Stumbling across your ex on RHP

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  RHP User

  7 years ago

  Ok Take a deep breath Our advice- remove any pics that identify you If people do not understand your need for privacy they aren’t worth your time anyway. So many will tell you that if you aren’t happy to show yourself then it must mean you’re ashamed blah blah blah Your actual life values are yours alone to decide what’s comfortable with limits about identity There are many people in the same situation that will totally understand your panic Those that pop-pop your need for discretion are not on the same page as you so probably not a good match :) Nothing wrong with those who don’t feel the same way about identity here- just in a different mindset :) Best of luck x Mrs LAL

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  RHP User

  7 years ago

  Pop pop is in actual fact poo poo if I turned off autocorrect

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  RHP User

  7 years ago

  I’m going to hunt down anyone that comments on the pop pop 😂😂😂

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  RHP User

  7 years ago

  The weasel beats a tactical retreat. 🤐

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  MsSuperFoxy

  7 years ago

  This happens a lot, you're not alone. If she uses it against you, that is her problem. She "may" use it as a bargaining tool for her gain and blackmail. However, it will not be used as evidence, as it's not a criminal offence. You do nothing. Best thing to do is block her and get on with your own lives. What she does on here as a single profile, is not your concern. She's here just like you and allowed to be. Ms Foxy

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  RHP User

  7 years ago

  The onus would be on him to prove that due to your involvement here, you no longer provide a safe and healthy environment for the child....I believe.... But I’m no solicitor....

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  FeistyFatty

  7 years ago

  Calm down is what you do....... your male friend is not breaking the law.

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  RHP User

  7 years ago

  I would imagine that, in the unlikely event that the ex-Mrs decided to somehow take some kind of legal action against the ex-Mr for getting on with his life after 2 years, the question would doubtless be asked of ex-Mrs - so what were you doing there?

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  egr2please69

  7 years ago

  LAL2, since i'm not allowed to pop pop, can i bang bang instead 😂😂😂😂 Divorce is a tangled web and if he is unsure then remove the obvious identifyable pictures back to a private gallery and move on. Don't poke the bear if you don't need to lol

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  Rlee552

  7 years ago

  Being on this site is not illegal and is between consenting adults. There might be an embarrassment factor ... but unless his profile describes some questionable potentially unkawful factors ... or mentions he can host only when his children are asleep, what’s the issue. Plus she is on it as well.

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  Rlee552

  7 years ago

  If his profile is one of those profiles which claims I used to be a couoles profile but I don’t know how to turn it to a single male profile or remove all of the pictures of my ex wife. And I don’t want to create a new profile as all my friends are on this profile 🤔

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  WASatisfied

  6 years ago

  She can’t “use it against him” without revealing that she’s using the same site

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  RHP User

  6 years ago

  If you have an imminent divorce, court and you have children involved I’d delete my profile. I’ve seen it used in court, again it’s not illegal to be here but some people like to paint the picture that you are someone you are not. Even if they are here as well. PM me I can tell you more finer details.

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