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Partner's fantasy

October 09 2016

When meeting your partner and starting your relationship with them what were their sexual fantasies that turned you on? That were maybe a bit different? Or maybe something that turned you off them after hearing maybe a little too much of their dark fantasy? Hearing your partner's fantasy definitely show's you a different side of them especially when it comes out of blue and totally out of their every day character. No negative comments or judgement just appreciation...

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    When I met hubby, lol, I just wanted to get rid of the damn virginity! I've been having fun ever since ;) My evolution has been quite profound, especially since being on RHP. My confidence in my sexuality and sex has improved dramatically and I can ask to explore fantasies with either the two gorgeous men in my life :) Hubby was way more experienced than me when we met but we've explored fantasies together and he's very open minded and nothing was 'shocking or surprising' to him. I'm lucky enough to have a wonderful BF too! Luckily for me, he too is very open minded about sex and sexuality and we're trying new experiences together. I love the place I'm in and nothing (other than skat) is off the table, so to speak. Fantasies with each of my men is different, so I'm quite spoilt for choice :) Absolutely nothing that they suggest or encourage is off putting, I trust them to be able to share fantasies with me and we make them happen. I will always try something once, if I don't like it, I'm confident enough to say so but will find other ways for their fantasies to be realised, even if I have to outsource (lol). As long as I get to watch ;) Mary xx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    I've been with my partner for 5 years. Originally, before him, I was a bit of a "slut" that really just enjoyed letting my young adult body tell me what it wanted. After maturing and settling down a little, I realised there was a lot missing and I was concerned to raise it with the future father of my children. He's usually a bit more reserved than most of the younger generation and he was inexperienced before I came along. Certain that he would reject the idea, I just never brought it up. On our 5th anniversary, we were smoking shisha while enjoying pizza and cocktails, and I just dropped it. "I want to get some more people involved" and he was all for it! Surprising and exciting, we began writing our profiles and feeling out what the other wanted. In regards to the fantasies... Do you ever want to hear from the woman you love that she wants 5 dicks all around her to go nuts on? Probably not. But usually we have these fantasies that look so good in our heads, but honestly only want to try them once... Just to say we did... You know? Most women are definitely more sexually explorative than men (based on personal experiences) which means our brains are looking for fantasies that look amazing in porn or something and think "oh, well doesn't that look like fun" hahaha I wouldn't say a different side of your partner is being revealed, rather than a more open side. For someone to lay out the depths of their mind shows a lot of trust and love for that other person. I would never be able to do any of the things we have been trying without the man I have now. Respectful and honest, I know I can tell him any crazy fantasy and he will think no differently of me. On a side note... If these desires or fetishes are just not morally okay with you, then it's another conversation we're having here. There's some things people just find inherently gross that others get aroused by. That's humans :) - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    My gf asked me whether she can have a DPP with a another 8", I said yes & she squirted for a very looong time , I was bit apprehensive at the start to have another cock on top of mine !!!! but the screaming and moaning + squirts kept it going for at least 1.5 hours ... well that was different - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Quoting 'vendal114' "DPP with a another 8", I said yes & she squirted" - Posted from rhpmobile Do you stack up? Endowment6" - 7" / Thick How do you become "another 8" " when you advertise as 6-7 ,, and in RHP terms that's overstated

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    In our case it was wine. We drank heaps of it and nothing much mattered after that. Either my husband or his wife lol.That was way back last century and we are still together so I can thoroughly recommend lots of wine. If it doesn't work out then you can't remember anyway so wtf?