Swingers Club for 1st time

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  This question was asked today and has had some good responses. http://www.redhotpie.com.au/Adult-Forums/What-could-I-expect-from-a-swingers-club-39399 - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  For a first timer? I would wear what you are comfortable in... But something sexy and shows of your body. Killer high heels maybe. If you are going to play and don't want to get fully nude or don't want to walk around in the sarong They provide take some sexy lingerie and wear that. That's what I do. My sexy lace lingerie dress and my very very high heels. ;-) For the guys... No jeans or sneakers. I hate it when a guy is not dressed well.... NEXT! - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  Hey Meeka, Thanks for the advice on what to wear. I really want to blend in and feel comfortable so you reply is much appreciated. I posted my question and whilst waiting for it to be accepted I saw the other open forum re: what to expect. All info is greatly received. I now need to take the plunge and go and have fun ;-)- Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  With an open mind, and enjoy the moment. The "good" clubs are not sleazy and the majority of the patrons abide by the rules. We enjoy going to the theme nights as they're a lot of fun, with a good variety of people attending. As Meeka said, wear something a little sexy, but not over the top as you could attract to much attention, which might be a little daunting first time round. Before you go in, set your rules between the both of you, and most of all, enjoy the night.

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  Quoting 'Meeka100' For a first timer? I would wear what you are comfortable in... But something sexy and shows of your body. Killer high heels maybe. If you are going to play and don't want to get fully nude or don't want to walk around in the sarong They provide take some sexy lingerie and wear that. That's what I do. My sexy lace lingerie dress and my very very high heels. ;-) For the guys... No jeans or sneakers. I hate it when a guy is not dressed well.... NEXT! - Posted from rhpmobile Mrs C typically prefers a short easy access skirt with some nice knickers underneath (at least for a while). It's always a hit. But what do I wear? Sexy is hard for those of us not into leather. Any suggestions Meeka?I normally start out in some (good looking) jeans, and a tight t-shirt and some tidy whiteys for later on. Hasn't been a complete failure ;)To the OP - dont expect anything except some friendly people and a bit more nudity than you're used to at the night club. There is never any pressure and you can get as involved or not as you please. Dont go with any expectations, make sure you are clear what you are comfortable with, and really make sure you are clear that either party can stop the party at any time (so you never feel any implied pressure to please your partner or anyone else). And have fun!Mr C

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  Thanks Mr C Killer high heels is a must! Still not sure on short skirt/dress or see baby doll (lingerie) dress. I'm actually quite new to all this, so looking forward to meeting some people who will help me explore my boundaries in a relaxed and fun environment. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  Thanks for all the advice, it is much appreciated. I will definitely be wearing killer heels and I bought a bright blue string dress last night which I love. I might wear it as a top with a short skirt then take the skirt off if feel comfortable. I thought I had it all sorted until I searched the net last night and found out they are having a super hero theme! Can someone please tell me... Will most people be in theme clothes and will I look out of place if I'm not? Thanks :-) - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  my sugggestion would be to add a cape..... theme nights are the best! You will have a ball ; )

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  hi , i think were going to the same party (super hero) :) ... its our first time to a swingers club too ,as too what to wear hubby and i arnt going to be in a hero costume but will be an outfit that i feel comfortable in considering im going to be out of my comfort zone will have to say hi on saturday night :)

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  So, how did it all turn out people?

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  I'm interested to know also.. How did it go?

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  How do you find out where these parties are held? I'm new to this and really don't know where to start :-)

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  Look at the events section. That's a good start. :D

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  Just remember parties can vary a lot. Some will have you leaving in 5 minutes after you get there and others will be a blast. So don't loose heart, jut attend a few events and talk to people that way you will learn your way around the scene. Depends on what you are after but I would start with a established swingers club first .. Try a few different nights then maybe go into parties from there.

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