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Relationship integrity?????!!!!!

December 11 2018

Hi is there any couple who are still together after they indulge in Activities like same room sex , 3somes , swapping etc? Any one who can share the positive or negative effect on their relationship after like 5 or 6 years? Thank you. - Posted from rhpmobile

Comments

  • ElectricDreamers

    ElectricDreamers

    7 years ago

    It can be a rocky ride in the beginning as couples discover that fantasies fulfilled may come with unexpected jealousies or issues... Swinging can bring you closer together, it can be a wonderful shared hobby but it shouldn't drive your connection. Been playing for 7 years, we both enjoy our adventures and wouldn't go back...

  • horneycouplewa

    horneycouplewa

    7 years ago

    This lifestyle has brought us closer and even created an insatiable appetite ;) it just gets better and better. We know of many couples who have been doing this for a while and super happy in their relationships. Key ingredient ….Honesty and Communication and I can't stress that enough. Without it Trust becomes an issue. Don't be afraid to talk about your desires or what bothers you. It should be a slow process and enjoy the ride :) MrsH xxx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Thanks for the response people . When in a mood looks ok we think we will enjoy, however sometimes when relaxed after having sex , thought come to mind how can We share each other with someone- No I can’t . And sometimes its like there should be some couple we all should enjoy and then they should just disappear straight away as nothing has happened and no one telling anyone anything.

  • FeistyFatty

    FeistyFatty

    7 years ago

    After your last comment i don't think you guys are ready to open up your relationship. Communicate with each other. Be honest with each other. Once you've taken the leap, it can't be undone or forgotten.

  • FredAndGinger2

    FredAndGinger2

    7 years ago

    Swinging experiences comes in many forms. You do not need to swap partners to have an awesome shared experience with others. You could start with some simple things like swapping naughty pictures with a couple you have been chatting with. You could go to a swingers play event and keep your clothes on and just chat and ask questions. You could have sex with your own partner with others watching.. many of our best moments have been these simple and fun pleasures and help to find yourselves first and then other compatible friends second. Have a look through the RHP events pages to see a range of social and play events Fred

  • nightingale8

    nightingale8

    7 years ago

    Go travelling, have fun together and come back with good memories. If you're going to have a moral issue with it then don't bother. Reality will hit hard.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Agree with nightingale8. Your both so young. Got many years of sexy fun together. Loads of time to explore all things sexy. Go travel and enjoy life. Come back to this when both are more compfey . Could end bad if your not ready

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Playing MFM Or MFMF Is something we enjoy doing Now and again.. Not all the time.. It is good to have some spice in ur life .Enjoy urself when u get the chance to play with others We have been together over 4 yrs