Orgasms

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  Youll be popular. But if pain persists see a doctor ;)- Posted from rhpmobile

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  Tall74nHard9

  12 years ago

  the body shudder, but always had something else to show for it as well.   T.

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  Bitches be crazy ;)- Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  Well the general belief... Or do I mean rule? Is that when a man cums he ejaculates. So yes, I would say a woman who is unaware a man can do this or maybe someone who hasn't seen it before would question whether you have really come/enjoyed yourself. It's a normal reaction I think.

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  at band camp

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  Interesting topic so I did a bit of investigative googling. Hope this helps with your question. If you have mastered the Tantric option... that's awesome, well done!   1. Tantric sex   Tantric sex distinguishes between the experiences of orgasm and ejaculation. Although they often happen at the same time, men are capable of having orgasms without ejaculating. Ejaculatory control is what makes it possible for Tantric lovers to capture and extend the magical energy of orgasm. By holding back, men can experience a series of "mini-orgasms." This does not mean that you are never to ejaculate, but that you can control your climax. The essence, say Tantric experts, is to catch a wave of energy and to surf the edge without going over. Use these strategies to stay atop the wave: The pubococcygeal (PC) muscles, which run from your public bone to your tailbone, are the ultimate sex muscles. These are the same muscles used to stop the flow of urine. If properly conditioned, the PCs enable you to stop ejaculation while continuing to enjoy sex. Kegel exercises are the best way to tone the PCs. Here's how: Contract your PC muscles three times per day, squeezing 20 to 25 repetitions. This is a simple exercise that you can do at anytime. Just don't overdo it. After a month of conditioning, try to extend the squeeze, holding each contraction for two seconds. Gradually work up to 10 seconds. Once your PCs are in top shape, you will be able to pump them in order to ride the orgasmic wave without gliding over the brink too soon. Relax. Although it sounds paradoxical, it's important for men to stay relaxed during high states of arousal. If you feel the undulations of ejaculation, take a slow, deep breath and stop making love long enough for your arousal to subside. Relax and try to direct energy from your penis up through your body. Take this time to talk to your partner or to draw several slow, deep breaths. By experimenting, you will discover how much "time out" you require before catching the next wave. The idea is to allow yourself enough time for the intensity to subside, but not so much that you lose your erection. Put it all together. When you and your partner make love, thrust slowly, allowing your arousal to build gradually. Before your excitement mounts, relax for a moment, tighten your PC muscles and take a deep breath. Resume your lovemaking, continuing to generate excitement. Then, relax again, hold your PCs and breathe. Continue to ride this swell until you near the crest. Then, open your eyes, clamp down on your PC muscles and take a deep breath to experience the joy of orgasm without ejaculating. Since these techniques take practice, expect a few "wipe outs" before you achieve mastery.   2. Retrograde - middle aged and older men Retrograde ejaculation. That’s when semen flows backwards into the bladder through the urethra instead of coming out the normal spout. A man will feel all the pleasures of orgasm, but no fluid will have been released. After this has happened, the man experiencing this he might notice his pee is a little cloudy. Retrograde ejaculation can be a side effect of diabetes, multiple sclerosis, or men who just had prostate surgery. So, if this keeps up, get thee to a doctor.   3. Dry orgasm - usually younger men After repeatedly orgasming they have run out of seminal fluid. By the next day fluids have been replenished.   SF xx

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  Thanks for your input everyone. I think open communication is the answer.

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  sometimes it is the journey not the arrival,that matters

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  So far all the talk is on orgasm but yes it is the givingthat counts not orgasm.If you worried how she feels then explain to her thatyou are not concerned as you feel great but even moreis how you made her feel and if that includes her orgasmthen all the better.Sadly lots of people think we are all the same but hell noand thank god for that.sometimes it is the journey not the arrival,that matters

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  That's a full body O bud.they rock!

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  Quoting 'Sensory_fun' Interesting topic so I did a bit of investigative googling. Hope this helps with your question. If you have mastered the Tantric option... that's awesome, well done!   1. Tantric sex   Tantric sex distinguishes between the experiences of orgasm and ejaculation. Although they often happen at the same time, men are capable of having orgasms without ejaculating. Ejaculatory control is what makes it possible for Tantric lovers to capture and extend the magical energy of orgasm. By holding back, men can experience a series of "mini-orgasms." This does not mean that you are never to ejaculate, but that you can control your climax. The essence, say Tantric experts, is to catch a wave of energy and to surf the edge without going over. Use these strategies to stay atop the wave: The pubococcygeal (PC) muscles, which run from your public bone to your tailbone, are the ultimate sex muscles. These are the same muscles used to stop the flow of urine. If properly conditioned, the PCs enable you to stop ejaculation while continuing to enjoy sex. Kegel exercises are the best way to tone the PCs. Here's how: Contract your PC muscles three times per day, squeezing 20 to 25 repetitions. This is a simple exercise that you can do at anytime. Just don't overdo it. After a month of conditioning, try to extend the squeeze, holding each contraction for two seconds. Gradually work up to 10 seconds. Once your PCs are in top shape, you will be able to pump them in order to ride the orgasmic wave without gliding over the brink too soon. Relax. Although it sounds paradoxical, it's important for men to stay relaxed during high states of arousal. If you feel the undulations of ejaculation, take a slow, deep breath and stop making love long enough for your arousal to subside. Relax and try to direct energy from your penis up through your body. Take this time to talk to your partner or to draw several slow, deep breaths. By experimenting, you will discover how much "time out" you require before catching the next wave. The idea is to allow yourself enough time for the intensity to subside, but not so much that you lose your erection. Put it all together. When you and your partner make love, thrust slowly, allowing your arousal to build gradually. Before your excitement mounts, relax for a moment, tighten your PC muscles and take a deep breath. Resume your lovemaking, continuing to generate excitement. Then, relax again, hold your PCs and breathe. Continue to ride this swell until you near the crest. Then, open your eyes, clamp down on your PC muscles and take a deep breath to experience the joy of orgasm without ejaculating. Since these techniques take practice, expect a few "wipe outs" before you achieve mastery.   2. Retrograde - middle aged and older men Retrograde ejaculation. That’s when semen flows backwards into the bladder through the urethra instead of coming out the normal spout. A man will feel all the pleasures of orgasm, but no fluid will have been released. After this has happened, the man experiencing this he might notice his pee is a little cloudy. Retrograde ejaculation can be a side effect of diabetes, multiple sclerosis, or men who just had prostate surgery. So, if this keeps up, get thee to a doctor.   3. Dry orgasm - usually younger men After repeatedly orgasming they have run out of seminal fluid. By the next day fluids have been replenished.   SF xx

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  Yes, has happened to me also... Just a shit having to explain to her it had nothing to do with her or her ability. Quite often happens when the sex is exceptional , but try and explaining this when there's no proof inside her or the balloon.. I think many females judge their performance on the amount of cum the guy produces for them... . Girls ! It don't always happen that way...

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  That it's called a "dry blow"

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