M33
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May 25 2015
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RHP User
11 years ago
but you are in WA so I have not chance whatsoever..keep looking I am sure you will find that there are plenty of women in WA who will treasure a good friendly convo
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AnnieWhichway
11 years ago
But i always answer flirts and messages. I agree, costs nothing to be polite and who knows where it goes from there. But dont go down the rude path. Stay positive and keep on keeping on.
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RHP User
11 years ago
The only people I have on my list are those I actually know and like and actually regard as a friend. That doesn't necessarily mean a play friend. Its like anywhere. If you are the new kid on the block, it can take time to get into the groove of making friends. Hang out in the forums, go to meet and greets and it will happen.The number of messages some people receive means that they are very quick to decide whether to take things further or not. Be patient and good luck. LG PS. just a suggestion - proof read your profile as good spelling and grammar can give credibility to what you say. But then it depends on the type of person you are looking for and who you are contacting whether its important to them.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Now I cannot speak for all males only from my own experience. Have only been here a couple of months have never received any rude comments with knock backs. I am very courteous, polite, genuine and thoughtful but rarely get a reply to my messages and that's cool as there are twice as many men here than women and some may be quite cautious considering a few of the ugly replies I have heard of. Have had some lovely conversations with a few who did bother replying and met some lovely people on Saturday night. As you are still a spring chicken I would say hang in there bud post a bit in the forums and spend some time in chat introducing yourself. Haven't checked your profile as I don't peruse male profiles but have a look at some forum threads regarding making a profile, it might just help.Good luck my friend
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RHP User
11 years ago
I assume you are targeting women in their 20s. As mentioned above young women are totally inundated with messages so lots of women don't bother to answer their messages if they aren't interested. Truth be known you profile only probably gets viewed for 5 seconds before they click on next... so you need to stand out in some way. Great profile photo is important. I like pictures of guys doing something interesting, somewhere you have travelled for example. The trick is not to take it personally. It is nothing against you personally... those chicks don't know you. It's a numbers game unfortunately. Not sure if you are aware that your profile has lots of spelling errors in it. I know it is superficial but when someone is only glancing at profiles you need to make sure your profile is absolutely perfect. Good luck gorgeous!
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RHP User
11 years ago
I also love pictures of people smiling and having a good time. Not pissed photos though.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Don't take it personally. There are a lot of people on this site. Some are rude, most are not. I always reply, but it may be an age thing. Us ' oldies ' are well mannered. I'm sure you'll find your feet on here eventually. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
No i much agree with your grammet statement ! my phone just has qquite a few cracks in my phone ...and too me it at this time because of my phone it is what is saod that counts most . kindness empathy and genuinality to all people means alot more then a few errors .. i dont mean that rudly at all i appreciate what you have mentioned , Thank you :)
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RHP User
11 years ago
grammar i just went through above but i do not understand this what you mean smiling like i do dont worry just the profile picture is taken as im distracted .. and that us much as i feel uncomfortable explaining im insecure of my smile ... I understand all of what you'se have said and take on board . but i suppose i excuse my self now becausse i was unaware ... because to me all that really matters is the person them selfs.. personality kindness to others empathy generosity , genuinality , thoughtfull and caring . and i suppose i missed what i did wrong because i was was writing what i thought was right and what im looking for .. missing what others might ,as you explained ... hmm food for thought ....
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RHP User
11 years ago
you never know ... ive tryed talking with mid 40 odds and got nothing. "loife is loike a box a chocolates , you never know whatcha gon get " (spelling on purpose)
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sweetgem
11 years ago
Although, there are some older age women who like much younger men like yourself, there are heaps more older age women who will not and cannot go for young men at your age because, those mature age women would probably have sons around your age and it would seem wrong to them to hook up with such a young man like yourself. As for the young girls, I am not them, so I don't know why they aren't interested. However, when I was in my late teens to mid 20s, I only liked to date a man who was at least 5-8 years older than me because, I was young and inexperienced and I wanted to be guided and taught. So falling for young man similar to my age back then was never an interest. In fact, I still don't like dating someone who is my age to date, let alone younger. Everyone has their own preferences when it comes to dating or hooking up casually. Just because what you think are good traits to possess and show to others, it doesn't mean people would agree with yours or find them attractive. For me, it doesn't matter how good looking and hot a man is, if he doesn't have the brain, can't write and spell properly, then it's a turn off for me. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
first of your not a oldy"!!! its just commen curtesy do as you wish others do to you " . I dont believe everyone is either but just had enough . said hello hows you day been to some bird ( some may find this funny ) and she just sent back to me .... "NNNNNNNNNNNNOOOOOOOO NOOO GOO AWAY WOULDNT EVER TALK OR LET YOU NEAR ME ! " ide never even met this women before just thought ide be polite talk to someone ask how they are .. i got thstvas a response ... beond snaping point with narsassists . just to re-iterate i would never hit or hurt a women thsts disgusting and weak but mentally having enough . hahs
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RHP User
11 years ago
i have my boundries haha .. ? but yes im the same if they dont have a brain but looks they may as well be a fancy cut peice of lettuce (sorry to be rude) its just intelect to me is so important . my spelling may be shockinf but many a rrason for thst .
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RHP User
11 years ago
i have reasons for my spelling .. my phone and others but yer . you may not think im spart but i know psychology of the top of my head ... more and moore to go into it even if you dont believe in it . .But im a listner its not about what i know or how much or my self .... ide rather be there snd help and just listen .
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RHP User
11 years ago
see from what you said in a sence and i take no offence but i come across plain brained but its constantly running just no body knows XD
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RHP User
11 years ago
i just said spart in stead of smart i just went full retard O:-) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Harr..... young bull........ cool your testosterone fuelled jets and realise that women are the same whether in here, or in the wide world beyond. RHP being a so called "sex site' does not change those things she requires. And accepting that fact......and that there are MANY more women in the world beyond the sticky walls of RHP..... .....that outside world is where you should live your life. RHP should be merely a little spark of entertainment. IF people don't reply, there are reasons for it..... which include: - * you messaged a fake* you sent a flirt - waste of time* you sent an email to an unsuitable person* you sent an email that (choose from) was offensive/was boring/was creepy/failed to engage* your profile wasn't very interesting (haven't seen it, just assuming)* your profile was same as every other in the crowd* the comments about spelling and grammar have been debated to death.... but poor presentation makes people think you don't care.... so why should they. My tip...... focus on living a diverse, fun, creative, interesting & fulfilling life in the non-virtual world where you live..... and come to RHP with zero expectations for anything other than mild and very repetitive entertainment. Just a few thoughts to ponder. DG
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Leo_girl' The only people I have on my list are those I actually know and like and actually regard as a friend. That doesn't necessarily mean a play friend. Same here - I don't understand how some people can accumulate 2 or 300 friends?? I only add people who I would love to hear from a year on from now - friends.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Harr1111' you never know ... ive tryed talking with mid 40 odds and got nothing. "loife is loike a box a chocolates , you never know whatcha gon get " (spelling on purpose) I hear you - but life in general is like that - it is not just dating or this site...everything in life is a box chocolates as Forrest Gump concluded it ...this is why I love my chocolate :)
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RHP User
11 years ago
nah mate im with you except ive only got one nutt as of testosterone hahahah as of last year but yer niethe the less i understand what you are saying .. ive been single now 5-6 years and been treated by some nice but eventually there self obsorbed or narsassistic ... im the perfect friend zone because i actually care but yea in generally treated that obsotbed way .. i hold know expectations they may be too high .. just about what you said presentation im in my moto gear and singlets ... it was 50-55 degrees up north ... but its all give and take mate i like feed back in general . if you stop growing mentally in life and about yourself you may as well not be . thanks
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RHP User
11 years ago
Ohh ok No i understand it but i adddd people i would like to try and get to know personally not in a collum or topic , im a little sentamentle that way in talking and getting to know one to another .. you know ?
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nytewyng
11 years ago
This is only my second post, and I know you've generalised a bit, but I feel that I do need to correct you on your opinion that RHP is full of ignorant/arrogant/narcissistic people. I've had (and am having) some enjoying and rewarding meetings/chats with very lovely women on this site. Most of the women that I've met in person are spot on with their profile pics & description (refreshing change!) and are very engaging. I used to be on AMM when my ex and I ended our relationship and I find that the women that are on that site do not even give the courtesy of a reply, so I quickly realised it was dead money and came across to RHP on a recommendation from a friend. Not sorry about that at all! I've found women on this site have a very positive response to courtesy/respect/good attitude you give them, and they have definitely returned it (can't speak for the guys because I don't contact them!) Just another tip for you. As a male, feedback that I find extremely disturbing & offensive from the women I've met, is that guys get very nasty about rejection. Yes, RHP is touted as an "adult" dating site, perhaps even a "hookup site" so be adult about getting rejected if that's what happens. Sex with the women on this site is no more a given than if you're going out to clubs or bars. Mischeviouslad (I've seen regularly contributes to forums) has given an awesome reply to you, with lots of good tips and pointers! 100% spot on! There are some other regular contributors as well who have put some sound and reasonable suggestions and feedback for you. Meeka's given you solid tips from the female perspective too, read her tips carefully! That's just my opinion, mate. Keep the faith!
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