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June 29 2010
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RHP User
15 years ago
I am gulity of not replying. Its not that i'm trying to be rude, but there are times where i'm absolutely swamped with messages and chats that it makes it difficult even just for a quick reply. There are other reasons to consider to. Some people can't/don't come on here as often as they liked, or they just simply forget. Even if its weeks later, I do try to reply to flirts and messages. But i'm sure there are guys that I let down and for that I am sorry. Whatever the case, I do appreciate all messages and flirts I get. :-) Well thats my 2 bob. xxx
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RHP User
15 years ago
welcome to the forums hun yes i couldnt agree more...thats why i always reply mwahhhh...good luck roxxy
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RHP User
15 years ago
I'm a guy and in the quiet of being a guest I have been going back through my old messages to find links back to my friends as I would always send them new ones and not reply. In amogst all these I have noticed quite a few contacts that responded with interest that I just simply was too busy to reply to the reply. Doh. Too late now though. Probably think I'm a stalker. Lol. Well if I messed you around well it's my loss I guess. Sob sob sob. Fab. Lol. Opps.
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DonnaBrett
15 years ago
We always respond to every message or flirt whether our response is negative or positive. Sometimes we shouldn't bother cos some of these people obviously don't read our profile through..sigh.....but hey..it takes no time to say "no thanks" or send a return flirt. However if once given a turn down they keep flirting or messaging..well..no replies then.
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RHP User
15 years ago
hi, some ladies get so many messages it get very difficult to go thru them all. i actually used to try very hard to do it but it turned into a full time job. now just trying to open them is enuf. ppl dont like template generated reply, the not like no reply. wat are we supposed to do??? if you get a reply you must have sparked interest. if not you didnt. i do try to answer every one but to those i am not interested you will get a template reply. sorry. with the flirts also just do a group reply same to everyone no time to look up the profile till they send a message thru. another thing is i only answer if they are online when i am opening the mail. in my inbox i have over 140 pages of mail....some guys cannot understand this.... 40 plus a day n then 50 or so flirts a day it is really really very difficult for ladies to keep up.......
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RHP User
15 years ago
What a great idea for a job - RHP on line secretary for people! Pusscat xx
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RHP User
15 years ago
i agree. the amount of times they dont even open the sent message annoys me but i guess people have a bit of a mean streak in them. Guess we all do. I mean guys went to the trouble of writing a message wouldnt be hard to send back saying no thanks. I bet girls would get this with guys... so it isnt just one way here. we all have gone to the trouble to pay for that service, would be nice if people realised that matter.
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RHP User
15 years ago
"Supercalifragilisticexpialidocious
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RHP User
15 years ago
Lol I know how busy you are. But hi. I hope you have time to read this. I'm very surprised you had the time to jump on the forums. Lol. Fab.
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RHP User
15 years ago
That's a hard one. Guess it's all in the message. No picture on a profile, or just a one line, let's fuck. If you are not putting more than two word's together then you may not get a response. And if you are putting in an effort than it maybe just the case you are contacting rude and self centered people. Send them a wink and if they do not reply then keep looking for the right people to have fun with. Good luck in your search and have fun. Not everyone is rude.
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RHP User
15 years ago
I try to reply, even a no thanks...Sometimes I just dont have the time to reply right there and then and try and come back to it later, but sometimes people think you sit in front of the computer 24/7 and if you dont reply right away you get another message back asking why you havent replied already..... And then there is also whats in the message to start off with, if its not all that interesting or not a great deal of thought into it, then I dont see the point in replying, because they obviously didnt read my profile in the first place... And even ones I have replied to, Ive not got a response back... But you get that and just move along :o) Late x
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RHP User
15 years ago
Dont mean to be rude' but the first thing I would do is get rid of that pic and replace it with something more tastefull' then see what happens.. ? You know ' first impressions etc etc...
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RHP User
15 years ago
tasteful? c'mon justjuice, whats not tasteful about a cheeky pic like that...(not that I'm biased... or going to draw paralells with a boob shot.. honestly I'm not, that pic is hot! jus sayin is all)
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RHP User
15 years ago
lelz (notice tongue in my cheek)... Hey! What's so distasteful about showing off my bum cheeks? Jeese... first it's a ban on cock picks.... and man, I have a sparkley cock.. more sparkley than any other... its quite a feature... but now its arseflesh... I mean, I even hitched up me cheeks with a pair of speedos I borrowed off someone who left them hanging on a fence rail in a beach access... jeese... next you'll be lampooning my overabundant pecs... Jeese... fair cop... Is the only "tasteful" avatar a pair of gravity enhanced Norko's? ugs Stalky
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RHP User
15 years ago
For all the bums out!
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'stalky' Is the only "tasteful" avatar a pair of gravity enhanced Norko's? did you ever have a Norco Bite ice cream at school? I'm hungry for one now. gawd they were good.(incidentally my balls are gravity enhanced - I say that because have you ever seen you nuts float higher than your cock when you're in a warm spa? It is just positively ridiculous looking, but when you emerge, gravity drapes them nicely back down into place. gravity enhanced.)
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RHP User
15 years ago
I can imagine you get lots of mail, I appreciate that you take the time to flirt back, I enjoy the thought of flirting and having fun with locals. I use the same ID wherever I go and love to chat online and more.
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RHP User
15 years ago
I can imagine you get lots of mail, I appreciate that you take the time to flirt back, I enjoy the thought of flirting and having fun with locals. I use the same ID wherever I go and love to chat online and more.
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RHP User
15 years ago
now me is sulking...*sniff*...jose...And to answer your question PIC, don't tell me ya getting a bit peeved because ya sending off all these delightful and witty emails, and no one is replying...oh dear, oh dear, oh dear...i think there are about 18 or 19 flirts you can send...why not pick out ya favourite 12 or so...hehe...and send them off en masse instead...giggles...maybe the girls will look at ya then and then reply when they see what ya got...cheersjose...
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RHP User
15 years ago
There is no excuse for not replying to messages at all. As I just stated on Couples Ask, even using the Quick Reply is as quick as closing a message after reading it as that reply will close the message for you. I also note that people say that messages aren't even opened at all...to me, they are the people that are just on here to boost their egos. They put up sexy pics and have sexy things written on their profiles but never intend on answering anyone. As for flirts...I don't answer to the flirts "I just want to say I love your profile" or "I think you're hot what do you think of me" and the likes. I only answer to the message ones or want new friends flirts....otherwise I think that they just rated me and it was automatically sent from their "Hot or What" ratings. Hope that helps xFunlovingx
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RHP User
15 years ago
well my image isnt rude that is for sure... but i will keep trying to message when i am able to
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RHP User
15 years ago
times before...even if YOU think you fit their profile...if a girl doesn't think you do...and she has loads who DO...you don;t have to be einstein to work out who SHE is going to target...stress less...message more...and make sure you tidy your footprints up after leaving the rhp sandpit...cheersjose...
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RHP User
15 years ago
thats it pleasureincairns there is really no reason to not answer :) yes, no thanks, or iam busy maybe later * * (which could mean - NEVER if the girl writes it, or iam busy maybe later - if guy writes it..hahaha) we apreciate every wink or message and always answer..it what we were taught at swing school. party on N and T
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Mr_Invisible
15 years ago
I can see how I don't float the boat of many and messages go unansweredWhat irks me is not recieving replies from people you've actually met , played with etc
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RHP User
15 years ago
if you get a lot of messages as some of us do you can afford to be picky....heres the dilemma - you reply to some of them with a thanks but no thanks and then receive a number of follow up messages, sometimes guys saying things like i am a stuck up bitch for not answering their follow up questions....now who is the rude one?? my general rule of thumb is i dont answer messages that have poor spelling, say things like wassup, how u doin? and similar. if the message is less than twenty words long it means they really cant be bothered writing anything so why should i bother answering. I also tend to ignore the obvious cut and pasted messages that have clearly been sent out to every woman in a 10km radius with a steady pulse. generally i am not rude or impolite to anyone but can give as good as i get.
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RHP User
15 years ago
I agree with Lussty, it sounds fair and it is best to get you intentions across if you are not interested. Saves a lot of watsed time on both parties' behalf.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'Donna_Brett' We always respond to every message or flirt whether our response is negative or positive. Sometimes we shouldn't bother cos some of these people obviously don't read our profile through..sigh.....but hey..it takes no time to say "no thanks" or send a return flirt. However if once given a turn down they keep flirting or messaging..well..no replies then. I agree with Donna_Brett, I have (so far) replied to all flirts and messages and will endeavour to abide by her rules ... (yes mistress ... darn, it's a rose and not a whip!!) As for the profile pictures ... I adore the hot lean torsos, rippling arm muscles, beautiful legs, firm buttocks ... your unique idea of being sexy ... how about some lips, or your smile ... I appreciate all the eye candy I find on my way looking for other play mates ;)thanks boys, mwa!Mrs 2noodies
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RHP User
15 years ago
If they match our looking for preferences, there really is no excuse not to reply to each and every paid member that has gone out of their way to message us. It is possible to set our inbox for matching, non-matching and all messages/flirts to help sort that out lol..Every profile has an auto-reply that can be set up to answer messages as they come in automatically. There is also the option of setting up templates to reply to messages. Once set up, it's as easy as reading the message in your inbox, deciding on your template reply and... sending the template of your choice. No effort to set up at all are the quick replies as mentioned by Funloving. Or tick each message as you go and reply when you've finishedThe flirts aren't quite so easy... I get round that by posting on my profile what flirt I will send. To reply to all the flirts left in the inbox, I tick the box at the top and choose group reply etc. I'm not sure how many lady guests realise couples and guys get minimal benefits on their guest profiles compared to them. If they want to be able to get into the chat room or send messages, they need to pay for the privileges. I think, if they've done everything right, like making sure they match the profile and sending a decent message the only decent thing for us to do is at least reply to them.It works for us, we've only ever had one really nasty reply to saying no thanks but have received about a 10% rate of people saying thanks for replying when we used our templates!For those that are getting too many messages etc, there are many ways of slowing down the incoming mail. Change your settings so it doesn't show when you're online or when you've viewed profiles. Hide your profile or lock your inbox hehe, change or remove your pics, edit your profile write up (people DO read but seem to ignore shouting!!! :-D), change your looking for preferences for a while. That's off the top of my head...Have fun hugs... Mrs P'
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