RHP

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Single guys with couples profiles...

April 09 2012

Just wondering how other couples handle couples that seem keen on meeting, then it is disclosed that only the male half is interested in meeting? Have any couples actually met just the man from a couples profile when this happens? We politely reply that we would prefer to wait until they are both interested in meeting... and have not heard back from any of these supposed couples (out of more than 30 times this has happened) which leads us to believe that they were single guys posing as a couple to begin with...

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    How to handle, when we used to swing we always insisted on the girls talking on the phone prior to any meet. Suggest you try same!Sorts the wheat from the chaff real quick!I reckon 98% of the time, a single guy claiming to be a part of a mutually interested couple...is just... bull pucky!Cheers Felonius......

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    There is never any meet arranged until I have spoken to a lady on the phone and we arrange it together. As far as I'm concerned, we ladies will make the arrangements and the men can do as they're told. Strange though, when it comes to having sex, that's about the only time they do as they're told.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Men posing as a couple contact single women too.....weird......when I asked one man if his partner was there to speak to, he replied that she was asleep in the other room...it was 7pm....maybe they are attached and just like to keep their options open,or are still trying to convince their partners to wake up.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    We know which side our bread is buttered on! Cheers Felonius

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    I know they do it but I just don't get why. What on earth do they hope to achieve with a fake couples profile? I guess they could try and pull something off like that movie Mrs doubtfire and play the part of the male and female. Racing off to the bathroom each time to get dressed up as one or the other LOL . There has been times when the Male 1/2 of the fake couple hasn't been that bad and if they had just contacted Jane as a single they might have actually gotten somewhere .Because of the 1/2 couple and dreamer style members . We now tend to cut to get to the real communication( Phone and meeting in person) sooner rather than later. Saves a lot of wasted time online talking to some one pretending to be a couple.Tim

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Delete and block that's what we do. People who say only male can make it? Blocked. People who seem unnecessarily difficult to meet (within reason)? Blocked. People with poor communication skills? Blocked. 5 messages, no face pix? Blocked. It's not hard to get blocked from us lol. Been around long enough, seen all the tricks.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    i use to get contacted by the male side of couples a lot....it soon becomes obvious they are just men and there is no woman at all....i always found it funny because ive never done couple so it was a waste of time contacting me anyway, he would have been better off contacting me as a single man   men are clueless sometimes lol   Hugs

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    isnt this the same as an attached guy or gal posing as a single? for whatever reason? we think so....... its deceiving...especially when you are looking for a 'single' playmate.......if you are seeking a 'couple'......the profile should be that of a couple.... its only fair........

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Mrs .Doubtfire Tim,soo on the money!! Also reminded me of the film Sybil, the character had multiple personalities.   I think you have finally solved the mystery of the singlemalecouple,xHugsH

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    We can sense it pretty quick now !!! Within a message maybe at worst two ........It is also why we will only meet at couples clubs ........ Simple single guys can't get in ! .It also means if we all dont get along - which happens - its not always a wasted night..There are people that dont want to meet at clubs but heck we can miss out on those ones as well..Brae

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    We are new to the whole scene but trying to find some one at best ha it seems as soon as 6pm comes and the wife g/f gets home they are no longer as sociable.... And when sex isnt promised well all of a sudden they have to get up early so goodnight....... Thats why we are starting to look at some of these clubs mmm they seem ok but how to know ?? i wouldnt want to go to the expence of a hotel room in the city only to find a hand full of couples there ???? Any guidance would be great as we have the kids being baby sat on sat night and i want to take my sexxxy wife out and make sure she has a great time .Not ruing the experience she had and to never go again ADZ

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    I think some live in hope that the other half may get interested, others cling to a failed relationship and will not let go. What I find offensive is that the many of these couple profiles have images of both, mostly the lady on their profile and I have sent a few strongly worded replies. I bet most of the time she does not even know that the private images taken on a night of passion are now being used as a means to get a quick root. Shame shame shame...I have a couples profile but when the relationship failed I removed her images and changed the profile to indicate the facts. BTW to many lies on sites like these, always take everything with a pinch of salt.