One night stand vs longish term?

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  OK so i am on here as a single woman at the moment...but a while ago I did have a couples profile with my ex husband (and if anyone knows how to get rid of an old profile let me know!) When we were looking for playmates as a couple, it wasn't all about getting with as many as possible, more about finding a few compatible people to have some regular fun with. Having said that, we never exactly stopped looking either... I guess it is like moving to a new town, at first you actively try and make friends, but once you have found some, you stop trying so hard. But everyone is always open to new friends :) It was kind of like that for us when we first joined the site, initially trying really hard to find new playmates, but once we had a few, stopped trying so much, but were always open to the possibility. xxx Cherry

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  Hello all....(our first post). We thought about one nighters but decided that finding friendship would suit us better. After looking we found one couple very close to us with the same thoughts of finding friendship and we settled down a bit. After a while we decided that as a group we would go to the couples club and party the night away. So on occasion we enjoy the one night stand rush, but love the fact we have a couple close by that we can chat and hang out with (and sometimes play). We are still actively looking for more friends that we can spend time with.

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  Haha We arnt telling, unless you tell first!

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  The truth is that we are un-initiated yet. So we are looking for someone to have a chat with and take things forward. But preferably we would look for 1-2-3 compatible couples who could be regulars - A nice lunch with a bottle of wine followed by some music/telly chatting about life in general, getting to know each other better and then moving to the more pleasurable things in life. Thats our lifestyle, which flows into our preferences as well. Laidback, lazy, gentle fun. No wham bam thank you mam stuff. Any like minded couples out there?

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  We prefer exactly what you are suggesting ongoing allows you to grow with each other get to know what everyone likes and doesn't . While one offs can be fun quiet often feel like we have missed out on what we like or wanted but the others have got there wants satisfied. Also hate that first meet times all the time wasters nutters when you find what suits why bother going through the bad times.

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  completely agree T-bi_cpl

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