Rules

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  Cheekyarses

  13 years ago

  We have a safety word! Always have safe sex We play as a couple Respect must be a 2 way street We do not get ridiculously drunk on play dates Photos can only be taken with permission - again by both parties involved No is NO Discretion at all times

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  don't do anything or go anywhere unless the two of you agree 100%....... don't 'take one for the team' ........and don't compromise your own values or ethics for the sake of play.........oh, and have fun. lol

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  We will always meet others in a public place first, and always together.     We won't play separately, and when playing with others will always look out for one another.     And neither one of us will ever "take on for the team". It's all about respecting ourselves, each other and our playmates.     x Ms Shout.

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  You can get caught up in the complication of rules. Rules can be a long list or just a few maybe one. Many rules result from the compromise of divergent needs. Rules set by dominant partners. Rules given by an insecure lover. Rules created without a clue. Rules for rules. Oh it can be a complicated mind fuck. Then you get to the interpretation of the rules, the exceptions, caveats, unanticipated situations. Rules, well the law, is something for a court, independant interpretation, judgment, then consequences, punishment, regrets. Please it's not a game of judges and lawyers.I prefer guidelines. Trust, honesty, and respect for your partner. Know your partner. Standard social etiquette.No matter how good it may be, your lover comes first. Do not feel obligated to the others, EVER. Most important. Communicate all the time. I can not stress this too much. "Are you ok?" with experience, trust, and considered knowledge of your partner this can just be a glance, a thumbs up, a wink, a smile, a frown, or a plain "NO" Does not matter if your are on the brink of the most mind blowing orgasim ever.I have learnt the hard way. I discovered that yes can many times mean no. That a rule at the start of the night is nonsense at the end. I now know that resentment can take a long time to surface. If you are in love and loved equally it can be so much fun, memorable nights, shared experiences.No matter how much I rant the only advice of merit is, get into it and gain experience. Tip.... Go out and do it.

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  We have two main rules.."No glove, No love" & "Never take one for the team." Other than that the basic rules apply..Respect, Play together, No means no!

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  You will set your boundries based on what is right for the two of you, everyones different but basically it comes to being respectful, thoughtful and aware of how you and your partner are feeling. Our relationship is more honest and we are definately more open and intimate than we were before playing.

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  No Male/female swapped kissing or penetration. Everything else is pretty OK

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