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Speed dating

March 30 2010

I read an article reviewing speed dating and the comment was made "a wide variety of guys but they all asked the same questions". Now I assume they were the normal boring questions of "what do you do?"; "where did you grow up?"; "whats your shoe size?". But that is my assumption only. If you have been speed dating (girls or guys) what are boring questions that everyone asks that you hate hearing? Also what are some of the great questions that really opened up conversation or made the night fun?

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  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    I have done it a couple of times and swore I would never do it again..... but they offered it for free so I went again.............dumb move the questions: What do you like to do in our spare time? My answer.....Nude sunbaking............usually leaves them speechless lol What do you do for a living? boring and on and on it goes............sometimes 8 minutes can feel like a lifetime. If you want to give it a go I would recommend lots of alcohol.............beer goggles always help good luck (sorry for being negative about it)

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Well... An interesting person directs the conversation so that a lad needn't ask boring questions. We, no matter what your gender, all revert to boring questions when the conversation is dull..... so who can be blamed? Hugs Stalky

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    I tried that a few weeks ago...a compliment..to her..I must not have been her type as she kept her hubby away from me all night.. hahahahahaha.. huggies sweetpetite41 xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    I will be the interesting one... sooooo ... help me get the right questions to ask here boys and girls ..... I like to stand out from the crowd .. as some of you will know :)Capital .. you are always so polite and really decent in whatever you say ...xxxStalky ... pearls of wisdom please :) xxSlowhands ..... mmmm babeee... love the profile .. fancy moving my way :) xxxxSassy (feeling just a smidge frisky )

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Yep I have done it in fact I did it twice why I went the second time GOD KNOWS. . . Yep same old tiring questions People pumping up their own tyres And more useless dribble. But hang around because afterwards (well the two I went too) everyone stayed for drinks and that is when you meet the real person & I actually did meet a couple of nice people that way. Would I do it again NO A CHANCE IN HELL they are so fucking boring its painful.

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    See my friend Sasyme hs confidence in me...hhhhaha Love you too hun...lolz! huggies sweetpetite41<< xxxxxxxxxxx

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Think i would be find it to intense, and 8 minutes whoa so little time. I am not surprised most guys ask the same questions, what else would you expect...maybe something along the lines of  Hi my name is Nev....so if my soil had a pH of 4.8 but the magnesium was ok.. should i use Lime or Dolomite...?Or...So do you Know much about the fight game?...Her..No...Him...Ok I am the world champion!(about last night)Or....So after we have sex tonight what will you cook me for breakfast.Or... How do you like your eggs in the morning.....fertilized or not?But seriously i couldn't keep a straight face with any of these...Cheers Nev...............Use the Lime Luke. (just in case someone asks!)

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    i would start with something totally and utterly inane...see if they liked my sense of humour...if they laughed...well, once someone is laughing, it's not hard to keep them laughing...OH?....you want some opening lines...hmmm...let me see....one of my favourites is....is...is....is....fcuk...i've just forgot it...sorry...grinsjose...

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    You..."Do you know that I have a bad memory?"She..."You do?"You..."I do what?"Jose...

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    A mate of mine from my military days went to one recently. Now this guy is 40, according to women, very handsome, athletic, articulate (yes he is the whole package - damn I hate him lol). He got pressured into going and decided to try to be the least desirable male there. He turned up in a nice suit, well turned out and during the early stage, was polite, charming, even a little shy. But the fun started when the questions started to flow:Her: What do you do for a job?Him: Oh I kill people, preferably in groups (he is a F/A-18 pilot and instructor BTW lol)Him: Do you have a sister?Her: Yes, she is still in High SchoolHim: Do you think she would date me, I like them youngHer: Do you date much?Him: No I prefer one night stands, that why I don't have to learn namesHer: If we were to go out to dinner, where would we go?Him: Where ever you want, after all you are paying!Strange thing, he still got the highest marks of all the men, even though he got abused for being a chauvinistic, racist dinosaur lol Maybe all the women thought they could change him lol

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Good work Mooka!

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    can i have his number hehe just thought id get in before the other ladies lol roxxy xxx

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    See a guy can act like a total arsehole but if he looks good, he is in like flynn. And you women call us guys superficial pmsl

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    so mooka...your saying he is cute too???? bonus...lol roxxy xxx...wondering where that number is

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    lmao@ roxy! errmmmm...does he visit WA? LOLZ..... sweetpetite41xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Thank you all for your great comments. As I suspected the key is to stand out - if only as the arrogant bastard after a quick one rather than the sweet guy asking about what school you went to - the room is full of those. The only way to find out is to go for it. Checklist: Wash, shave, wear clean clothes, good shoes, brush teeth, glint in eye, illegally park Ferrari at door 2 minutes before start. List of questions to avoid - what do you do, where did you grow up, what school did you go to, what movies do you like, do you like to travel. Attitude to take: Have fun - be playful - be outcome independent (who gives a f* if they like me or not) List of answers to avoid giving - pretty much everything above - work school family - that can be discussed when there is more time and in appropriate depth. Never give a straight answer. Be memorable. At the end tell prettiest girl: You REALLY need a lift home - coming?

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    You made a fatal mistake in your planning, The Prettiest girl is the one you avoid! Go for the Cheekiest/Warmest/most engaging girl!Cheers Nev

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    I am really really shallow however ;)