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Rejection: Get over it!
January 16 2010
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RHP User
16 years ago
Lets face it people are going to be infatuated with your boobs... failing a face shot. What a lovely set of boobs they are too... But like all starlets... you'll attract adoring fans who want a bit of you... even if that be just an acknowledgment. Its called fan mail... so please lap it up whilst you're still young and pretty... because the grey and toothless are not as lucky. I should know having passed my use by date... ... Geez you're young enough to be my daughter... Hugs and kisses.... Eunuch xxx
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RHP User
16 years ago
Kinks, Sorry to hear about your troubles but take this point of view. You can now sit back and be satisfied that your "dickhead radar" is fully functional. After all you rejected their initial advance so be satisfied that you are a wonderful judge of character. And getting an e-mail like that is far better than actually meeting them and then finding out that at least one of the couple thinks that they are gods gift to humanity. Keep that radar functional! mooka
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RHP User
16 years ago
...insecurity! Some people need to stroke their own ego's by putting other people down. Just reinforces what you thought in the first place by responding with a "no thanks" Hugs Jx
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RHP User
16 years ago
Just proves you're a good judge of chracter and were right to knock them back. I can think of a thousand replies to a rude note saying "Your Loss"... and none of them would do their self-esteem much good...
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RHP User
16 years ago
Yes, I agree. As Im typing this Im also talking on chat with a guy. Second convo and Ive realised hes a wanker too. The 'deckhead dar' is getting a good working out! Keep the great guys cumming and the jerks can go jerk off!!!
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RHP User
16 years ago
Hey Kinksncurves, That's poor form on the couples part. Personally, I'd reply to their message with something like, "I am sorry if the template flirt response I sent angered you however I believe in honesty, respect and good manners. That is why I responded to your flirt rather than ignore you ! I have nothing against you personally and I hope you have lots of fun on rhp. You simply don't fit what I'm looking for and that should not offend you. I was shocked and disappointed by her message. I do not believe nasty words and sarcasm belong on rhp. We are all mature adults. Best Wishes,Kinks..." Of course it may be ignored, or infuriate them and you may get another response which I do not recommend you respond to. I believe in good communication and therefore if someone sent me a nasty message I would express my dissatisfaction. Luckily I've only received nice or pornographic messages ! Cheers, Saturn
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RHP User
16 years ago
Mooka, really great response! Kinks, plenty of couples profiles are actually men trying to reel single women in. If they're desperate enough in the first place to use that as a strategy, they're desperate enough to desperately need someone to fall for it ... and hence mighty peeved off when they don't. So ... maybe that's the reason, or one possible reason. Aside from that, I completely agree with Mooka.lilmiss :)
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RHP User
16 years ago
hot as...oopsss...i mean spot on...kinks i reckon if ya get a response like that, it is a false couple profile...really sounds like a man acting as a couple...maybe ya should name them...heheheor better still...give us clues...yanno, something along the lines of "photo includes pic of big prick and little prick"...gigglingor their profile name sounds like...ooh...just think what fun ya could have...and we could all play....woohooo....another party game....yeah baby...so....whatdya say?jose...
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RHP User
16 years ago
woot woot
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RHP User
16 years ago
I never thought of that! Thanks. I knew heaps of female profiles were fake..if you got no cam, then your prob a fake :P There are just so many!!!!
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RHP User
16 years ago
Ok firstly you do have killer curves and voluptuous sensuality breasts. With that off my chest. I have had my fare share of rejection but I would much prefer that to the silence. I think you have been quite retrained. Feel free to vent any time ciao Hermes
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RHP User
16 years ago
they complain we dont return replies, then get nasty when we do. It's like they have already gone out and brought new sheets, maybe even new underwear and condoms. Maybe the flirts and too ...blunt lets come up with a reply that leaves them feeling happy about the rejection they just received , something uplifting. like.. Thanks for the contact unfortunately very handsome men render me totality hopeless, i cant speak,barely walk and my legs go stiff unable to open, so my prince i must say no.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'SORRENTOSEXY' Thanks for the contact unfortunately very handsome men render me totality hopeless, i cant speak,barely walk and my legs go stiff unable to open, so my prince i must say no. Fantastic possible response ciaoHermes
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RHP User
16 years ago
thankyou thankyou thankyou i've been waiting years for you ,nobody contacts me since my breakdown and that stalking thing did'nt help but i waited and here you are. I want a big wedding, and a car, where would you like to meet? can i bring my folks. ....i love you.
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Innercircle
16 years ago
we'd much prefer to get a rejection than no responce at all. We've had our share of rejections and been spewin' we didnt match what the other couples were looking for, but, there are heaps more out there...
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DonnaBrett
16 years ago
Hey Kinks,They're losers (or more probably he's a loser). Not everyone is going to be attracted to everyone. We know damn well that our..umm..."Look" isn't everyone's cup of tea, but hey different stokes for different folks. But we reject plenty on here as well for a variety of reasons, either for their looks or style don't appeal, or the most common one is people obviously do not read our profile and message anyway when something in their profile is the something we specifically said we aren't looking for...why do they bother???We haven't yet on this site had people ask "Why was I rejected" but we have had it on another site. This guy could not take no for an answer & kept sending emails wanting to know "What's wrong with me" and similar questions. We don't like to be nasty to people, and often feel bad about rejecting especially if it's just on looks. We hate it when people message but they have no photo, the profile sounds good so we ask for a pic, when it comes, we then aren't attracted & have to reject..so it is obviously cos of their looks...that's a terrible feeling. We'd rather see pic & info altogether then if rejection is going to happen it could be for any number of reasons. So a suggestion to people..if you are the sensitive type and you msg or flirt people show the whole package up front (ie: all info, face photos etc) so you know that you're not just being rejected because of your third eye or lack of teeth haha. Cheers
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RHP User
16 years ago
Other excuses could be... Paraplegia A suffering leper whose sexy bits are falling off Incarcerated and willing once your 20 year sentence is up Stuck in a public ward and in traction Circumnavigating the world as an underage solo yachtswoman Frostbitten and stuck up on the peak of Mount Everest and desperately in need of oxygen... please rescue me Dead keen but on a three year assignment on Antarctica and snow bound Wanting to escape your sibling husband and 12 kids in the Tasmanian wilderness Wanting on affair behind the back of your Mafia hit-man husband Have Tourette's syndrome and cant sit still or shut up Waiting for a heart, lung, liver and kidney transplant... will you be my donor? Please pick me up from kindergarten I'll be playing skippy, just ask the policeman on duty for directions As soon as I've had my sex change operation Sorry just had fertility treatment and now pregnant and hoping to beat octomom's record
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RHP User
16 years ago
Sorrentosexy & Eunuch, yes...why is the 'no thank you' replies crap!???!! I dont want to click the other 2, becuase its un truthful and if they see you online they may be upset or worse....try to contact you again!!!! So what end ups happening is I usually have to wait until they email, then either sent a template 'no thanks' again, or if theyre clearly nice then write an actual email, which I find heartwrenching! I loved both of yourexamples....I think I will cut and paste them then save them as email rejection templates :P Dockercouple 80 & donna & Brett, You guys have fantastic profiles! LOL, loved having a read. i just got back from WA...pitty :P I...as a complete hypocrite agree with D&B about the pics....even though I dont have any face pics up. lol. BUT I RARELY search, I just sift who contacts me...and if Im interested...as in...I find them somewhat attractive...and the have a great sense of humour...lthen theyre in. Emails, msn I'll show myself asap, usually on cam, cos pics are oftne misleading. Ive never been rejected after Ive shown face cos...thank the lord, Im not unattractive. But the first thing I say if Im worried about rejection is that Im a size 16. Add the combo of my personality, kinks and tits, and 99% of the time Im off the 'fat hook' straight away. actually...maybe its just the tits...or...the fact that Im a woman responding to them...or that a human is responding...lol, why did i wake up so early this morning>? lol xoxo
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