Safety in numbers....

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  Hell most can tell within the first couple of minutes of meeting if things are going well or not.  If things aren't going well, just be honest about it.  Finish your drink, politely explain that things aren't going as well as first envisaged, and leave.   The only thing that can happen from lying is more lies will have to be uttered in the future to continue the cover-up.

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  Nah Mike..... usually I wait for them to finish berating me and while theyre catching their breathe fro another enslaught, I leave.   Hugs Stalky

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  The best way it to be more disturbed and stalkerlike than they are.  If they are scared of your clear dysfunctions, you should be safe.

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  He took someone home to his house, did the deed then couldn't get rid of them. So he went into another room, called his home phone from his mobile, left the mobile in the other room and pretended he needed to go to work. he was a baker, so the 5 am start wasn't unusual.   He was then able to call a cab, pretended to leave the same time as her, drove around the block and made the most of his sleep.   Haven't tried it myself but had to give him credit for good thinking.

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  I was after everyone elses teqhniques...and that's just what I got! ;) personally if it's not going well I like to pretend there's a mosquito near my ear about every 10 seconds. It works, what can I say? No really, I think the phone call 30 mins in works pretty well for 2 reasons: 1. You will be perceived as rude for answering it, especially if you don't excuse yourself first. 2. Even the dullest flames can understand a family emergency comes first. It is not foolproof though, what if you're tied up in a boot after 30 mins and you don't have your handsfree connected. Oh well, I guess nothing really is perfect ! ;) cheers, Michael

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  Quoting 'mc21283'I was after everyone elses teqhniques...and that's just what I got! ;) personally if it's not going well I like to pretend there's a mosquito near my ear about every 10 seconds. It works, what can I say?  Mossie near your ear... not bad.  You could always start digging for treasure up your nose... I'm yet to meet anyone with a booger fetish. Having said that - if they exist, they're probably here and I'll probably find them :-(

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  Trish, Ive wanted you for a long time.Just cant get you to answer my messages!!

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  Never had to use one myself. I'd prefer to stick around for round two myself. Maybe I'm too nice to be trying to get rid of them, maybe its just because I don't have any to get rid of. I did once have to get police involved to get rid of a gf though. She had a key to the place and wouldn't give it back, then assaulted me. When the police got back to my place she had already gone. She later told the police everything I told them was lies and their advice to me was to change the locks, which I did. Apart from that cannot remember ever trying to get rid of someone.

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  its so funny to hear something like this from a male...lol..we women are usually the ones with a back up, or a sharp knee!!, honey if your tied up and not enjoying it u definatly have a problem, in the boot well that d b interesting to see how u got there, do u date body builders?!!! nah lm with the polite, its not there, kinda response, no need for rudeness or an asshole act, but yeah if she s scary enough to not accept ,no its not working, then yep you do have to be inventive, ld say dont take her to your home until u knew for sure, meet at a motel instead, costly but worth it if ur going to have a stalker for the next 5 yrs of your life!!!

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  Why do you need someone to call you?? Why not just say sorry I don' think this is going to work/working or whatever. That's what I do anyway

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