Perth pubs / scene

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  OpalRose

  11 months ago

  Well, they do. Just not as often. I used to organise meets at ‘normal’ clubs and pubs. Specifically targeted towards newer people in the scene. Honestly it’s a hell of a lot of work. And the most effort goes into people who end up being all talk and simply don’t turn up. And that’s no fun. This effort tends to encourage organisers to charge more for entrance. But you can’t really get away with that at a public bar. So now you need a specific venue. The benefit of that? No ‘normies’ will be there. It’ll be people specifically there for the lifestyle. And you’d expect a higher level of discretion versus a public bar with the public watching, or worse… trying to mingle. As for bumping into people, let’s face it, you’re still attending a ‘swingers event’ if it’s at public bar. You’ll still be walking into most likely a roped off area with maybe attention grabbing red ballons and others dressed a little sexier than the rest of the bar. But just remember, the people at these parties are there for the same reason you are. Embrace that. Having said all that I’ve been itching to get back into running meet and greets so you might see some more soon.

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  Andrea_Sydney

  11 months ago

  I wouldn’t worry about that too much. If you would really bump into someone, then they are there too. People are discreet about each other. Obviously no guarantees. But I don’t think you need to worry about too much.

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  3SM_Events

  11 months ago

  Swingle Bells Social on July 25 will be put in the vanilla wilderness. Look in the events section or DM me for further details if interested.

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  RHP User

  11 months ago

  Risqué society is well known for their social events. Held in “normal” venues ☺️

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  RHP User

  11 months ago

  @opalrose I completely get what everyone is saying. I really do. But I think this has got over complicated lol. There would be no host, no roped off area etc. my suggestion was purely to put out a date and location at a “normal” pub / club in Perth and those that are new like me could go along knowing there would be hopefully many others in the scene attending but have some comfort that they could “just be in the same location” if they bumped into anyone they knew. Yes you wouldn’t know exactly who’s who which is half the plan but after a few drinks I reckon people would chat etc. if no one turns up well hey your a “normal” place and just box on and have a good night. I’m sure one day we will be brave enough to do it the right way lol. Was just an idea…. Maybe a bad one. 😕

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  Banger_n_Pash

  10 months ago

  Your worry is completely natural, I felt the same way, while hubby was much more comfortable with being ‘out’. We’ve meet people from Date Finder at pubs. Once you’re in the club you’re with like minded people, and as someone else has already said, anyone you see is there for the same reason. It’s my experience that most people are very respectful. To help break the ice going to a club you could go with another or meet them there. We’re happy to be your wingman 😁

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