Same room same partner

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  DynamicCouple36

  9 years ago

  A potential problem with same room sex, at a swingers club (assuming it is in an open room and not one with a lockable door ) is that you may end up with several (or more) watchers. The problem arises (and we talk from experience) is when the watchers start talking loudly about all sorts of things (the footy, weather ) passing commentary about the action and then attempting to direct the action. And then as the excitement builds, one finds that they can't keep their hands (and other external body parts) to themselves .... At a swingers club, best to find a compatible couple, and retire to a lockable room where you can have fun without being interrupted. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  I'm going to agree and say your best bet is a swingers club, find one that has a door that can be closed and it's all about the two couples in the room. At the end of the day, find a couple that you are both interested in and be open about what you want, discuss needs and desires and see if you are all on the same page. This was our first experience (same room Sex no swaps and the girls played) and it was amazing!!! - Posted from rhpmobile

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  Aristippusx2

  9 years ago

  Welcome Coupleslust. If we may add to the wonderful advice already stated. As with vanilla friends start off at your pace.Communicate without overcommitting.Provide further details of yourselves and how you prefer to interact.You choose how and when you wish to advance your enjoyment.Most importantly communicate with your partner and set boundaries. Enjoy the experience Mr and Mrs A

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  boobsandbusted

  9 years ago

  Lockable door is the best advice ever ,even if it's just playing by yourselves for a while ,until you feel ok enough to open it ,and go with your feelings from there - Posted from rhpmobile

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  usnow

  9 years ago

  Why don't you set up a mattress in front of the big TV , put on an X rated dvd with a couple playing and go your hardest .If your lady just wants to play with another lady just say so , don't use the same room , same partner as your disguise .

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  DynamicCouple36

  9 years ago

  What makes you think that the OP is using anything / anyone as a disguise ? Your statements just don't make sense - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  This is a wind up right?...........the learning curve here isn't too steep, you are registered on a sex site. Go to the date finder and register your date that stipulates "no swap" etc. There are plenty of couples out there that share your kink. Try something more intimate to start with as opposed to the sex club avenue which is a hard core place to begin any adventure and can be confronting for new couples like you. On the date finder you get to vet your prospective partners and build up some compatibility prior to the meet. Going to a Hotel room where its you and the other couple is a nicer option because the atmosphere and pace is dictated by you and the other couple. The hotel room is a normalized, civilized environment as opposed to the sex club where you have to find a lockable room and if you are sensible that should raise alarm bells. Personally there is quite a contradiction in needing a lockable room and enjoying intimacy. Our first second third fourth mfm was in a hotel room and they were all amazing because we were relaxed in a lovely environment that was familiar and that made it very memorable, having room service delivering ice, an extra bath robe etc made it all the more better. Sex clubs when they have their "newbies" nights have all the rooms locked and there is no on site sex as entry is free. This may be ok to find like minded couples to have a fun night out, get some contacts etc but the date finder already does that for you.

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  boobsandbusted

  9 years ago

  Not saying we do now ,said its how we started easing ourselves in ,and keeping thing under our control ,without going out of either of depths ,who cares anyway as long as we were having fun and not wasting anyone's time including our own ,which we have next to none of these days ,it may sound wrong to you but not everyone is up to actual organising dates, and finding out something is off kilter and not want to go through with the date ,and say no but thanks anyway at the end ,that just feels mean and the thought of that just leaves a bad feeling in us ,yes we are all grown ups ,lol.but we all have had different growing up experiences ,that effect the way we look at things ,so it's a horses for courses thing , - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  Love Social Suicide's comment. Touche. We are on a sex site are we not. Oh well each to their own we say tahts what makes the lifestyle great in some way but then again some aren't into each to their own and if your not of the same opinion you are bagged.

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  I agree boobs_or_bust. Mind you not many places have lockable doors. Pretty rare from what I have seen. Not sure what the we are on a sex site comments are supposed to mean? Give people advice and they can take what suits them from each comment

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  ..." Not sure what the we are on a sex site comments are supposed to mean", it means " Go to the date finder and register your date that stipulates "no swap" etc. There are plenty of couples out there that share your kink. " cant get clearer than that.

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  On_Safari

  9 years ago

  Naturally.....you'll know when you're ready and how to go about things. A couple here may take you under their wings even.....ease you both into it. Friends can be amazing here .... ~ Indy

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