RHP

RHP User

M39

Submissive and dominant

October 25 2018

Have met a chick who is really submissive/bratty . This sort of stuff is new to me and I’m after some advice, do’s, do not’s. Some general guidance from more experienced people would be greatly appreciated. Cheers - Posted from rhpmobile

Comments

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    ...surely you must already know how to throw a lasso then bind them in a three-legged tie in under 30 seconds? Not saying you treat 'em like cattle but damn sho' thang young son...ya'all can then treat 'em like a steak and eat 'em before yer done! *waves*...bet cha'll are glad to see me back, eh? Lie and say yes...just do it!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Cheers mate much appreciated - Posted from rhpmobile

  • HarleyQandMrO

    HarleyQandMrO

    7 years ago

    Hi Brently Both me and my husband are experienced Dom's and absolutely love what we do. We always do consultations before we take on any sub, we find out as much as possible, D/S relationships is about trust and pushing boundaries, but if you don't know what their likes / dislikes are, you can easily go overboard and break any trust you have built up. I suggest, as recommended earlier, reading up on BDSM, but also sitting down with your partner and finding out what really gets her off, what her hard and soft kinks are, everyone is so different and if you don't ask, you will never really know if you are doing the right thing, you have also got to be comfortable, so you have to let her know what you are happy with. With practice, it will be second nature and you will be keeping her in her place, just as she likes. Have fun ;0) Harley Q

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    I’m so pleased to read you’re interested in learning more to understand what she’s into. So many people are narrow minded and make judgement with no knowledge or understanding. Fetlife is great for reading material, not so good for meeting people in my experience. Google will keep you busy, Heaps of blogs, pages, information and reading material available. So many informative books available as well. Good luck and have fun. You’ll find a whole new work down this little rabbit hole 🕳 Just remember, stick to what you’re comfortable with too. A brat can be demanding and want more and definitely wants to be pushed, so discuss openly before doing anything you’re unsure about. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Google google google! - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Cheers I’ll do and it’s all interesting to me. Nothing gained if nothing is tried - Posted from rhpmobile