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Quality or Quantity?
May 17 2013
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RHP User
13 years ago
one hit wonder............thats it and I roll over and need to sleep so its quality for me but from a few good men
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RHP User
13 years ago
that I get exactly what I want (i.e., quality) in a relatively short time? I do wonder though, if my partners feel the same way... I've asked and they all seem happy ... I'd expect them to tell me if it was otherwise. Give me intense fuckery ... we can get some sleep (my kids will wake me up at 6am). I will orgasm (lots), I will drown the bed (lots) ... YUM ... I really don't get this shit of "I can go all night" ... Anyone can go all night if you can sleep all day ...I did that shit in my 20's.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Of younger men being able to go again and again. I may just be lucky, but most 40 something year olds I've played with have had no problems in that department. Engage their mind and i guarantee that they'll still only need a short recovery time and they have the benefit of experience too! I don't think many women would complain if a man orgasms 3/4 times over 2/3 hours. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
I've actuallly done both ie one long session with a single instance and another where it was multiple and was surprised by the marked difference. Both highly enjoyable and no idea why one occured one way and the other the other, just the chemistry of the occassion I guess. I'm surprised you don't want it all :) but so long as you're having fun thats the main thing. "sex is like pizza - when its good it's really good, when it's bad .... still pretty good"
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RHP User
13 years ago
Definitely prefer quality. If the quantity is okay but not great I get bored and start looking at my watch. As for old or young, short sex session or long doesn't matter... it is about the sexual chemistry you have with the other person that makes it great. For me anyway.
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sweetgem
13 years ago
Sex would be boring and plain to me if it's just bang bang bang, or short foreplay and straight into banging. I prefer long slow sensual foreplay to build up the tension and deepen our connection, by then my partner and I will be ready to become one and explore deeper into each other's bodies and fantasies :-)
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Cheekyarses
13 years ago
Well quality is better - if you get quality n quantity then you hit the jack pot!! I prefer men my age or older, personal preference x
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RHP User
13 years ago
Personally, I'm not bothered whether a lover can go again and again. I'm like Tuscan - I'm a once only (and even then, it's not easy to achieve for me) gal! So I'd take a quality lover who takes his time and with whom there is great chemistry every time. Lucky for me, I have that :D- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
For me, foreplay is the best part of sex. Penetrative sex, I could take or leave, I feel neutral about it, it doesn't do much for me and I can't orgasm from it (i guess I'm not built that way). The penetrative part is for the guy's benefit, not mine. If they make me come a few times from oral/toys/fingers during foreplay I am ecstatic. I will take some good quality foreplay over quantity any day. - Ms Otori
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quality for me. Not into this Wham Bam thank you Mam type of play.. Do prefer my men to be older, as the ooze a different type of quality.
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RHP User
13 years ago
....- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
For me it would have to be quality...the drawn out forplay, the intense build up to orgasm, and if i am lucky i get that a few times before we are both so carried away that we are physically and mentally exhausted by the time we cum all we want to do is sleep for a while. Occasionally i am lucky enough to have a lover that can do all that again before the night is thru...but if not then that is what the next night is for... ;-)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Mr2Cheeky' I've actuallly done both ie one long session with a single instance and another where it was multiple and was surprised by the marked difference. Both highly enjoyable and no idea why one occured one way and the other the other, just the chemistry of the occassion I guess. I'm surprised you don't want it all :) but so long as you're having fun thats the main thing. "sex is like pizza - when its good it's really good, when it's bad .... still pretty good" I do "have it all" at home - with hubby ;) he is both quality and quantity..The sex dating world is mostly about fulfilling some of my fantasies and sexploring with different types of personalities, energies but also ages. The younger guy thing is fulfilling my fantasy needs, when I am with a 21 year old I AM 21 again! The attraction is that it is something that I don't have at home and thats what sparks my mind about it ;)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Mr2Cheeky' I've actuallly done both ie one long session with a single instance and another where it was multiple and was surprised by the marked difference. Both highly enjoyable and no idea why one occured one way and the other the other, just the chemistry of the occassion I guess. I'm surprised you don't want it all :) but so long as you're having fun thats the main thing. "sex is like pizza - when its good it's really good, when it's bad .... still pretty good" I do "have it all" at home - with hubby ;) he is both quality and quantity..The sex dating world is mostly about fulfilling some of my fantasies and sexploring with different types of personalities, energies but also ages. The younger guy thing is fulfilling my fantasy needs, when I am with a 21 year old I AM 21 again! The attraction is that it is something that I don't have at home and thats what sparks my mind about it ;)
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RHP User
13 years ago
I must point out that in my post I did not indicate which my preference was. This is because I like BOTH. Depends on my mood, the guy and other factors. I am a Gemini - mutable, changeable, unpredictable - so it is the variety of what diffferent partners can offer that appeals to me the most - thats why I am in this game. I was just pondering... hmmm... I wonder what others prefer... My experiences with both younger and my age have been both as equally enjoyable so my jury is out on whether quality or quantity is best - and that is why I was interested to see what others thought!It is interesting that it seems to be so far leaning towards quality over quantity. I can also say that I have had a 20 year old (that one would label "inexperienced" ) make my body do things that you would only think a 40 year old guy with 20 years experience could do ;) ... (now where did did I leave that raincoat?? hahaha)From my experience a 20 year old is more open to be taught by an older woman (hence they are easily moulded into a pleasure machine). The older ones tend to have their knowledge and experience consolidated into what they think pleases a woman and their ego's can get bruised when a suggestion is made to do something differently. i.e. they take it more personally. The younger is in awe that they are being "taught" how to please a woman and treat it as an honour that they are being bestowed the magical knowledge on how to please a woman. Just my experience anyway. I wonder if women my age who look for the "quality" are doing so because in the back of their deep subconscious they are also screening for potential relationship possibility in the guy, i.e. its more than just satisfying sexual needs or desires ? hmmmm
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RHP User
13 years ago
Something that does make me squirm in the guys my age is the talk that can ensue about exes, kids, work, finances, family etc - which can at times feel a bit like "married" talk to me... I have to admit there are times where I cringe at that type of discussion... I'm there for a sexy time, which is different to my "real" world and would rather not the reality talk.. just me..
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'tuscanred' one hit wonder............thats it and I roll over and need to sleep so its quality for me but from a few good men A few good men in the one session?? hahaha
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'paintme' that I get exactly what I want (i.e., quality) in a relatively short time? I do wonder though, if my partners feel the same way... I've asked and they all seem happy ... I'd expect them to tell me if it was otherwise. Give me intense fuckery ... we can get some sleep (my kids will wake me up at 6am). I will orgasm (lots), I will drown the bed (lots) ... YUM ... I really don't get this shit of "I can go all night" ... Anyone can go all night if you can sleep all day ...I did that shit in my 20's. I go away from home (travel 1-3 hrs to play - I never play in my own town). I too have kiddies at home and the chances of having an all nighter at home without the interruption of a kiddy coming down the hall or having to face the next day without sleep is not something that I aim for at home. But when I get away for my "sexy time" pulling an all nighter is a novelty and I like to get my "money's worth" in a session because I have travelled so far for the experience ! I am sexually cramming into a small time window. Maybe I'm greedy. I too "did that shit in my 20's" but don't see why I can't do it in my 30's as well! ;) and 40's and 50's and 60's hahaha
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Mr2Cheeky' "sex is like pizza - when its good it's really good, when it's bad .... still pretty good" AGREED!!!!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' As for old or young, short sex session or long doesn't matter... it is about the sexual chemistry you have with the other person that makes it great. For me anyway. ME TOO!!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Why do you have to choose? As for all nighters anything under two hours is a quicky. 4-6hrs is average. I try to lock away three or so of each a week. I suppose if it came down to it, I would choose 4 hours of awesome sex over 8 hours of average.
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RHP User
13 years ago
To me quality includes everything, the build up of foreplay which can include weeks of communication depending on the circumstances, the mental foreplay is as important as the phyical foreplay :-) The actual loving needs to be quality again mmmm long sensual or short and sweet but make it worth my time xxx - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
There have only been a small handful of men in my life who have managed to bring me to orgasm anyway. It is only going to be the once for me, forget multiples. Maybe in two or three hours I can go again so I definitely don't want it over in a rush. I have never had an orgasm through penetration either and I doubt that will ever change. For me it is all about external stimulation therefore foreplay is the way to go- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
last night ... well ... quantity was quality ....
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RHP User
13 years ago
You dont know what your missingQuoting 'tuscanred' one hit wonder............thats it and I roll over and need to sleep so its quality for me but from a few good men Isn't that like painting a picture with one brush and one colour?
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