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January 18 2017
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RHP User
9 years ago
I think you're needed over on the Unattached!!! Thread. Stat!
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RHP User
9 years ago
There is another topic running at the moment where this is being hashed over, that is playing without your partner's knowledge. Your responses here might be a little slow because of that and no judgment from me. One thing I noticed is you still say you're a guest in the looking for section I think? Maybe edit that. I don't have any useful advice really. If they don't read it, it's not your fault. You've stated it clearly which is great. All cards on the table. Maybe just continue being respectful and honest, and wait for suitable play partners to come out of the rhp woodwork. Good luck 😃
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RHP User
9 years ago
Op not sure if your read the last forum similar to yours called Attached ? You might want to read it first. My question to you as other's I'm sure will ask the same.....Are you in a open relationship ? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Sorry op check out Unattached thread. - Posted from rhpmobile
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AnnieWhichway
9 years ago
Put it in bold at top of your Profile?"Married man looking for NSA"If she can't read that then decide if you want her seeing eye dog in the bedroom at all......
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RHP User
9 years ago
..... - Posted from rhpmobile
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aussian43
9 years ago
They could be potentially scammers. I have received the occasional flirt from users hundreds of km away, with profiles indicating they are looking for a relationship, usually in the mid 20 age range. Typically if you contact them they take it to email or another chat system straight away, then try an get you to create an account somewhere with your credit card details. Take care and have fun! - Posted from rhpmobile
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Aristippusx2
9 years ago
A MALE being contacted by FEMALES !! Please explain
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RHP User
9 years ago
It's amazing how many people only read what they want to read... I'd do what Annie suggested - make it very clear, rather than just having married as relationship status. And yeah, have a look at the unattached thread
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RHP User
9 years ago
Didnt quite realise there was another similar thread going on haha, i read through a bit if it and id like to think his and my profile are very different. His seems very shady, where as mine im as honest as i can be because i dont want to waste there and my own time. I made a few changes with "my own words" so hopefully that helps. Thanks everyone for the help so far, and i appreciate the feedback it does help a lot with being new to this site - Posted from rhpmobile
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On_Safari
9 years ago
But don't put NSA!! Just say Happily Married & looking for Play Partner(s) ONLY ~ assuming you are happily married that is. No judgement here.
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RHP User
9 years ago
I agree with Indy (On_Safari)... get rid of the NSA thing...
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RHP User
9 years ago
No im not in an open relationship unfortunately, shes not into that sort of thing. So im doing this behind her back. Aristipusx haha yeah im quite surprised myself! Had a few females contact me which was nice, ive sent out a few and only gotten a handful of replies. I have since removed the NSA from my profile - Posted from rhpmobile
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AnnieWhichway
9 years ago
Not an astronaut then?
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RHP User
9 years ago
Women are contacting you? And not reading your profile? Happened a few times, has it? Um Parallel Universe, anyone?! 😄 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
I can be whatever you want me to be =p - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'AnnieWhichway' Not an astronaut then? sounds more like it should've been CIA not NSA, as a covert operative that isn't allowed to operate domestically ;)
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RHP User
9 years ago
lol your comment cracked me up. You didn't just look at the purdy pictures did you? He did say he was married and doing this without his partner's knowledge, second sentence 😂😂😂 surprised by your behavior 😉 I'd never do that 😎
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RHP User
9 years ago
Thank you for your honesty in replying. Can understand why being in two bad marriges myself. Difference is i guess I have/had a conscience. My theory in why people cheat and pretty basic. 1. Your not happy in the relationship or not getting sex. 2. Your an opportunist. Good luck mate and hope you can sleep well.
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RHP User
9 years ago
When I first used internet dating I was on a vanilla site, the one that fishes.After a lot of time wasting and misconnections I put a bold sign before my "about me", it said. "WARNING; This man has fully functioning Libido." Problem solved.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'Cheekyass71' Thank you for your honesty in replying. Can understand why being in two bad marriges myself. Difference is i guess I have/had a conscience. My theory in why people cheat and pretty basic. 1. Your not happy in the relationship or not getting sex. 2. Your an opportunist. Good luck mate and hope you can sleep well. What's with the moral judgement ?There's room for all here, not cool.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Its not that im unhappy with my marriage its just our sex life is boring and she has no intention or interest in spicing it up, she doesnt have a lot of experience with multiple people so shes more scared then anything. On multipl occasions ive tried buying new things being toys and handcuffs and stuff to try and spice it up, ive even suggested we get another person but it hasnt worked so wont go for it - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
"so please bare with me." :) I think your profile gives a very well-rounded impression of you; It definitely won't be for everyone, but you're surely well aware of that, especially at reading the 'other' thread. Reading you're married, then seeing your lead profile pic - I do wonder at the circumstances it was taken. But I like the mix of the two pictures 50 - there is a vanilla site that even asks if you're into dildos and cutting in sex play. Vanilla sites are definitely not filled with vanilla asexuals. Woot
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RHP User
9 years ago
I didn't even properly read and answer the OP question. So, there's that for proof about reading stuff in RHP :)
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RHP User
9 years ago
You are right about the pic, so i have since changed it. But i understand where you are coming from. Yes im completely aware of the other thread, ive read it and even commented on it :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'I_touch_myself2' lol your comment cracked me up. You didn't just look at the purdy pictures did you? He did say he was married and doing this without his partner's knowledge, second sentence 😂😂😂 surprised by your behavior 😉 I'd never do that 😎 ummm, maybe... I did go back and read it after I posted (and perhaps looked at the pics again, just to be sure I was in the right profile... )
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RHP User
9 years ago
Always best to be thorough 😛😜
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RHP User
9 years ago
Do it properly 😉😍
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RHP User
9 years ago
Go hard or go home I say 😀 Now what was the topic again? 😊 oh yeah attached 👫 and women not reading the profile. We obviously need to work on that 😎
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RHP User
9 years ago
Thats alright, dont let me get in the way of a good convo =p - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Mate I feel for you as i to was in a boring marriage for many years with a partner who didn't want to explore or make a effort. Not sure if you have kids? Yet understand how people stay around just for them. After many years later Loveorfcurves she ended up cheating on me so it doesn't really matter who fucks around on who, At the end of the day mate your self happiness will prevail. I'd probably be honest with her and tell her what you need instead of going behind her back. And you never know she might just give you a day pass. ??
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RHP User
9 years ago
Guessing your cheating on your wife. ??? Does she know ??? Cooler to have morals and honesty. Suggest you keep cleaning your pool as my view was directed to the Op. And it wasn't a judgement more a statement and my view.
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