M52

Photos in profiles

August 09 2018

We've been on RHP for a little while now and starting to meet some interesting people. What intrigues me is the couples profiles often only have photos of the lady as the main or sketchy images of the fellas, or none at all. Why is this? It appears some couple's use the physical attraction of the lady as bait. Should we not post up reasonable images of ourselves to show the whole package? I understand that some people require discretion/anonymity due to job roles or community standing. And GO.. I'm thoroughly interested in what people's opinions and reasoning is for this. Cheers ☺ - Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

7 years ago

You answered your own question Bait The lure Because clearly the male half is the anchor - Posted from rhpmobile

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DynamicCouple36

7 years ago

Look at the fashion & advertising industry .... it’s very much geared towards selling the female form. Why do single females generally get into swingers clubs for free or at a very reduced rate ? They also have more perks on here do they not ? Why ? Because they attract the paying males . The power of the pussy :) - Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

7 years ago

We both like to play, so at some point early on we like to see BOTH parties.. if we dont we usually move on.. - Posted from rhpmobile

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MissRedFox

7 years ago

While there's pics of both of you the main pic is of her - showing alot of flesh and mostly a body pic Just saying - Posted from rhpmobile

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MsJonesy

7 years ago

As bait. 🎏

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RHP User

7 years ago

Lot of couple profiles are actually married men looking for some action on the side. Main reason people setup couple profiles is that many genuine couples who are not into single men erase dozens of messages from single men without reading them. -we used to do it when it became obvious that most single men did not read profiles and just sent messages/flirts “just in case” maybe someone takes them serious, this was a real problem when we first created this account as we were looking at 50 to 100 notifications a day. It slowed down eventually. So setting up a couple profile helps them bypass getting erased straight away when they message. But as soon as we figured it was just a dude, we blocked them anyway. We are a couple and we have both our photos up. We don’t take anyone serious if there is just one female photo. It could be anyone’s photo. I see Amanda Cerny and Other Instagram celebrities photos every now and then. Be careful. - Posted from rhpmobile

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DynamicCouple36

7 years ago

Yes, we too have come to the conclusion that many couples profiles (and a high number of female profiles) belong to males. We would say men, but don’t think such males are worthy of being called men. Not sure why they do it. Possibly is for the thrill of the hunt ? Perhaps they are avid photo collectors? More than likely they are hoping for a bit of action on the side. Makes one very mistrustful and cynical of this while scene, at times . - Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

7 years ago

From the single blokes' perspective, I agree with other responses here thus far - it seems like many (I don't know if I would say most) are just men trying to dangle a bit of bait to lure unsuspecting couples/single women/single men. I have wasted a lot of time messaging back and forth, showing up to ghosted meetups, which has made me quite wary. Now if I get a message from a couple my antennae is quite highly tuned. The second I get a whiff of it being the male only half of a ''couple'' I start asking for some kind of confirmation that they are indeed a couple - which usually results in radio silence and no further communication. I mean, come on dude - Grindr will be far easier for you to hook up with blokes if that's what you want. I think there's a factor also of blokes seriously wanting to do the threesome/swinging thing - they just haven't addressed the pesky little issue of asking their partners about it. Not that I've had it for ages (mostly because it was via a more bi-specific site), but if I had a dollar for every time a bloke has said to me via message (usually after protracted messaging back and forth), when it comes time to put up or shut up, that all they have to do is ''ask the missus'' but they are ''pretty sure she'd be up for it'' then I would have... well... about $12? Actually, can I change that to ''if I had a thousand dollars for every time....''?

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RHP User

7 years ago

Yes we find it very frustrating as well. We’re now of the opinion that if there iare pics of her and none of him, the bloke is probably a dud. - Posted from rhpmobile

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FredAndGinger2

7 years ago

We always look for profiles that have pics of both male and female together. - Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

7 years ago

Hey all new to the scene, what would be a good profile pic for a couple? We cant show our faces, due to the nature of our careers. I was thinking of getting some sexy lingerie for her and a few professional photos, what should i wear? also i was worried that they might appear as false advertising? another thing that this site has got to do something about is fake female profiles, im off work for a week and my wife is overseas again and after looking at alot of profiles lately there are clearly some fake profiles, if im new and can spot them, surely admin can? Cheers Mr EMandSh

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RHP User

7 years ago

Totally agree both male and female should be in the photos. The pics don't have to be too sexy just try take some nice basic pics of you both as a couple and trust me you'll get views and attention. A lot of people are attracted to a nice simple couple photo not everyone wants just a photo of the hot female lol.

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