Not everyone is perfect.....................

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  2more4fun

  15 years ago

  Hey guys. Just looked at your profile and I think you both look great! Don't be discouraged by the handful of people who try to seek total perfection in other couples. I doubt very much they are actually getting to meet people by being so picky. Dare I say, some couples use the line of 'can't meet the right people' as an excuse to not actually meet people and just stay in fantasy land.The other thing is that you guys are probably giving other people an advantage by posting all your face shots in your public gallery. Perhaps you're messaging people who don't have their face pics up and feel they are less attractive than you so beat you to the punch by telling you that you're not their type without giving you the chance to knock them back. Who knows? After many years in the scene we've come across all sorts. The important thing is to not take things personally - EVER... It's usually other people with issues and it's got nothing to do with you. Also don't give up. There ARE a lot of awesome people in the scene.

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  but the pic of you both looks fine. Some people are just shallow.....and often arseholes to boot unfortunately.Don't sweat it......plenty of nice couples on hereGood luck you two!Cheers Nev

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  You both look like a great couple. Be thankful that you have missed out on the ones that weren't interested. I am sure the right people will come along soon. Miss K

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  If any one joined this as a beauty contest they are in the wrong place. You are both gorgeous people. Anyone who thinks different is not worth wasting time with. At least you are up front and happy to pursue your dreams. I have admired your interest in seeking pleasure. Isnt that why we joined to fulfil dreams and enjoy Ms A

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  It took us about 18months of this kinda stuff to find our place in the sun! You'll have great times , then some slow ones. Just be yourselves and truely it will come along. Have fun kids ! Brae

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  Yeah I know the scathing response type you refer to. Out of all the alternatives these people choose to be ...course about it and arrogantly dismissive. That's who they are in life. Egoic, self.... and that's enough to let you know they are.....incompatable at the start. You both look fine to me and I would lower my expectations of others if I were you. I've had to and the upset declines correspondingly. Good luck, it's just a matter of time and place.

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  i would like to say that we just don't get replies....not sure why ..we are happy with what we have just looking to add some friends may be with benefits. we are very easy going and i suppose average looking although how can you judge ones self. I would say to NCIS69 that those who wish too judge people solely on the wrapper will miss out on all the goodness inside....not everything of quality come in a flashy wrapper.. Ignore those who think that looks or age are more important than brains they normally, think this due to the fact that they have less than you.....or watch too much telly thinking that thats how everyone looks........enjoy your journey and always be true to who you are...

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  Hey ncis who'd want to shag a perfect couple anyway? Only another perfect couple I guess. Would 2 perfect couples have the perfect experience? Damn so many questions! Yep the world is getting so obsessed with what things look like that we're not seeing the decay seeping in under the surface. As with everything, if it looks too good to be true it most likely is! We know some wonderful people who were blessed with the beauty stick and also have the most admirable personalities, these people are not obsessed with what they see in the mirror. If someone spends the majority of their time trying to look better they usually miss out on time to develop their personality. Balance is where it's at. Taking pride in ones appearance is admirable, taking pride in the footprints we leave behind in the world is beautiful.

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  Completely agree with your sentiments. For us it's all about attitude over appearance. So tired of those that class themselves as the pretty people, we are an attractive couple, and wonder sometimes wonder how many times these preteniois types can put the word hot in a profile," hot super hot couple, looking for super hot, dam hot ladies or couples ". Yeah sorry much rather find a genuine couple or lady who is confident as appossed to cocky without reasoning, or a mirror.

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  this place can be a bit of a meat market, there are even profiles out there that state that they only want 'hot looking slim types' which is fine if that is what they want, though as i don't know what they class as slim or hot i tend to keep moving lolThis is not always an ideal way to meet people, not everyone takes a great pic, personalities are often hard to judge via email and chat and things can get tricky but there are some totally fabulous people here who are genuine and fun so keep at it, maybe try some of the clubs or even the social drinks nights (like the Brissy one) where you get to meet people face to face, so much more like real life and much less pressure.As for the rude replies, let it go, don't take it personal (harder to do than say i know) at the end of the day it is their loss because they could have had a great time with you and chose to make a judgment on superficial reasons and missed out. at the end of the day we all have to make a call based on the info we have available so best of luck with it and most importantly HAVE FUN Mrs GC

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  you issue is one we face all the time and we really hate it

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  Howzit ncis69,we got your flirt and think you're hot, being 26yrs old, well endowed, super sexy plus you look like fun. We obviously perved your profile, and I (F 36yrs) fall short by 1 year and I'm a bit more than slim (doh!) to what you seek ... "18-35 slim build". So, I suggest we become friends for a bit of eye candy ... what do you say?We're new to the scene, and we're taking things slow ("anything worth doing is worth doing slowly" - Mae West) ... checking out the site and getting a feel for the people by reading the forums and sexy secrets ;) Boy is it steamy in RHP! I especially enjoy SWEETIEPIE2010 and her comments in these forums, you really get a feel for her personality. I just want to hang on her lips and listen to her spectacular flirting style all day ... how I love a dirty mind ... sorry, going off topic.As for the people that upset you, they must be jealous about:- your age (what I wouldn't give to be 26 again- your looks (I'd look twice)- your endowment (8" - 9" / Average) WOW!- your fun personality, honesty and directness in what you wantDon't think twice about those people, you rock!Cheers, mwa!2noodiesYou beat the super hot ones in spades, so I say fuck'em ... hehe!

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