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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  There are a lot of 'confusing' profiles on this site and a shit load of excuses why they are confusing. Some of the more common traits I have seen are:No Single MenTraditionally found on women and couple profile, this statement is often repeated throughout the profile. But then you glance down at their friends list and low and behold, all it contains is, yes Single Men. Guess they are just playing hard to get.No Photo/No ReplyThis little gem can be found on various profile, but strangely it is often accompanied with no public or private photo of the profile holder. I don't care if you are Julia and live at the Lodge, if you demand everyone else have a photo, it would be common courtesy to have on as well.No SmokersThe trendy line to have, especially if you have stated you are a non-smoker yourself. Just make sure that all the photo's in your profile don't show you with a cigarette. Guess these profiles are brand new showing their New Year's promise to give up!SingleA very common mistake for the unaware. If you are going to state you are single, at least have the decency to take the damn wedding ring off before you have the photo's taken. Maybe you are just keeping it for sentimental reasons or it just won't come off ... yeah surePhoto/Profile MismatchA great trick for those who only think profiles contain a picture and no words. I am sure everyone has seen one of these, the profile photo shows Person A yet the profile description is definitely of someone else. You didn't think we would notice did you .. huh huhAnd people here wonder why the wrong people contact them, go figure ......

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  playfulminx

  14 years ago

  Spot one mostly but I have to disagree with this one: Quoting 'mooka' There are a lot of 'confusing' profiles on this site and a shit load of excuses why they are confusing. Some of the more common traits I have seen are:No Single MenTraditionally found on women and couple profile, this statement is often repeated throughout the profile. But then you glance down at their friends list and low and behold, all it contains is, yes Single Men. Guess they are just playing hard to get.Spot on mostly but I have to disagree with this one. There are many couples and women who are actively not seeking single men but are more than open to MFM/MF fun and indeed have single guys listed as friends on RHP. In such cases it's best to go with what is written on profile rather than make assumptions based on friends lists and validations :)

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  playfulminx

  14 years ago

  Hey guys. From your post is sounds like you're sending messages out to women who come up in your search listing as seeking couples without reading their profiles? If that's the case, go with what's written on profile.I used to have 'looking for couples' on my profile but I had only added 'couples' on the proviso that (if you read my profile) you understand that I only play with couples with my partner. Unfortunately many couples did not read my profile and assumed I was up for joining them for FMF. Eventually I dropped 'couples' as my interest is really single men and women through my own profile. Couples I seek out via a couple profile I have with my partner.Please also keep in mind that we don't tend to view our own profiles and forget what we have listed as 'Looking for'. Some women may have set out to meet couples but changed their minds and forget to edit their profile.

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  I find the most annoying thing for me is, when I do a search for females and couples looking for single guys, and then see a profile that clearly states they are looking for " Man,Woman, couple " to then find at the bottom, No Single Males!If they dont want single guys contacting them, then just simply change the preferences of what your looking for, its really not that hard.....

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  This is my own profile. I opened it because I would like to meetand play with other bisexual ladies or lesbians. I'm also open to meeting with couples but only as part of a couple. I'm very happily married and my husband doesn't try to restrict me in any way. This is what I want. One particular couple, who got in touch, didn't read through my profile to discover this and when they were told that I wouldn't play alone with couples, they submitted a formal complaint to RHP that my site belonged to a couple. I found this behaviour quite offensive and arrogant. Obviously, RHP recognised what I was searching for after I explained myself and disregarded the complaint. My profile also states 'no single males' and yes, you will find single males in my friends list. I don't think it's nessecary that I place 'no MORE single males' on my intro. The point is clear enough.

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  Let's face it, the search engine ain't perfect and nor is the data people put in, so it pays to read (and read between the lines) profiles before responding.And a little hint to you guys thinking with your little brains: It's good if you actually refer to something written in the profile in your message. Let's the girl know you're paying some attention. One thing that does confuse me though is when I see a profile that says 'TV/TS, no guys'. Does that mean they won't see a guy unless he's wearing a dress?

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  We just searched for "women seeking couples" and found, on reading properly, that quite a few of the profiles that listed "Couples" really wanted to just play with the woman alone (which is fine I guess), but a LOT of them were really looking for a full-on life-partner romance (ie. a single man). Which lead us to wonder if there was any deviousness going on - ie. are these women relying on the fact that some "Couple" profiles are actually cheating men playing alone, and they're hoping to snag a man that way. Hope not, because that's a bit sordid.Maybe that's way too complicated and it's totally innocent LOL :)Either way, it makes searching way harder than it should be, and it would be nice if people would update their preferences to match what their profile text says.

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  When I read a profile that indicates a lady might be looking for a permanent relationship but has included couples as being sought, I reckon they're hoping to have fun times in the interim while waiting for Mister Right to appear. I don't think there's anything sinister in it.

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