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Starting That Ball Rolling...

August 02 2009

Do you know what I'm talking about...making that first move, starting the ball rolling, crossing that boundary of social convention which we follow in our everday vanilla lives. We all know what we are here for, when we meet with another couple, we know, but that knowledge, well at least for me, doesn't make it any easier to push that envelope, to initiate the first step which will lead to a physical coupling with someone other than my partner. Maybe that fear...that release of adrenaline at the thought of making first contact is what titlllates me so...it is a powerful charge...like standing at the open door of the airplane before you jump out...freefalling until your parachute opens and safely takes you the remainder of the way to the ground. It's heady and surreal - a potent drug which promises illicit pleasure in it's use. I have both passively waited for someone else to make the first move and on other occasion, tentatively made that first move myself and in both scenarios it is the same, a suspended time of heightened senses where my heart races like some mad thing. It seems almost silly, because of course, by that stage, the meet and greet is well and truly out of the way, we know all parties are keen, and yet it still remains for me the hardest thing...to get that ball rolling.

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RHP User

16 years ago

hi, its the female of citysex here. i do know what you mean, and there can be that period of awkwardness when you're both with another couple for example and you know there's mutual interest but how do you move it from chatting on the lounge to being naked in the bedroom so to speak? i guess we're lucky is that we, my male partner and i, are both out-going personalities so one of us will normally say "shall we all go get undressed and go to a room now?" -its normally me - (which is what we say when meet couples at swingers clubs we like to go to) and it always works!! or i will ask the girl if i can kiss her - i already know she's bi-sexual or bi-curious as thats why we've met - once we girls start kissing the ice is definitely broken and we are all soon naked together in a room!! try it - dont be afraid to be more outgoing. its liberatng!! kxx

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RHP User

16 years ago

I know exactly what you mean. It's good to feel that way because it is a sign of high arousal and desire. In the end, just reaching out and touching an arm or hand can release the flood. As very "touchy/feely" people who love kissing, stroking, licking and everything else that goes with very pleasurable human encounters (of the third, fourth and fifth kind, hopefully) we love this kind of flirty contact before going on for the main meal.Ric and Sue

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16 years ago

In our early days we have sat around for hours waiting for someone to make the first move, Now the lady here comes up with things like.."Do you have coffee at your place"... "Lets go then" Then out of the blue comes up with .."Are we going to do anything....Lets play" That normally does the trick, Its good when the girls take control .. A game of strip poker can be fun and builds the anticapation, its about the whole experiance leading into the bedroom as well as the fun in the bedroom! Cheers

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