M41
Not much luck. help?
July 14 2014
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MsSuperFoxy
11 years ago
Ok to start off on a good note ask yourself - is this profile pic appealing to women? I opened up this forum and your profile pic scared the be-jesus out of me...I had to look at it twice. Seriously I did, sorry Good4AllNight. Women on here want to be treated with the same respect and dignity as one would as if meeting in public or walking by in the street. One wouldn't walk up to a woman in the street and pull a face like that for a shag or quick root? Believe you me, you'll scare the heck out of them. My I suggest a nice smiling pic one that women will look three times (possibly more at). At maybe change your way of thinking about this site as many people (especially some women if that is what you want) will NOT see your way of thinking. "Thinking this is a naughty site where you could just skip most of the bullshit and get to the point, it seems this is not the case". And you are right....I agree with you. Also I give you credit for being honest on your profile - the bit about safe sex "IF REQUIRED"..at least you're being honest, not many on here are. Remember tho at the end of the day - it's your profile and you can choose to put what ever you want on there. :) Good Luck Ms.Foxy
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RHP User
11 years ago
That was not the pic I expected, it's also the one I would look past at the pub......... Pass over the thought that this is a SEX site, there are specific ones for that (no don't ask me which ones, do your own research)...... All girls, woman, nannies and grannies want at least a modicum of respect, flirting, well generally they want something a little more to warm them up........ Put more in your profile, I know your young lol, but there is always more to a person than 5 lines.......... Welcome :). Enjoy
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RHP User
11 years ago
Hi there , I think you're expectations may be a bit unrealistic. Yes, the marketing hype of RHP wold have you believe it's as simple as ABC , put up a profile and the girls will come flocking to you. The reality is probably quite different. It's a numbers game and here the 'men looking' far outnumber the 'women looking' , so don't forget you're competing with all those other messages/flirts women are getting from men with thoughtful , considered profiles and more attractive pictures.As Foxy and bigmamma have said , yes, this is an adult dating and networking site ,but it doesn't mean free shags available for no effort. My opinion is your profile needs to have a lot more work put into it. You need to find a way to stand out from the 1000 other profiles and know that most of the females will be getting lots of messages and flirts and they can take their pick. I know I'm not your 'target market' but I didn't really find very much appealing about yr profile or your pics - a nice, smiling , open, friendly face goes a long way.well u did ask !! Good luck.
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RHP User
11 years ago
first impressions count and with guys outnumbering women 10 to 1 you need to have something that makes me stop and look.That photo makes me skip and go to the next one of your others is Ok though
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RHP User
11 years ago
I really dislike your main pic but your others are not bad, a smile would go a long way. Any idoit can send a flirt too, skip the flirt straight into a confident but not cocky message, a bit of humour and some reference to the ladies profile who you are contacting and make sure it doesn't seem generic. Be sincere and don't message women because you want to get your dick wet, have some standards and stick with the lovely ladies who appeal to you. Good luck. And change that picture!
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RHP User
11 years ago
Sorry, I just have to add to the above. Definitely consider taking some more flattering photos of yourself. Pictures where you are smiling and doing something interesting or in an interesting location. You need a picture that shows you in the best possible light. Women on RHP are sexually adventurous women but they still have very high standards and will want to get to know you a bit first, probably via a few emails. So sorry to disappoint you but this is the same as real life. You have to impress the person you are approaching and win them over.... same as anything you do. Why should they pick you? And as BigMamma said, sure there are women and couples on here that don't really care about you as a person but they may be more interested in your sexual experience and how big your cock is. And they also like to go for the good looking sorts that have good pictures up. I do know that some women are happy to meet you straight up and bonk you straight away for a one off thing, but I am not sure if this would the norm among women on RHP. PS: Some general tips Don't send sexual messages straight up. Don't call women babe, darling, hun or any other endearment because they will not like it unless they know you. Alot of women never even look at their flirts so I would say sending them is a waste of time. GOOD LUCK.
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RHP User
11 years ago
PPS: Men are approaching you because you have experimental as your sexual orientation and that you are up for anything. Plus you say you are after transvestites which are men ... yeah?
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RHP User
11 years ago
Are you serious? What are you thinking with the images? I would NEVER respond to you because you present like a crazy man. You say you are 'easy going' yet you have some psycho killer looking profile pic. Take some nice shots, show your charming and sexy side. Don't send flirts, I have NEVER EVER EVER looked at a flirt and usually just use a 'group response' not interested. SEND A NICE MESSAGE to break the ice. Make sure it is more than 3 sentences and make sure the grammar and structure is intelligent and interesting. I will only keep chatting with a guy who has a brain, a little cheeky without being rude or arrogant, and one that is interested in me and is able to articulate and sell himself well. Saying your easy going says to me you just don't know yourself well and you think you are easy going. For me, I usually read 'mummies boy' when I read 'easy going' lol Anyway, in summary, just be authentic babe and change that crazy ass pic!
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MsSuperFoxy
11 years ago
I noticed you have changed your profile pic.... That's much better. :) Thank you FOXY
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RHP User
11 years ago
Haha... Seems I was wrong after all. Thankyou for your advice people. I really appreciate it. Foxy, yeah, sorry for the fright haha. Now back to editing! ;)
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RHP User
11 years ago
I know we can be harsh sometimes, however we are honest....... Look past our blasé attitude and take on board what we've said..... There is one other point that has not been mentioned........ It might not be always successful and if your anything like me, you will delete more than you do......... However, join in on the forums...... It's amazing who reads and responds, it's a great way to actually get to know how people think....... Have fun and really most importantly, Enjoy!
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RHP User
11 years ago
I think that might be why guys are messaging you.
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MsJonesy
11 years ago
I had a peek before your update, but didn't post as anything I would say had already been said. The profile is looking and reading much better now. Hope it works for you :)
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RHP User
11 years ago
Sending Flirts is like throwing a paper airplane in a rainstorm ... GG♒️ - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
You still have to get those pics changed, but I could actually see some personality in your profile........ Have fun :)
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RHP User
11 years ago
i would like to add.....I look at a picture and scan the back ground. I give you examples what I think Why is it so untidy......nee not my type... he must be very dirty Can't he close his wardrobe, I don't want to see his clothes and specially not when it look like world war three. Ok I don't go to men's homes but I still make myself think how clean is this guy...when he has not even a tidy bedroom....what will his toilet shower look eeeek. The most unhappy I am with males, who don't shwo a face picture,,,,,I am a kisser and I want to see his face mouth,teeth. I am also a clean freak so it tells me a lot about the person. I ask you honestly Good4 all night.......who is saying women on here have no class and fuck everything? I really wonne know. I like a type of male and I rather wait and experience a great play beforehand with words than just say.....ohh yes you ask me to fuck sure come over now..............who tells you men this fairy tails. Most women on here have enough attention to choose, and we choose, why shouldn't we...its my body its my sex its my enjoyment. So please keep all this in mind and you will have fine women coming your way. LOL I have another thought......tell all your friends the truth how hard they have to work on here to get a root. Use your written skills and your photo to lure us in and you will never look back. But I am sorry its hard work I know. It is work for us women too....to write the profile so men we prefer will be attracted like a bee to honey....it takes practice and skill. But when you are after he quick fix....hmmm maybe the weekend nightlight is easier in picking women up. Good luck and don't give up.....we are a great sexy bunch of women on here. L
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RHP User
11 years ago
on the updated profile. I would still change your body type from slim to fit/athletic, sounds much more appealing than a gangly skinny man and I don't think you look like that anyway. And get rid of that photo entirely, it is not appealing at all, the other one you took off was better.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Some women don't like flirts...that's their choice ... Some of us show class and respect and reply to all flirts and messages..aether in the positive or negative .. a reply to me is only good manners .. Chose what suits you best.. Because not every woman here ignores flirts. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
guessing without looking penis shot. dont worry its the site lots of talkers. peole have lots to say but and seem to express lots but what they do is another thing. sex should be fun and enjoyed not a game of minds. hang in there hopefuly things will turn around:) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
What photo? I got rid of the bad one. Are you saying there is another? Tough crowd... but noted! :)
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RHP User
11 years ago
I have the same problem bro,so your not the only one. Have changed my pics etc have a nice message that I send but dont really seem to be getting there. Hope it turns around for ya. Any advice ladies?
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RHP User
11 years ago
Probably easier to hit the town for a night lol. Anyways, thanks for the help/advice.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Just about Every male on this site has the same problem. if you are toned and built, your a step above the rest of us. What you need to remember men out number women 30 to 1. Women have to sift through hundreds of messages and flirts every night, and most would tend to delete the ones with no pictures or pictures they don't like first up. If you are looking for women with substance stay in the forums I find they are a better class of woman.I looked at your profile it looks fine to me your not ugly
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Good4AllNight' Probably easier to hit the town for a night lol. Anyways, thanks for the help/advice. Yep, I wouldn't disagree with that. But it's also easy to go to some of the events and parties advertised through here. Not sure where you are from but there are social meet and greet nights as well. I know that there is a group of WA people that organise things every now and then. Keep and eye out!
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RHP User
11 years ago
New to the site and this is amazing insite *taking notes * Thanks for the tips SuperFoxxxy and Bigmamma - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'up4hottimes' I have the same problem bro,so your not the only one. Have changed my pics etc have a nice message that I send but dont really seem to be getting there. Hope it turns around for ya. Any advice ladies? Take the bit about universities out. I don't know why so many people have that crap in their profiles. It's pointless and just makes you look a bit gullible. Universities don't secretly use people's online dating profiles; their research is guided by strict ethical rules and must be approved by an ethics committee before commencing.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Google 'informed consent in research' to learn more about this requirement in university and other research.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Get rid of selfie style photos..... especially the "here is me, half/fully naked in my bathroom. It makes it look like you have no friends (or a wife) and spend your time hiding in the bathroom.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Good4AllNight' Probably easier to hit the town for a night lol. Anyways, thanks for the help/advice. you are probably right. Considering the competition you have, you will be picked apart for any flaw because women have options and the upper hand. All I can say is be yourself, don't try too hard, invest in those you think deserve your attention instead of just contacting everyone and hoping for the best. As many say, it is just a sex site but the women on here are not meat, they are still people and if you treat them as such, then maybe you will have some luck.
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MsSuperFoxy
11 years ago
Was wondering how's it all going with the changes? Foxy
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RHP User
11 years ago
Lol... well I send messages and get maybe 1 out of 10 reply. Even still, its all chat and no action really. All good, im no gym junkie or a super hot looking guy so I cant expect too much I guess. :/
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Good4AllNight' Lol... well I send messages and get maybe 1 out of 10 reply. Even still, its all chat and no action really. All good, im no gym junkie or a super hot looking guy so I cant expect too much I guess. :/ you are not alone. Just don't leave RHP as your only avenue to meet people :)
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RHP User
11 years ago
No... of course not. That would be silly! :)
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