saying we are all different. MJ
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RHP User
16 years ago
Age is only a problem if you think it so. I've been the young one, I've been the older one, they've been older, they've been younger and variants in between. Here's what I've found. Maturity has the advantage of wisdom and less likely to complicate things with the "what if" and unsure nature of someone younger. Are usually more applied and more sure about what they want to do and why. Younger people have the advantage in the energy levels, are more spontaneous to suggestion, more willing to take a chance and tighter younger bodies which helps in the area of confidence. Granted, there are exceptions in every age bracket and same age people relate easier, being similar in experience with one another. Sexually speaking there are advantages to be had everywhere if there is an age difference. Invigorating for one who's older and huge knowledge growth for the younger. Attraction and desire tends to overlook difference in body shape or intellectual attributes(initially anyway). I don't see age as an impedence, there's advantages to be enjoyed whether younger or older. But that's me. But I have to ask? What the hell have your parents or offspring got to do with your sex life? I'm not implying anyone is sick here. It's just weird and an unnecessary comparison to invite into any sensual journey in my life anyway, even when I was a young adult, i don't recall it in the equation.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Originally Mr O used to have a fake age on his profile, as he felt it would make a huge difference in how people treated him, even though he doesn't look his age, or act any older than I am - but we always came clean as soon as we met someone. Surprisingly, no-one ever had a problem with it- but once he hit the big 5-0 he decided to come clean, and although we probably do get slightly less messages it doesn't seem to have made that much of a difference!As for our own preferences - although the age isn't relevant, their maturity and appearance does count (sorry if we seem shallow!)
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RHP User
16 years ago
why would age matter in most cases we are looking for play mates when looking for them I actually never look at their age. it’s about a connection a attraction and a desire to learn and find new pleasure but at times that changes when you meet it’s not about that to me it’s what I have to offer I see that most seem to have a age limit being older I also find I have a lot to offer younger cpls and singles that just simply lack experience of someone that does know more guess at the end of the day it just says to keep a open mind and don’t restrict yourself to one flavor try the others you might be pleasantly surprised how good it good be. xx
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