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Question on RHP member's profile
February 13 2017
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sweetgem
9 years ago
But I am no longer here seeking anything in the intimate sense. So, I deleted the majority of the contents in my profile and it is dead! Basically, I am inactive in seeking company with men! As for the active members, I can only guess that some might be too lazy to put in any effort to create a proper profile (and who knows what reasons they hold)? Some could be genuinely having difficulty in writing up a profile in their own words (not everyone is lucky with literacy)? And for some, as we all have read, think that this is a sex site, everybody should just jump in and have sex with each other without a question! So these people would think why the hell do they need to present themselves in the same way as they do in the real world! Of course, all of the above are only my assumptions. Sue me for making those assumptions 😁 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
I used to have very attractive 😉 until I listened to all the dribble on here about how self absorbed people are, so changed it to attractive 😀 actually I am, self absorbed and very attractive 😎 so I might change it back. My life, my profile, my choice 👍👌 I'm gonna be very attractive this week 😯
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RHP User
9 years ago
I look how I look, and that won't change. Everyone is attracted to something different. Some may find me attractive and others will not. My profile says "see my photo", so you can look and decide for yourself.Who knows why people leave descriptions at "ask me", maybe their answer is something that's best described or discussed in conversation? Not a simple check box answer.
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DynamicCouple36
9 years ago
in which the female half's section is mostly "ask me". It's almost as if the male half either does not know the answers, or that there is perhaps no female half. For smoking, quite a few have "ask me". This puzzles us as you are either a smoker or are not. When we see this written, we assume that they are smokers. Perhaps they need to be vague so as to keep their options open? - Posted from rhpmobile
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AnnieWhichway
9 years ago
Looks/attractiveness is very much a personal thing. One persons stunner is anothers broken bum. Just easier to put see my photo as Eiliethiya said. Interesting some judge themselves as very attractive. Tickets anyone....... Another is where they say see my photo but there is no photo on display. Cant see the point of ask me. Youd get the same answer as you would had they ticked one of the boxes. Maybe they thought there should have been a box for "stunning" and they could lower themselves to very sttractive. Humans are odd things
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Tall74nHard9
9 years ago
The old saying of beauty is in the eye of the beholder comes to mind. In reality there would be very few individuals who woud fall into the Very Attractive (Stunning ?) area of life, and if that is the case it would be quite obvious to all and sundry.As for the "ask me" responses - there might be the occasional reason for answering as such, but personally I think that is just a show of laziness in the completion of a profile (and laziness elsewhere ?). Tall
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RHP User
9 years ago
I think I am attractive. But then there are so many others who are too. For me attractiveness is so much more than a photo. It's the way you embrace yourself and respect other people, too. The way you talk or walk or when you are completely into what you are doing in that moment obliviant to all that is happening around you... So, basically, everyone can be attractive. But to who is the question? And for how long?(Ms)
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RHP User
9 years ago
I have 'see my photo' on my profile because attractiveness is a subjective thing. Without wanting to sound up myself, I have had enough people tell me I'm attractive that I could have that option selected, but in the end I just let people make up their own minds. I don't normally have face pics in my public gallery but I have a few in my PG that I open up for people I will potentially meet. Something interesting I've noticed about couples profiles, and that I've sometimes wondered about, is that the 'very attractive' option is often selected for the woman but very rarely for the man (I think I've seen it once or twice for the guy).
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RHP User
9 years ago
As we all talk about beauty and we agree that certain things are beautiful it becomes an objective category. First things have to be seen as meaningful to be seen as beautiful. Ugly can be beautiful. It is not necessary everyone to agree, but only few. If few people agree that someone or something is beautiful it is an objective category. Concept when shared gives objectivity. That concept has been discussed in Aesthetics and Philosophy for centuries, and who has that arrogance to say it's not objective and non existent. When someone says it's subjective it means they can’t be bothered to discuss the category. Thousands of books were written about it and it's still discussed widely. When those assumptions are alive they have disastrous consequences. Beauty as a word has more connotations, but is too allusive, and with the baggage of subjectiveness, so people avoid using it and substitute it with the word - attractiveness Some words become too polysemic and therefore avoided. (Ms)
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MissRedFox
9 years ago
Ask me because I want to tell you how fabulous I am? No I don't know what's up with that - like others said I have see my photo - I don't fit into the young fit and attractive category that's rumoured to be the ideal and I'm curvy so not everyone's cup of tea but I don't believe I'm unnattractive either so yeah Perve and make up your own mind. And I also think sex appeal goes beyond the skin - it's that certain something that isn't always captured in photos XX - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
I shake my head when I see Attractive or Very Attractive and I see their pic and think the only person who is saying that is your mum. I know my profile is hidden right now but I do have face pics in my private galleries, and sometimes in my public gallery. Some of us are really UN-photogenic but at least a pic will give a general idea of what the person looks like. I am really over the disappointment of people who either: 1. Dont have a pic and wont share unless we move from RHP, or 2. Look nothing like their pic and have deliberately deceived me into meeting them.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Because I look around at the typical guy about my age on the street, and I feel that I am on par with most. So even though I have been described as attractive by others, I don't consider myself any better looking than the average guy. So I guess it's a combination of modesty and using average in a statistical sense. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
It's not necessarily my looks which make me attractive. Nor is it my age. 😯
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RHP User
9 years ago
When we say things about ourselves that is subjective. Aesthetic experience is intimate and deeply subjective, but as soon as we express it, and allow ourselves to even attempt to explain or describe, we expect someone to agree with us. It's a statement to the agreement.Then it becomes objective. The simple fact that we all share those concepts, like a beautiful sunset, beautiful kitten, symmetry of the beautiful face, golden ratio, is in itself an amasing thing... and very objective. If everything is subjective then our world wouldn't exist. Everything would be just in our heads. The statement says " You are not real, it's only me that matters. There are objective criteria even if some would like to ignore it. No wonder art is in a state in which it is :( Nothing is subjective but our own experience. XX If he and his mother agree that he is beautiful, then it is an objective thing , but if only mum thinks that is the case it's subjective. (Ms)
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MissBishere
9 years ago
I don't pay much attention to how someone rates themselves. I prefer to make that call myself. On my profile I have see my photo and then I have clear face and body pics so people can judge for themselves. It's far to subjective and honestly I have no idea how I would describe my face to someone.
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RHP User
9 years ago
My buns
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On_Safari
9 years ago
If they find you attractive or not, if they're genuinely interested they'll read your profile (if the viewee has taken the time & effort) where they may become more interested and approach based on the information at hand. I suss everything out in a profile, if there's too many ask me's then there's too many ask me's. Next!! People can view themselves however they want, when they say they're attractive maybe they're referring to the complete package (personality, demeanour, outlook) and consider those attractive qualities have more to do with themselves as people rather than looks? ~ Indy On Safari
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RHP User
9 years ago
I think i am abit attractive Id give myself 7 out of 10 for looks and 9 out of 10 for character Howd you rate me, ladies. Be interesting 4 me - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
...I'm brutally honest with my own profile and how I describe myself, I'm glad that RHP offers so many options for things like "Looks."It's interesting insight into a person. Which is why I'm all for people writing their own profiles...it's not a spelling bee or an essay competition.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'houndhunter' I think i am abit attractive Id give myself 7 out of 10 for looks and 9 out of 10 for character Howd you rate me, ladies. Be interesting 4 me - Posted from rhpmobile I'd rate you very attractive, hot as fuck actually. I was going to tell you that in the other topic, but thought I'd lay off the flirting for at least one night
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RHP User
9 years ago
I have done the same thing here myself. I didnt put married, cause i wanted the ladies to message me. I can imagine its the same for many others. Ive since changed it, havent looked for awhile, not sure if there are some still saying ask me I touch myself, Yes i think you can put attractive. In my eyes, largest majority of women can. no im not trying to hard here, just how i see it
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