Shall we adjourn

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  Why complicate things?Be playful, casual touch during conversation plus games, allows for escalation.Take someones hand, lead them where you want, and DO what you're thinking of doing.They can always say 'no'....but youve decided to come together for a reason, right?! So be BOLD...... act with initiative.Dont overthink things.DG

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  For us we like the other couple to make the 1st move especially the lady- to us it shows they are keen and that they want us,not just well where here lets do it kinda thing. It also allows us to get a sense of how they want things to progress- slow,fast,sensual etc and then from there its all systems go :)

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  Cheekyarses

  13 years ago

  I have found in the many times we have played I seem to be the person who starts the playing! I have walked out in sexy lingerie n high heels.... I have cooked dinner in an apron only.... I have played sex games n push the boundaries I have just gotten naked n said 'lets fuck' I have just gone up to one of the ppl in a couple n just kissed them n felt them all over.... The wonderful memories..... Mrs cheeky xxx Oh n I have gotten out toys or the camera lol

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  The butterflies, the yearning, feeling sexy, verbally being told I'm sexy, holding holds hands, the touch here and there, fuck me eyes look, a passionate kiss, the flirting as well as all that!!! ;-) Yep love that just like a teenager all over again..awwwwwww love it. I also like doing that to whom ever I am with as long as feeling is "mutual" and connection there and I feel safe enough. They have to be special as I just can't have sex with just anyone.. So I guess if its "mutual" he'll yeah "LETS F*CK...again and again and again. Foxy- Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  Just cant seem to get past first base....maybe I need to nail the door shut so they cant run

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  Paradisepair

  13 years ago

  I always find just taking your clothes off does the trick.

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  Mr_MrsJones

  13 years ago

  I love Cheekyarses reply. If you wait for the other person to make the first move and they are waiting for YOU to make the first move you could be waiting a very long time. Much better to bite the bullet, take off some clothing or flash some bits and get the ball rolling. Having said that, it can be easier said than done.Mrs Jones.

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  Quoting 'Mr_MrsJones' I love Cheekyarses reply. If you wait for the other person to make the first move and they are waiting for YOU to make the first move you could be waiting a very long time. Much better to bite the bullet, take off some clothing or flash some bits and get the ball rolling. Having said that, it can be easier said than done.Mrs Jones. It took us almost 5 YEARS to get that far with one couple on here (you know who you are! lol) because neither of us could read the signals properly and it had got to the point where we didn't want to jeopardise the friendship we'd built during that time. We should have known better and realised the friendship would have handled it...and when we did FINALLY get our timings right it was well worth the wait, although we were kicking ourselves over the time we wasted ;)

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  Totally Agree with SoulsinSync lolBut I think you just need to be up front, some people are more forward then others, I also think it does come down to the women to give the green light but don't drag out the night and waste some fun time.Whats the worse thing someone is going to say? no? If its a no move on, But if you are chatting online for a while and the photo's are real, maybe you should make a plan for when you meet? few drinks wink and a nudge then everyone who's a bit shy know's it going to happen, don't be afraid to make the first move.5 years is a long wait lol

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  Quoting 'mayBtempted' Totally Agree with SoulsinSync lolBut I think you just need to be up front, some people are more forward then others, I also think it does come down to the women to give the green light but don't drag out the night and waste some fun time.Whats the worse thing someone is going to say? no? If its a no move on, But if you are chatting online for a while and the photo's are real, maybe you should make a plan for when you meet? few drinks wink and a nudge then everyone who's a bit shy know's it going to happen, don't be afraid to make the first move.5 years is a long wait lol Well, MaybTempted, I hope you walk that talk.... :) 5 years was a VERY long wait. I'll be making sure Mrs SinS takes your advice ;)

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  We love having people over for dinner. Sharing a meal is a great way to get to know another couple. You start the evening perhaps a little earlier than you would if you were meeting for drinks out somewhere so you have more time to flirt and break the ice. We met some people recently who after dinner, engaged in some sexy games which really enhanced the fun as there was a good escalation of events. They just found a cool wheel spin game for the iPad, which we of course downloaded which takes the play from innocent flirtation to full on fun and can be customised for as many people and sexuality combinations as you like.So yea, dinner, flirting and sexy games makes for a fantastic night and great sex!

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  And Maybtempted does wallk that talk! : ) I have been known to turn up the heat on many occasions. One of my favourite ice breakers for a small group is to ask the guys to remove a piece of clothing, and if they do then us girls will do the same.... it normally starts with shoes and socks! lol but evenutally you get down to not much and the party starts!

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  We have hosted quite a few naughty parties One that never fails to get things moving along is when she says "I'm going upstairs to brush my teeth and when I come down I'll be naked and so had better everyone else be". She has a 100% success rate ... Not subtle but effective

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  Hey guys, keep us in mind when you are having your next party xo

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