M37
Sadly
July 29 2015
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RHP User
10 years ago
To meet ppl you find attractive and compatible. We are always open to single men, but few are suitable and many dissrespectful and demanding, as if this site is their own personal free brothel. Thats our experience...
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RHP User
10 years ago
You have to be going about it all wrong! I can only dream of having the quality and choice of women you have up there compared to lovely little Canberra. Life is about hard work and effort and a little luck. How about remaking yourself and giving a new approach a go and take the advice from all the ladies on here and see how you go. Patient is fine but nothing will come to you if you don't go looking for it - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
This is common complaint here from men...so ,you re not alone OP xxFreya
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RHP User
10 years ago
Switch things up a bit. Do a search for guys in sydney searching for women, you will find your profile is pretty much the same as everyone else's. This won't work on RHP.
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AnnieWhichway
10 years ago
And no different in here. Perseverance may pay off. The ladies you seek have the choice to pick and choose whom that ticks their boxes. I made a virtual move to Sydney last month and found the town a lot slower than the city of Melbourne. Thats reflected in the meet and greet numbers as well in my opinion. Brisbane appears as busy as Melbourne and we all know how many kinksters are in the west. So get some warm clothes and we'll see you soon down here. Or keep on keeping on. Maybe you get to meet someone soon and it'll be all worth the wait. And dont forget the Sydney meet and greet is coming up in four weeks. Good chance to meet some fuckers......
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RHP User
10 years ago
I too become disheartened by my experiences.... But therein lies the solution too... My experiences can really only be made better by me....in my case it's a shift in perspective and a recalibration that's needed sometimes... Just be true to you; and look after yourself and those who are most compatible will come out of the woodwork....providing you keep an open mind....which can be as hard as an old man with OD on Viagra....but an important thing to remember nonetheless... - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Don't you visit Perth for a wee holiday? My girlfriends and I would show you around? Or come over in October for the big M and G. ....
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RHP User
10 years ago
I think you're correct. Despite what everyone says most of the time the time and effort you put in is not really worth it. Depends how much time you really want to invest in trying your luck in a virtual world where men outnumber the women disproportionately and so your chances are a lot slimmer than say a bar or pub. Then investing more time in that virtual world getting to know someone before you actually get to meet that person to see if you're compatible. I havent taken the time to look at your profile so I'm not sure what it is you're chasing...we're here predominantly to hook up with like minded couples or women, and have made a few friends along the way. And for the amount of time I spend on here, the strike rate is EXTREMELY low lol. But I'd say you're better off just checking out events in your area, giving up on the messaging and trying your luck in the real world. Half the messages you send will either not get read, won't be replied to or will end in rejection so thats time you could spend actually talking to women in the real world I guess. Up to you, and others may disagree, but thats my two cents for what its worth.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Or even pop up to Brisvegas one filthy weekend.... Or 2 .....😝 Always the way, always want what we can't have..... Perhaps widen your audience, enter some amateur pics, love a creative perv 😉. Chat rooms , forum discussions.... I know it's been said, but your profile looks delicious.... Hope things improve for you :)
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RHP User
10 years ago
Seems the same for me :/ Even with a decent profile and not being thaaaaat bad in the looks department, I won't get any decent messages that will lead to something interesting. If I send well-structured messages that are polite, respectful and intelligent, I still don't get an answer, even when I appear to match all their criteria. My reply rate is 3% and most of those are just one liners or templates saying no thanks. I have been trying to be corrupted by this site for a while and it has got me stuck. It is a bit disappointing indeed and it plays with your perception as you never know what is actually wrong or what's to improve. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
I wonder how strict your requirements are? When I do a search on women age 20-40 I'm finding a whole lot in Sydney. Having said that, there are many more men than women on this site and as a result us gals are spoilt for choice. As Tangerinedream commented, your profile is very similar to many others. If you want a woman to be interested in your profile, you might have to make it more interesting. Otherwise why would she want you over all the other "passionate love-makers" who will worship her body? Good luck x
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RHP User
10 years ago
There is a Sydney Meet & Greet night on 29th August. Are you going to attend that?
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RHP User
10 years ago
Check it out, OP: http://redhotpie.com.au/Event/Winter-Meet-and-Greet-Sydney-42958 and http://redhotpie.com.au/Adult-Forums/The-Sydney-Winter-Meet-and-Greet-49119
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MissBishere
10 years ago
Perth is having a meet and greet in October?
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RHP User
10 years ago
We certainly are. Just updating the details on the Events page. Expecting a few, we have over 200 registrations so far. Are you thinking of coming over?
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RHP User
10 years ago
Agreed. Mate it really depends on what you're looking for. If you want a quick hook up and fuck while it is very possible my experience has been that RHP is a tad more social. In saying that I am forumite so my experience probably is a social one. I actually like this site. Yep had plenty of offers and taken a number up. Not all have ended in red hot pie sex although the few that did, were :-) When in Rome, Go the social scene...
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rupamohan
10 years ago
It doesn't get better than this. There are sites like cr..gslist perhaps good for last minute deals but lots of weed. The other end is okc.pid with least fakes but it expects you to write an essay about yourself and describe your 5yrs future plans.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Thanks a lot for all the replies, I will definitely take them into consideration... Yeah might try with that meet and greet event I didn't know about it ...
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RHP User
10 years ago
Seriously, you look great, but you need to get better quality pictures up, the 2nd pic is hazy, clear pictures and lots of pictures is for me, essential. If i'm going to potentially meet a complete stranger, i want to know what they look like, different angles, mix it up a bit but try to show yourself and take new selfies, i never believe pictures are current if they're taken by someone else at a public event, just my opinion of course, you seem like a really nice guy, clean up/tidy up the profile a bit and you should do really well. I'm no expert, just would hate to see you leave when i think you have as good a shot as any guy on here - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Mr H... this reply is performance enhanced by some of McLaren Vales finest....... but it comes with some tough brotherly love. I see these topics come and go.... and they often prompt me to look at the authors profile to gain some clues as to the motivations behind going to the effort of drafting such a topic. I don't know what messages you send (if any)... I only know your profile, and this topic. And to me.... it looks like another case of "attitude adjustment" is required. As has been said... your photo is just another of the "shirtless torso in the mirror" pics...... and the words read like a zillion other guys words. Every line is an impersonal template, and every line is what (almost) every guy.... writes. And when everyone says the same thing.... its just noise to be ignored. Little effort = little reward. "Giving up on RHP"... and "RHP is letting me down"...to me... says you placed far too much emphasis on an online human catalogue in delivering you something right from the beginning. Why would it?So many guys in here expect a website to hand them up an easy sex life. The behaviour shown by so many guys in here proves that they clearly struggle in the real world.... which is how they were lured in here in the first place. So many truly believe that because its advertised as a sex site, the usual methods, and behaviours that women expect simply don't apply. So, they act stupid. They act needy. They act desperate. That doesn't work outside a website.... but they then act bitter when it doesn't turn out as they expected..... unrealistically expected.. IN the website. This bitterness affects the genuine women in here, who have to fend it off day, after day, after day. The paradoxical irony of all of this odd behaviour.... is that it is in the real world beyond the website.... where you hope to lure people into and away from emails and chat within the site. And those behaviours and expectations and standards DO apply in that real world.... .....So you still need to be able to communicate OFF the site (to not fuck it up) with that person you did manage to connect with in emails and encourage to meet... and show up. There will always be a limited number of people on any one website.Remove the fakes, and those you're not interested in... and the pool grows exponentially smaller.It grows smaller still..... as you are sharing with us..... if you don't know how to interest those who are left. Admin won't like me to tell you to focus on being the best version of you OUTSIDE the site.....to learn about people, communication, attraction... OUTSIDE of the site.... to live your life fully OUTSIDE the site where there are sooooooooooo many more people to practice upon, and learn about them, and yourself. Less emphasis (neediness and desperation) on what you expect a human catalogue will deliver for you.... more on what youc an learn while living in that real world where you are trying to lure website people.... to. Neediness, desperation and expectations for sex doesn't work in the real world.... and its far less effective in a virtual one where such people are merely a catalogue page which can easily be given the NEXT! treatment. The world beyond a website is significantly larger... and as I said... its in the real world where the real connecting is done.... and that leads to physical interactions.... the kind you hoped the website would deliver. Ditch the screen..... and talk to a real person. Hope that makes sense.If not.... PM me and I'll help you out a bit more. Time for another glass.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I'm curious though.... What context was it suggested to you by your friend?? As there's also a big difference between "man I've met some really great people on rhp" and "man you gotta check out rhp...the sluts on there dig the cock; like I was bangin this 50 year old and she wanted me to meet her daughter and serve one into her too!!!" Know what I mean?? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
A bit of effort on your profile and better pics would be a good start. Try broadening your search boundaries a bit too. maybenow2 - your profile is good, keep trying :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
I guess I am in a similar situation here myself. But I figure for how little it costs to be here why the hell not if I find some pleasure that is wonderful and a friend or two along the way is a bonus. Don't have any expectations and there is no let down. If you take the time to have a good search of the forums you will find this topic comes up time and time again from the males perspective. Life is life. And do attend a M&G if you can, the last one (and my first) in Melbourne was great, no pressures just a great night in good company. Cheers and all the best bud
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Stirry' I'm curious though.... What context was it suggested to you by your friend?? As there's also a big difference between "man I've met some really great people on rhp" and "man you gotta check out rhp...the sluts on there dig the cock; like I was bangin this 50 year old and she wanted me to meet her daughter and serve one into her too!!!" Know what I mean?? - Posted from rhpmobile My friend was actually a female friend and not a guy ... and she's a really nice woman and she just told me to go on here because its better and has less spams and such
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RHP User
10 years ago
All the hot guys are from sydney - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Totally off topic, but just had to say that I love your new profile pic :)
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Astrild' Totally off topic, but just had to say that I love your new profile pic :) Thanks :)
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RHP User
10 years ago
I love your new pic as well :)
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