Our first time.

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  Totally Agree with the lovely, intelligent and humourous Miss sweetie...Asking for trouble if their is any association outside of the bedroom...Wish you guys well. I hope its a blast...

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  Personally we would advise against it. But if your important parts take over your brain go for it. Take it slow and keep some secrets. xx

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  I don't believe the two of them working together will be an issue. We know this is just for fun, no strings, and I am far more comfortable with people I know rather than someone I've just met. We are planning a night to hang out this weekend. We are just going to hang out, play games and probably do some kissing petting etc, but that is it. For the "main" event we are planning a day in the city and staying in a hotel. We want to be on neutral ground. I believe on the weekend we will all talk about what we want from the night. I know we are all ok with swapping partners, so that discussion is out of teh way LOL

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  I agree with Mrs. Sweetipie...I too have delved into the co-workers den with another couple. At the time, the spa thing was absolutely hot, hands and feet going everywhere, lots of kissing and stroking etc. It was great and I don't regret it. But with time....jealousy reared its god forsaken ugly head. What was so beautiful between us became this annoying pit in my stomach everytime we met and discussed things for work. I was ok and husband was ok but wifey didn't accept it at all. We never ever did the full swap as she couldn't handle someone else sexually enjoying her well endowed husband......so I have never been able to experience the joys of that feeling! All I'm saying is have your brain and eyes wide open......and expect the worse so you wont come crashing down to reality.....xx

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  Well our first time is officially over :) And it was amazing. We spent the evening with the other couple, getting more comfortable, playing games (ie truth or dare) and so on until eventually we all got so hot that we went to the bedroom and as they say the rest is history. I admit, because it was our first time, there were ALOT of nerves. My husband has only ever been with me and we have been together 16 years so it was almost like my frist time all over again LOL The next day was a day to decompress that's for sure. To make sure we were both all good with what had happened. And guess what? We are :) No jealousy at all. And my hubby went to work with his friend on the monday ( we met with them on the saturday) and there was no awkwardness. They talked about the night and how much they both enjoyed it etc etc. So now that the first time is over, I really can't wait to do it again!! Of course I don't know the etiquette for this type of thing. How long do you wait before you suggest you "hang out" with the other couple again? It's definitely made our sex life explode at home. It was great before, but now all I can say is WOW!!

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  See .. it can all seem grand as an idea... but if the green eyed monster raises its ugly head, those lads working together can become a real issue. Communication is the answer. If you haven't done any wife swapping before .. when it comes to seeing your lover being pleasured by someone else it is not uncommon for insecurities to arise. Ive seen it time and time again. He's all good with it until he sees how hot she is getting by whatever it is I'm doing... and then he goes flaccid. This is commonly a failing to appreciate that it is the circumstance that makes her so hot... not the dude with his finger in her arse or whatever.It's usually cleared up by accepting that your lover might get more excited than you have ever seen them get and do things with someone else or by reason of someone else that you have not experienced yourself. Just saying, be mentally prepared.HugsStalky

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