M36
Orgy Time Machine
July 04 2013
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RHP User
12 years ago
I can see your point in the not too distant past but reliable contraception, women gaining financial independence and this here internet have made a sexual renaissance.As for being at the mercy of the media, speak for yourself, I avoid it like the plague and never do what I'm told !Obedience is suicide.And guys, Vasectomy, so easy !
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RHP User
12 years ago
in a nutshell...yes! (Assuming we took steps forward?) We have taken steps backward with regards to openness in our sexuality. It's true the 'perversity' you speak of has little to do with real 'openness'. Sexuality, particularly male sexuality, is in dishonour everywhere. For let's say, seventeen year-old's standing on the brink of male sexual experience.....a deep ambivalence bordering on self-loathing is not hard to acquire. Our culture is very shame based, there is little on offer in the way of cultural celebration or honouring around sexuality. Society in general desperately needs to recover a deep sense of masculine self-esteem. Many Australian men have never seen older men relating well to women.... our fathers were often either bullies or wimps around other adult women.....while younger females also observed and internalised this same dysfunction. It all sounds like such a doomed legacy doesn't it? It's not so much about the extremes of sexual perversion, but about the mainstream from which these extremes are born....the damaged state of our collective sexuality and the process by which young men and women have their sexuality impaired, if you like, so that it manifests in poor relationships with each other. Thus we have the, now penned, phrase, the "creepification" of modern culture. We really need our adult males to reinforce the message...'This is how you relate to women with courtesy, confidence and care', balanced with...'This is how you respect yourself so you are not 'lead by the penis' in relating to women, but by your own desire, and to feel your desirability'... How things could be so different if we were to understand the beauty and potential of sexual energy when it is well utilized. That, in itself, it's a powerful force needing much cultural understanding and direction.There have been times and societies when this was done very well, but ours isn't yet one of them.
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RHP User
12 years ago
does that mean a fuck is out of the question then? Lol.
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RHP User
12 years ago
....you will be missed.
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RHP User
12 years ago
..depending on the others behaviour giving the/a fuck.
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RHP User
12 years ago
these forums/fora need intelligent ,thoughtful contributions such as yours slick........we live in a time of rapid change it's true,but when exactly was it a better time to live? How we relate to each other sexually is just a reflection of how we live the rest of our lives.If you are a kind ,caring ,ethical person then that is how you will conduct yourself in all aspects of life. Be the change you want to see in the world slick and enjoy the rest of your journey.x R
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RHP User
12 years ago
.. to have seen many changes specially the sexual kind. Back when I was a teen getting a girls panties off was tougher than a arse stuck to a dunny seat with super glue. It was a period when what your folks said was gospel and final. We had very little sex education and learnt most things from friends who knew no better anyway. So we bumbles and made it up as we went along. Once I became established in grade football, sex became more readily available for the 12 years I played. By the time I retired, the sexual revolution was well under way and things became easier for both sexes. It's remained that way til the present day except for one thing.Seems everybody has a higher expectation of themselves and the people they expect to fuck these days. Girls are not affraid to ask for a big cock or a washboard six pack and guys expect and a blowjob or a root on the first or second date. ?I find these demands a unreal expectation for most because they know deep down theres more to it. I know I'm a lone voice and what I've have to say will be forgotten as soon as finish reading because most people get caught up in the same bind and wont know any difference. My advice is slow down and enjoy the person first' then the sex becomes more satisfying..
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RHP User
12 years ago
here is a ''like'' and agree from me.....instant soup aint the same as bouillabaisse,same goes for instant sex....not that I don't enjoy a cup of the instant variety on occassion
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RHP User
12 years ago
Orgies in the streets? Quoting 'Freya73' we live in a time of rapid change it's true,but when exactly was it a better time to live? Take me back to the days of Roman orgies, say around 50 AD. M**
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RHP User
12 years ago
...first I've heard of these street orgies in Paris too? *sigh* Better get back under my rock.
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RHP User
12 years ago
that must have been Gertrude Steins p.r person at work
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Playful2looking
12 years ago
Good forum contributors are always missed. i have to disagree with some of what you have said about human sexuality. Yes there is a lot negatives but generally I feel positive about human sexuality. I understand that we tend to project more onto things. If some males are suffering an idenity crises its because their role in society is changing. Some of this is a result of women redefining their role but mostly its because men's role has change. Yes we still need warriors too fight wars but we also need dads that nurture their siblings. Dads don't just go to work and drink beer anymore; they wipe noses and hug daughters when they cry. My son is a wonderful dad better then i was. I am pround of this generation of men. Its tough for them but being tough isn't just defined by the Alpha male sydrome. Being tough is not about kicking goals on the footy field.
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RHP User
12 years ago
with the changes and adjustments men have to make to keep up. We saw the predominantly alpha'esque man of the 80's be superseded by the late 90's snags, only to discover in the noughties that women, deep down women don't really want a true snag. It's great to see the younger men coming through who have those more balanced and authentic, nurturing qualities and more strings to their bow than a cabinet full of trophies and a well oiled beer drinking elbow.Quoting 'lickandsuck123' Good forum contributors are always missed. i have to disagree with some of what you have said about human sexuality. Yes there is a lot negatives but generally I feel positive about human sexuality. I understand that we tend to project more onto things. If some males are suffering an idenity crises its because their role in society is changing. Some of this is a result of women redefining their role but mostly its because men's role has change. Yes we still need warriors too fight wars but we also need dads that nurture their siblings. Dads don't just go to work and drink beer anymore; they wipe noses and hug daughters when they cry. My son is a wonderful dad better then i was. I am pround of this generation of men. Its tough for them but being tough isn't just defined by the Alpha male sydrome. Being tough is not about kicking goals on the footy field.
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madotara69
12 years ago
Eve said to Adam, catch me if you can. It's been the same old story ever since the world began.Good luck slickzMado
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