Swinging Couple Dynamics

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  it enhances things We talk about it in detail as we both see hear and feel different things Almost every conversation ends up with more great sex - Posted from rhpmobile

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  11 years ago

  It's never a " gosh I wish I was with HIM" thought - ever It is more something we do to enhance what we have, I doubt very much there is a guy out there that would compare with what I have in a partner ! Single guys might float my boat for one night - but it takes a whole lot more than that to actually make a relationship or a good thing . Sex is sex , some guys are amazing at the physical but they are purely that for me . - Posted from rhpmobile

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  11 years ago

  Your 100% right.. I see it exactly the way you explained it. I never see myself as a replacement for hubby. That's not what it's all about.. It's about the couple 's trust and the ability to expand your relationship... I find it a compliment if a couple wants to talk about what happened later on...

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  11 years ago

  We don't rehash over and over again. We will discuss privately the next day and night while we satisfy each other but after that time we don't really mention it again. Certainly never to the point of "I wish" and "what if". If that was the case I think we would have some serious issues in our marriage. We have enjoyed experiences since being on RHP this year but nothing has been more satisfying than the intimacy we have together. Our actual experiences, while great, have not rocked our worlds but have allowed us to try ALOT of different things and meet some awesome people. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  11 years ago

  Quoting 'DeliciousCurves' It's never a " gosh I wish I was with HIM" thought - ever It is more something we do to enhance what we have, I doubt very much there is a guy out there that would compare with what I have in a partner ! Single guys might float my boat for one night - but it takes a whole lot more than that to actually make a relationship or a good thing . Sex is sex , some guys are amazing at the physical but they are purely that for me . - Posted from rhpmobile Im glad that ladies can see it this way too......I love the just sex role we single guys play - and if we can add other value that's a real bonus, or soooo to speak..... SAx

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  11 years ago

  Quoting 'frednmary1980' it enhances things We talk about it in detail as we both see hear and feel different things Almost every conversation ends up with more great sex - Posted from rhpmobil Its nice to know that we the "single guys" are thought of in that way - I find that thought a real turn on. Dearie me im naughty :)

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  11 years ago

  Quoting 'frednmary1980' it enhances things We talk about it in detail as we both see hear and feel different things Almost every conversation ends up with more great sex - Posted from rhpmobile ooops sorry --------- Its nice to know that we the "single guys" are thought of in that way - I find that thought a real turn on. Dearie me im naughty :)

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  11 years ago

  Quoting 'frednmary1980' it enhances things We talk about it in detail as we both see hear and feel different things Almost every conversation ends up with more great sex - Posted from rhpmobile Its never about replacing as mentioned above, as the bond between us is more intimate than anyone might be able to replace....... and true if it was about an alternative desire, our marriage and relationship would not have lasted till now and doubt it would in the future - thankfully we have met some nice chaps and hope to find one who has the same perspective in appreciating us as we would hope with them - mutual fun and respect...

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  11 years ago

  Quoting 'Curiousplay1980' We don't rehash over and over again. We will discuss privately the next day and night while we satisfy each other but after that time we don't really mention it again. Certainly never to the point of "I wish" and "what if". If that was the case I think we would have some serious issues in our marriage. We have enjoyed experiences since being on RHP this year but nothing has been more satisfying than the intimacy we have together. Our actual experiences, while great, have not rocked our worlds but have allowed us to try ALOT of different things and meet some awesome people. - Posted from rhpmobile ========================== Wow what a great post, a lovely & valuable insight shared - thank you.

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  i love playing with couples only issue being i need to connect with the guy first then work on the connection with the woman closer to the time we initially meet. i follow a strict no meet, no play policy to ensure we are all on the same page. im as straight as they come but feel if i don't connect with the guy it just gets awkward and i start getting nervous. especially when they say they are ready to play with me. from a couples perspective is what i do weird. sorry to hijack the post. i too want to understand couple dynamics

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  11 years ago

  Quoting 'polys' Quoting 'frednmary1980' it enhances things We talk about it in detail as we both see hear and feel different things Almost every conversation ends up with more great sex - Posted from rhpmobile Its never about replacing as mentioned above, as the bond between us is more intimate than anyone might be able to replace....... and true if it was about an alternative desire, our marriage and relationship would not have lasted till now and doubt it would in the future - thankfully we have met some nice chaps and hope to find one who has the same perspective in appreciating us as we would hope with them - mutual fun and respect... This is a great post and insight. Its critical to the single participating guy to be respected in reciprocation, and have mutual fun......

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