Question for members?

March 30 2017

For gals who are members (especially single women) what is the main reason you have membership. Is it so you can actively message guys whose profile you like or is it to respond to flirts/messages from guests without restriction? Or another reason? Do you actively pursue guys you like? I think as women we all do get many flirts and messages but especially if you don't live in a big city/ or have kids at home it's hard sometimes to find the right fit (pun intended😉) - Posted from rhpmobile

Comments

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    They just want to look at the dick pics 😉😉😉 Full kudos if you actually send messages. 💐

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    9 years ago

    You are in charge of your own direction. Many couples as well as men are guests. If l think a sender of a flirt is worthy of a message I can send one. If you take a long term membership, it works out no more than a cup of coffee per week. I think my sex needs and body is worth a few dollars a week, don't you? A pity so many guys don't think we are worth a small investment

  • SassyRascal

    SassyRascal

    9 years ago

    I love to be able to see all the pics I want to see. I also put up events and you cant do this successfully of you cant email people so I have to pay to enjoy it all SF

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    I have been a paid member on and off over the years. And yes, Sailbad I love to be able to see the naughty pics When I have full membership I don't send many messages but it is nice to be able to do that if I feel like it. I will probably increase my membership again sometime but right now I am happy to be a guest.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Quoting 'Meander' I liked the freedom to be able to message someone when I felt like it, whether I wanted to comment on someone's forum post in private, enjoy some banter with a friend or lover, or take the first step when I was attracted to someone. I also like being able to see the restricted pics, sometimes for the perve factor, but also because the type of photos on a profile is one of the aspects I consider when making a decision about whether we would be compatible or not.

  • MsJonesy

    MsJonesy

    9 years ago

    Means I can contact anyone I want to. Sometimes its because a profile has caught my eye, perhaps its a comment in a forum I want to chat about, sometimes its to keep in touch with people I have met. I tend to be proactive - no point lurking about hoping someone gets in touch.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Being able to message who want, when I want and to see the profile pics... I don't like dick or clit pics and if I see them, I can make a choice as to whether I want to be in touch. This includes their friends' profile pics as well... kinda sorta gives me an idea of what they may be after and whether that is me ... or not.. I also like to be pro-active. Uf I see a profile I like, I want to be able to make the first move... if I choose to... KH

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    for all of the reasons already said. I'm still a bit laid back as far as sending first messages though, I'd been a guest for so long and used to waiting for guys to message me, it kind of becomes a habit to sit and wait for them to hit on me, partly habit and partly with age difference, the dynamic for me and partners is a little bit different in the respect that I like to know they're open to that and not that I'm persuading them to be, if that makes sense, so still quite often prefer them to make the first move. I found it frustrating not being able to message freely and also not being able to view naughty pics I occasionally establish friendships with guys from the Eastern States and find I don't have to wait for a message to be able to message them, I might send a message, forget to say something, quickly send another message, same with regular contacts over here, but don't need to fuss about using an extra message. It's just nice to have the freedom to do that. I find premium with 5 messages a day plenty for me, perfect

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    The same as everyone else I like the freedom to be able to message, initiate contact etc - Posted from rhpmobile

  • EarthQueen

    EarthQueen

    9 years ago

    Very helpful as always xx

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    9 years ago

    An unbeatable deal with the devil? Come to the Darkside........Err that's right you are already here....

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Are you bound to on going costs automatically or do they stop taking money when your nominated time is up ? - Posted from rhpmobile