Premature ejaculation

September 01 2018

We finally Found a couple who we can have fun with and also be friends. We have been texting trying to Organise a time to catch up and have some fun until one of messages said they worried to meet up because he might cum to quick...... anyone have any ideas how to stop it or slow it down?? X - Posted from rhpmobile

Comments

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    7 years ago

    The couple haven't been able to establish a routine that delays him, it is unlikely you find a quick answer in the short term. If they are raising the possibility of it, you can be sure it's a probability and a safe bet.

  • DynamicCouple36

    DynamicCouple36

    7 years ago

    Is due to alleged premature ejaculation ? Lol that’s a new one we have not heard before. How sure are you that they are actually a couple ? Most probably only a male . - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Askin for a mate.......

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    This is a joke in quite a few blokey movies, but if I am at all worried that I am going to do the old Victa two-stroke on an upcoming date (this does happen if it has been a long time between drinks), I rub one out the night before.

  • tcm70

    tcm70

    7 years ago

    Tell him, that nearing his point of no return to fill his mind with thoughts of the state of Australian politics. His brain will then decide he’s already fucked and doesn’t need to cum.

  • EarthQueen

    EarthQueen

    7 years ago

    Quoting 'tcm70' Tell him, that nearing his point of no return to fill his mind with thoughts of the state of Australian politics. His brain will then decide he’s already fucked and doesn’t need to cum. That might make him vomit but?OP seems like its a common anxiety for men but nothing ventured nothing gained. I did a thread on this a while back . Had a few good tips. The best one was the pressure point, which we used with some success. Heres the link https://redhotpie.com.au/Adult-Forums/Tips-needed-lasting-longer-56025

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    One thing for sure is the ability to cum more than once should be natural, for all players.If the feeling of cumming quickly is there..., then concentrate on taking care of one of the ladies pussy and relax...orhave the pressure released, cum, make it part of the play, don't cum hard..try and slow it down...see if the lady can squeeze and make the experience lots fun... then enjoy getting hard again....oral, hand, watch others... Have fun....

  • rupamohan

    rupamohan

    7 years ago

    Desensitize it or jerk few hours before. Many over the counter desenstizing / numbing products available that will help delaying but may cause ed (erectile dysfunction) prescription medicine dapoxetine may help too. Good luck.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Maybe if everyone didn't make such a big deal out of it the guy would relax. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    ....cum. Get the first one over and done with. Enjoy it and get ready for round two. Just because the bloke has cum does not mean the night is over. Could be the start of things. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    7 years ago

    Quoting 'Fun420' Maybe if everyone didn't make such a big deal out of it the guy would relax. - Posted from rhpmobile The couple themselves made the big deal of it by flagging it. If keeping it low brow was going to work then let it suck and see. By flagging it, everyone is on egg shells to see if the hair trigger is ready to go. A random shot could come at any time. Wear your safety glasses, dont want that shit in your eye......

  • madotara69

    madotara69

    7 years ago

    For many years we took opportunity and time poor we had hard fast loving sex, Tara can orgasm in little time so it worked well, we had a lot more sex because a quick fuck happened quickly, a lot quicker than a long time fuck we didn't have time for and wouldn't have had sex. It can take time and adjusting to longer moments having sex, foreplay and back off a little when getting a little over excited, working with each other when having sex is a great way for having great sex too. Yeah..long live the quickie Work past the urge and the chemicals of arousal begin sending our whole self into heightened sensitivity, intimacy and fucking for as long as whenever cums, I reckon anyhow. Mado Mado Tara xx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    If your turned on, the pussy is amazing and sex is great, Im pretty sure any guy cums fast. Controlling my breathing helps a lot . The faster your breathing gets the more your body is priming for the shot 😂. Is it really an issue but ? Get hard again, could take some viagra or Kamagra Gel and still be rocking or enjoy the scenery of some hot action going on infront of you and be ready for more 😍 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • Forus1234

    Forus1234

    7 years ago

    Try a cock ring! We keep one in our naughty bag (the tool box), just in case, but haven’t needed to hand it to anyone yet. Massages are also a great thing, mix it up a bit, there’s nothing better than a good body slide after being massaged with oil & if all else fails, tell him to see a Dr & grab script blue bills(viagra), the majority of the guys on the party scene use it! Young & old!

  • him_and_me

    him_and_me

    7 years ago

    I have faced this issue and it has led to a lot of stressful times in terms of enjoying this lifestyle. I even went to see a sex therapist about it. She put me on to some podcasts by some US based therapists, and I think that really helped. If you're interested, search for Celeste and Danielle Master Ejaculation. The key for me was to use some techniques there in conjunction with a really supportive partner. My wife and I would try things and when I would reach the point of climax, we'd slow down, focus on relaxing and breathing and even just do something else like performing oral for a while or just kissing and touching. This also worked for when we played with certain others, but only when they were aware, and supportive. Some partners just want "hard and fast", and that just won't work for me (still hard...just the wrong type of fast in that scenario with me). Good luck and have lots of slow, erotic, sexy, sweaty fun :) Him - Posted from rhpmobile

  • rupamohan

    rupamohan

    7 years ago

    Don't think these work for PE. It may work for ED. If you have both issues you need a very balanced approach because what works for PE will make ED more worse.

  • NightToRemember

    NightToRemember

    7 years ago

    Premature ejaculation is all in the eye of the beholder, so to speak. Plenty of other options, and practice makes perfect. - Posted from rhpmobile