oomf_94

oomf_94

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Profile Feedback & Message Questions - Newbie

August 29 2023

Hello redhotpie forums! o/ I'm very new to the scene, I'm quite anxious and nervous about making a start here sooo... could I kindly request some feedback on my profile please? For some message questions, mine are as follows: If my example of a intro message would be "Hello XXXX, I've stumbled upon your profile and noticed we share some similar interests. Do you go out or do this thing often?" My question is: How do I make my messages stand out more? I feel like most would end up sounding the same old ish and would get boring for people quickly.

Comments

  • Sawadee

    Sawadee

    2 years ago

    Theres no quick fixes when it comes to writing the ideal profile.. Best advice is to take the time to be yourself .. Thats the real you , not what someone else thinks..

  • nightingale8

    nightingale8

    2 years ago

    I think you’ll find different women will like different things, and even the same woman will like different things at different times! The whole “be yourself” I think is sorta good advice in that it’s much easier to maintain and allow yourself to shine, plus women don’t get blindsided when a dickhead suddenly appears outta nowhere (yes, enjoy that imagery). If you’re interested in connecting on people’s interests sometimes it’s helpful to answer a little of your own question in your first message. Saves the initial back and forth. Sure, the message might be boring but those who answer will be more into you.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    2 years ago

    Hi man, i was originally on here as a couple and literally coulndt keep up with the messages. Mainly single blokes throwing dick pics at ya. Since ive been on as a single bloke ive only got 2 likes and struggle to strike up a convo. So my advice is. Stay honest and polite and only send private albulm if asked by someone trustworthy. Other than that. Go get em Tiger. Oh and you can continuously tweak your profile as you go