RHP

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Seeing a couple

November 15 2019

Recently had my first experience off here with an amazing couple. Just wondering what’s the etiquette around how often you catch up together? Don’t want to wear my welcome out but do want to foster more experiences with them! - Posted from rhpmobile

Comments

  • FeistyFatty

    FeistyFatty

    6 years ago

    If they're inviting you, how're you "wearing out your welcome"? If you're keen then enjoy. When they've had enough they'll tell you and move on👍🏻

  • Tara72

    Tara72

    6 years ago

    I think the answer to this depends entirely upon the preferences of yourself and the couple concerned, whether you're looking for something ongoing, meaningful, or merely convenient... to my way of thinking, if you are looking to build something more meaningful over time then you should not consider yourself to be a 3rd wheel at all, but someone who is welcome to impose themselves as needed, on an equal basis... but every situation is different. Also, the key to any successful relationship, even an unconventional one, is good communication, so you should feel comfortable putting this question to them directly. Be bold, so you can replace the fear and anxiety of guesswork with the comfort of knowing. Just my 2c worth :) Best of luck

  • SSExplorer

    SSExplorer

    6 years ago

    I agree with what Tara says. We have recently met a lovely woman, it’s our first experience with a single woman and we both really like her in and out of the bedroom. We are still feeling each other out to where it may go. We are acutely aware that our time is dominated by our kids but we don’t want her feeling like a “third wheel” or “plaything” unless that’s what she wants to be. Like any relationship on its early days we have a lot to learn about each other and where we fit. It’s exciting and we hope to foster something really special. I’d say just be really open with them, tell them exactly how you feel and ask how they are feeling about you and where they see it going. Also tell them about your needs. Do you all want it to be exclusive or are you happy to all get your thrills elsewhere as well?

  • Verypicky

    Verypicky

    6 years ago

    Just keep banging them while you have the opportunity, that's why they are on here 😉😏

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    It’s all exciting with a new play partner They will let you know when or if it’s too much Enjoy while you can!