M52
Rudeness.
October 23 2014
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RHP User
11 years ago
You sending messages to members when you don't meet their profile preferences (such as myself) and then sanctimoniously start a forum complaining about 'rude ass chicks' not replying to your messages when our profiles asked you not to send them in the first place. I took the time to reply, but no reply is also a response of a 'thanks but no thanks'.
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6exxy
11 years ago
They revel in the fact that they believe they have the upper hand because men out number them 6 to 1. Let it go dude let it go. You will get many that will tell you to toughen up princess. I'm not saying they are right just RHP reality in some people's mind. So tell me what is your membership worth?
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RHP User
11 years ago
There is probably a forum on this very topic about once every fortnight, so it's an issue for a lot of guys. It's the equivalent of women complaining about getting "hi, wanna fuck" messages, I'm assuming yours are nicer than that? You can't win 'em all, at least you find out who's rude sooner rather than later. Good luck.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Hundreds, maybe over a thousand, of emails at work every day. I only reply to ones that are relevant. Why should it be different here?
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MsSuperFoxy
11 years ago
Like I have said time and time again on this forum topic .. No one is obligated to anyone on here until they actually meet face to face - it's the internet.. You're a paid member, can email and people can contact you.. There's no guarantee success with that either. You are who you are, some will love some will loathe. Some will reply, some won't.. It's just how it is. It does not mean they are rude, it just means they choose not to too you...just like in real life. Foxy PS- is there a reason why your pics are side ways??
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RHP User
11 years ago
Hi foxy, thanks for your input, I'm not sure way they came out side ways but I'll try and fix them, mybe I might have some luck then hey. Lol.
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RHP User
11 years ago
... And I still have the song Minnie the Moocher stuck in my head.
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Smilingwithfun
11 years ago
That the volume of emails could be too many to reply too. We lead busy lives so have no obligation to sit & reply to emails.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Minni...... ive said this before a few times.... in a few similar topics.... There are only three reasons why emails are not replied to. 1. you are sending them to people who do not fit your criteria, and they are annoyed at the idea of replying to someone who didnt read and respect their preferences.2. you are emailing profiles of dubious authenticity3. your messages dont compel someone to reply... most dont, or certainly not favourably Now, I dont know who you are messaging so only you can explain 1 & 2.... but if you gave us an example of a typical message you send, and we can evaluate it (no names please) DG PSthe flipside is.... messages people send ARE a reflection of their communication abilities..... so maybe we shouldnt assist people to represent themselves differently. (misrepresentation?!)
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RHP User
11 years ago
Hi,funny you should say that cause that's were it comes from, I had a little miniature foxy when I was a kid and she was called minni the moocher.
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RHP User
11 years ago
It costs nothing to reply, common manner required here otherwise respect breaks down over time. We spent the time selecting the right couple to email, we try reading between their lines, are they fake, recent pic, why no pic, is this honest couple or a single guy? then sent a nice email.....and wait, they checkout your profile about 10 times and nothing, a very very small percentage will reply "sorry guys nice profile but you don't fit what we are looking for, good luck in your search".....easy thanks, beautiful common manner, move on. G & V
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RHP User
11 years ago
I'm not sure what its worth bout $25 I think, does it matter, If I went gold would I get more. I don't think so, may be its cause my pics are side ways. Haha.
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6exxy
11 years ago
Quoting 'Minni78' I'm not sure what its worth bout $25 I think, does it matter, If I went gold would I get more. I don't think so, may be its cause my pics are side ways. Haha. Hmm lets see your in the ocean fishing....... sometimes you loose your bait all day. Worth/Cost was a metaphor.
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RHP User
11 years ago
before I looked at your age,I thought that your post had been written by a teenage boy....the written word conveys not just the intentional but the unintentional as well.. you might want to rethink your styling.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Its because we are so tired of getting the three word message .. We reply with a no thanks. And we get hounded and abused for not thinking that they are gods gift to women... I am so over receiving abusive messages... being told its my loss....being told I don't know what im missing ..being told im a cock tease because they don't take NO for an answer. I used to reply to all messages and flirts... but the abuse has lead me to only reply to those that I might be interested in. Sorry but shit nasty dickheads spoil it for the nice ones. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
my messages. Then when I politely say sorry not what Im looking for/no attraction, I usually get abused.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Uneventful....I allways are nice and polite and treat women with up most respect, (cause that's how I like to be treated) I guess for me it just makes me wonder who's fake and if rhp is just full of shit that's all. Thanks for your input. Hope when you put a msg out ya get a reply. Lol. Cheers
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RHP User
11 years ago
I do agree with uneventful! Damned if you do damned if you don't. I never reply to the hi or wanna fuck or nice profile! I also don't reply to flirts. I have replied to some saying sorry but it's a no from me and then get a message full of either abuse or begging. Now I feel no guilt jumping on, looking and replying if I want! I am not a rude person and will happily chat to anyone, not up my self in any way but if I don't reply it's my choice and likewise don't abuse or complain if guys don't answer my messages, which might I add is frequently too!! - Posted from rhpmobile
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On_Safari
11 years ago
About how some people you think are entirely intelligent can be turned away from you by some dumb manipulative bitter pathetic woman who in hindsight you thought (against your better judgement) was a relatively decent person. (Shrugs) then you find out they are actually a pathetic vapid self absorbed nasty attention seeking lying gossip who destroys friendships on a whim to make herself feel better about her empty existence. Even better when more sensible people actually agree with you and avoid said person like the fake she is. Thanks friends I adore you all. For the rest of you time will tell, it took me a while. 😘 still love this place we call the sandpit. ~ Indy always forgiving and a voice of relative reason. Lol
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RHP User
11 years ago
You are one of the most genuine,generous people I have ever met...both here or anywhere....I am honoured to call you friend... What that person did to you was way beyond rude... It was toxic....Cyber space provides an amazing venue for people to connect ...but it also provides those with the Janus face a way to hide in plain site...The people who believed the lies are not people you want or need in your life...in a weird way she did you a favour..hugs
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DynamicCouple36
11 years ago
Firstly, referring to some women as rude ass chicks is not going to better your chances of meeting anyone. Men are in oversupply on here , when last we looked, at the rate of 80 to 1 we recall. You therefore need to understand and accept, that competition is stiff and your chances of success, in getting a root, are very slim. Single guys, who pay good $$$$ to get into a swingers club often have the same attitude. They expect to get laid and in some instances demand it and if rejected then get all aggressive. Women and couples on here, are often swamped with messages. The majority of the time these messages are from do called single men who clearly have not bothered to read the profile wording first, but still thru try their luck, hoping that the recipient will give , accept their advances and make an exception to the rule. We clearly stipulate, within our profile wording that we are not looking for single men, yet often get dozens of messages and winks from men daily. Many of the messages are rude and disrespectful towards the female of this couple . Clearly the authors of the messages have no clue and believe that all women on here are sluts & cumbuckets, waiting to be filled. We don't reply to rude messages but instead block the sender. If we receive a polite message from a single guy, we will certainly reply, as a matter of courtesy. That however does not mean we are interested. But no one is under any obligation to reply to any unsolicited message. Just as no one has to say yes if one does not want to play. Being on here, or in a swingers club, does not mean one has to play. We all have the choice. It's those that have expectations & demands, that spoil the enjoyment for others. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Nice comment, I checked yours out and I must say I like all the templates you used, "nice" at least I put some effort in mine, would have thought at your age ( no dissect there) That you could have put some real information about your self, thanks heaps anyway. Good luck. :young boy. : loop.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Maybe my choice of words was not good ( rude chicks) sorry to all you women, but it just makes me wonder who's real and who's fake ( rhp). And I've never abused any lady for rejection or no reply.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I've said this on previous threads like this one.... But.... Expectation is the breeding ground for disappointment... :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
I wasn't talking about your profile I was talking about your post and style of writing..Thank you for reminding me that I hadn't Written my profile yet...now don't:-) ...
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RHP User
11 years ago
That was meant to say...now done.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Levieux...... Hey all good, much appreciated again for your post. I wasn't trying to hang any s..it on you at all, loke I say thanks for your input. And I guess I'll have to under stand that all the chicks on hear problyl do get over whelmed with msg and flirts because its out numbered hey. And I guess that there are a lot of blokes out there that stuff it up for people like myself but like everyone says, such is life. Thanks heaps to everyone for there post and advice. Cheers.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Jason_Leslie' Firstly, referring to some women as rude ass chicks is not going to better your chances of meeting anyone. Men are in oversupply on here , when last we looked, at the rate of 80 to 1 we recall. You therefore need to understand and accept, that competition is stiff and your chances of success, in getting a root, are very slim. Single guys, who pay good $$$$ to get into a swingers club often have the same attitude. They expect to get laid and in some instances demand it and if rejected then get all aggressive. Women and couples on here, are often swamped with messages. The majority of the time these messages are from do called single men who clearly have not bothered to read the profile wording first, but still thru try their luck, hoping that the recipient will give , accept their advances and make an exception to the rule. We clearly stipulate, within our profile wording that we are not looking for single men, yet often get dozens of messages and winks from men daily. Many of the messages are rude and disrespectful towards the female of this couple . Clearly the authors of the messages have no clue and believe that all women on here are sluts & cumbuckets, waiting to be filled. We don't reply to rude messages but instead block the sender. If we receive a polite message from a single guy, we will certainly reply, as a matter of courtesy. That however does not mean we are interested. But no one is under any obligation to reply to any unsolicited message. Just as no one has to say yes if one does not want to play. Being on here, or in a swingers club, does not mean one has to play. We all have the choice. It's those that have expectations & demands, that spoil the enjoyment for others. - Posted from rhpmobile Very well said.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Many will say they have them but few use them but worse than that many are just to lazy to reply.
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