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  FeistyFatty

  7 months ago

  Of course. Your body, your choice. We're the opposite when we attend event's..... Not interested in females and only bi males.

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  SandD

  7 months ago

  Also, is there any obligation to play, or can we just hang out and maybe chat with women? Are we going to be seeing sexual stuff in front of us, or does that go on in seperate areas?

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  Sawadee

  7 months ago

  Ohhh, you mean the elusive unicorn ?

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  Flirty2020

  7 months ago

  There are quite a few swingers clubs, parties & and events, in and around Melbourne (take a look at the RHP Events section ) Most of the swingers clubs that we have been to (Wet on Wellington, Shed 16, Between Friends , BayCity - when it was around) had the “play areas” separate to the social areas / bar / lounge . There is no pressure to play or be played with. No always means No. If you manage to get chatting to a single woman, and providing that the attraction is there, she might invite you both to play with her, alternatively she may only want to play with your wife, whilst you watch. Single women, at swingers clubs/events, and within the swinging scene , are very rare. Your best bet would be to get chatting with a couple. And again, providing that you all get along, they might invite you both to play with both of them. Very rarely will the male half, of a couple, be open to having his wife play separately with another couple. Best to always discuss boundaries and ground rules, before playing with others. Reading between the lines of this post, it would appear that you are not looking for full swap (with another couple) but rather only looking for a bi single female for you both to play with. It will be very hard to find one, as unicorns (as they are termed) are very rare indeed. You would have much more luck finding a couple.

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  3wayevenplay7378

  7 months ago

  We are couple here been in the scene for years we only seek out women to join us it more common than you think of course. You got boundaries state them if conversation lead that way. Maybe go to swingers events for new swingers to scene make you feel more comfortable as couple to surround by others in same boat so to speak.

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