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Swinging? What has it unlocked

July 06 2017

Within you? Perhaps, an inner confidence, the inner sexuality. Or maybe how more socialble you have become. Took away the shy and able to mingle More comfortable with how you carry yourself. .in personal life or at work How has your experience in swinging or the lifestyle brought out something from within that you perhaps thought it was not in you? Lets stick with the positive stuff, the negative stuff can be another forum

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boobsandbusted

8 years ago

With all these topics your not writing a book or one of those institutes ,people are telling in vain to get lost in profiles are you ,lmao Mr b - Posted from rhpmobile

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boobsandbusted

8 years ago

Add in a comma after the word topics I think ,lol,before the gramma police come knocking cos I've caused another headache ,lol - Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

8 years ago

...as shy or bashful as I once was albeit that was at least ''a few'' years ago. I had to Google the correct spelling for bashful...and shy too!

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DynamicCouple36

8 years ago

It has been a liberating experience on so many levels. We have lived out, and experienced fantasies that we never knew we had, adding new ones along the way. We have gained confidence sexually - not feeling shy, naked in a room full of strangers / having sex in a room full of strangers. We have learnt about our own sexuality and tried new things in the process. It's taken our relationship (almost 20 years of marriage) to a whole new level, and has certainly brought us closer and made us stronger , together as a team. We have meet some nice people and we have met some not so nice people. We have had some good and not so good experiences. As a result we have grown & matured. We know clearly what we like and what we dislike. Our likes, dislikes, boundaries, preferences and standards, have evolved, changed & nuanced along the way. It has certainly been an eye opening experience, the past 4 1/2 years here on RHP. - Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

8 years ago

Watch out for those grammer police. They can be real nasty - Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

8 years ago

A constant thought to do it again Quite an amazing experience to have so many naked people in a rom being primal for a lack of a better word - Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

8 years ago

I'm not a swinger apparently 😉 just have sex a lot. So what has it unlocked for me? Being able to have sex with whomever, whenever, with as many as I like, play out fantasies according to what floats my boat on the day, with apparently no judgement 😇 of course the biggie is access to hot young studs. I'm living the dream, actually not at this precise moment in time, other stuff to worry about, but have been. The next step sometime in the next few years is to move to a house on a large block 😉 then it'll be no holes barred 👍

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RHP User

8 years ago

Thanks dynamic..sounds like the experience has changed things.

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RHP User

8 years ago

Quoting 'mango69er' Watch out for those grammer police. They can be real nasty Oi! We can also be really friendly too.

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DynamicCouple36

8 years ago

The latter is a popular English surname and has nothing to do with Grammar :) lol - Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

8 years ago

...wants to join the police force, I'm all for it! She can't knit and hates baking cookies...the old girl needs something to do!

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RHP User

8 years ago

I've learnt so much about myself since starting my swinging journey. I've learnt what my insecurities are and how turn them into positive attitudes instead. Instead of turning away from what scares me, I push myself to try something new often. It's also allowed me to be more social with people in general. I used to be as timid as they come. But I'm finding it easier and easier to start and maintain conversations with others rather than just waiting for conversations to come to me. It also helps that the swinging community here in Perth are very accepting of each other's choices and preferences too. They're an oh so cool, naughty and fun bunch here 😁👍🏻 - Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

8 years ago

It has unlocked an actual (ie not imagined) sex life :p - Posted from rhpmobile

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SexyScorpios

8 years ago

Actively swinging has done our relationship the world of good in many areas and brought us closer than ever, not to mention it can be damn good fun

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RHP User

8 years ago

I assume you mean people that go to swingers clubs, parties and events and partake in partner swapping and group sex. After attending a lot of events I suppose that I am more comfortable being naked around people and (suprisingly) i am not too shy to have sex in front of other people. But it doesn't come naturally to me I don;t think. I haven't been to an event in about 18 month so I am sure I would feel a bit shy at first. Talking to people is fine... stripping off and getting down and dirty takes a bit of getting used to. IT me it was always something I did for a bit of fun, I never saw it as a lifestyle.

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