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M51 F46

Same partner same room

April 01 2018

Hi there everyone. We’ve been on here for a little while, checking out the forums. Exploring our sexual identities is part of our bucket list, and while we both share the fantasy of so much more we’ve been thinking that maybe same partner same room sex is a great way to ease into things. Safety and comfort is a big thing for both of us, as well as safety (personal, emotional, physical and sexual). Love to hear about your own experiences and thoughts. Ciao and hope that you’re all enjoying a wonderful, if not fun Easter. B&A - Posted from rhpmobile

Comments

  • Rlee552

    Rlee552

    8 years ago

    The great thing is you have the freedom to choose what you enjoy and turns you both on. To explore this side of your nature. Don’t be surprised though if same partner, same room sex develops into something more. So key is to communicate - where both your boundaries lie should you want to take it further. But also the freedom to pull out at any stage. These are conversations to be had beforehand where you feel less pressure. Otherwise, have a great journey.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Yep we’re thinking the same thing, nice n slow but still pushing boundaries in a comfortable and safe fashion - Posted from rhpmobile

  • curiousnhorny05

    curiousnhorny05

    8 years ago

    As someone who’s just started the journey. Do whatever makes you feel comfortable. Find someone who can take the lead a little might help. Just start where you are comfortable and go step by step. Keep the expectations low but also be open for more. The key is the right person or couple joining you. There’s no space for pressure and that type of stuff. Also having a good conversation over drinks about what you want to get out of things. What’s your no go zones, what do you want to do. Give them ideas about how to get you started. Enjoy the process it can be lots of fun! - Posted from rhpmobile

  • FredAndGinger2

    FredAndGinger2

    8 years ago

    The ESSENTIAL GUIDE for Adventurous Couples by Chantelle Austin This book helps a couple to understand and discuss all the essential aspects of couples swinging. We highly recommend it. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • Southernnude

    Southernnude

    8 years ago

    It's a great way to enjoy yourself at a leave you are comfortable with. We enjoy forplay with another couple then watching and being watched.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Like you guys we joined this site wanting to explore our voyer/exhibitionist desires. We are not keen on swapping or sharing but as one of the posts above says who knows what will happen as you develop this. So far on this journey we are yet to meet people with like interests. Most on sites like RHP who have ticked the same room option also want to go further - no criticism of this just not what we are seeking. Swingers clubs seem like our only real option (well on the couples/gals only nights - lol). Youve also got to feel comfortable with the people you meet too - and thats not always easy! Good Luck

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Thanks for the great feedback and comments everyone. It’s great to know we’re not too different from many others out there. 😊 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • Skyn2Skin

    Skyn2Skin

    8 years ago

    Hey guys, we hear you! Been there. Get in touch to discuss if you feel comfortable to! :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    be comfortable...go at your own pace..avoid those that make you feel pressured......its important to remember too that if you are going to get the best out of an opportunity sometimes it requires effort and leaving your comfort zone.

  • bearstogether

    bearstogether

    8 years ago

    We only play same room same couple find it hard at times to meet, s it seems everyone wants to shag someone else and stops us from being active. - Posted from rhpmobile