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Need help with my "Friends List"
January 20 2015
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RHP User
11 years ago
Nahhhhh.... send requests to everyone the moment they join... stalk the new members each morning, send multiple requests and flirts, and fill the list up by the thousand. That seems to be effective.
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AnnieWhichway
11 years ago
Blindfold me first Amy, so I don't see the guillotine blade coming down...............
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Seachange73
11 years ago
Almost all on my list are people I have met either in meet and greets or other ways. some are purely friends only, nothing sexual there. Only a couple of people I have spoken to via chat or messaging so we have contact. I do not add anybody I have.not met or dont have anything in common. Despite the numerous requests by men or couples to b ky friend i refuse them as i have not exchanged messages with them nor met them. I personally dont see the point. But we all different views and priorities. I dont collect 'friends' in rhp nor in Facebook. Keeping it simple. Some of my rhp friends are not even on my friends list. Just not one to chase them. Good luck.
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RHP User
11 years ago
To buck the system ... ... and have none
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RHP User
11 years ago
I've met in real life and really enjoy hanging out with. Personally I wouldn't friend someone whom I'd only messaged with. Until I've seen someone in the flesh, they only exist in Cyberland for me. ;-)
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Lovinit28andKC72
11 years ago
My friends list is made up of..... 1. Friends I've met through meet and greets who have added me.... 2. Some playmates..... 3. People who I have had extensive conversations with and would be only to happy to meet or play with.....💋
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RHP User
11 years ago
I solved all of those problems by choosing to have none ;)
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RHP User
11 years ago
I don't add anyone either. My friends know who they are. I don't need to share that with everyone.
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RHP User
11 years ago
my friends list is minute.... Which means I have the sexual experience and prowess of an 8 year old 😊 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
I would never do that to you !!! You are indeed a friend of mine even though I've never met you. Amy
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RHP User
11 years ago
A particularly good friend like Annie lives over East. I've never met her in person. Yet, she's been a wonderful email friend of mine.I think that I would have to have a mix of Members I've met and Members like her. I don't travel over East because of the cost of the airfares and the accommodation combined. If I had to spend money on an airfare, I would rather travel overseas. Different places, customs, cultures and food are the things that interest me. Amy
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RHP User
11 years ago
Thanks, I'm flattered.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Burning_Love. It's just that I kept getting so many "Friend Requests" and I don't want to seem rude or a prude. But I also don't want ignorant Members to think that I'm "loose". The number of Members that I've actually "slept" with is a far cry from the number of Members on my list. Again, boil it down to me being "far too choosey". Amy
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RHP User
11 years ago
don't talk to me about "sexual experience and prowess" . A man has yet to discover the "full extent" of mine. I fear that the next man I "bed", may be a tad disappointed. Not unless he's willing to teach me all the "tricks of the trade". Amy
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RHP User
11 years ago
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RHP User
11 years ago
My friends list will contain my ....well friends, sexual or otherwise. If I am no longer going to be in contact due to whatever reason I will reduce my friends list. Facebook it isn't. - Posted from rhpmobile
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MsJonesy
11 years ago
Who make it onto my friend list are people I have met or have spoken to for a long time. Nothing to do with them being playmates or not, nothing to do with RHP politics, just people who I get along with very well and who I can have a chat with, a drink with and most importantly, a laugh with. I never accept friend requests from people I have not met or at least spent considerable time chatting with. There are other friends not on my list, they know who they are and if they want to be on my list they know what to do :)
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totallygenuine
11 years ago
On my friends list are friends that I catch up with quiet regularly and friends that I have formed a solid relationship with from over the years:) I just cleaned out my friends list not so long ago. 😀 TG
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RHP User
11 years ago
Everyone on my friends list I have met, apart from a WA guy who I've been chatting to for a considerable amount of time. Damn you WA for being so far 😔 I won't accept anyone that I haven't met.
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RHP User
11 years ago
My friends list consists of ppl i have seen, and there are 2 there that i have planned to see in the future. I dont need to have randoms on there.
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RHP User
11 years ago
There is no such thing as being too choosy. :-)
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On_Safari
11 years ago
And delete those who seem to have dropped out of touch or left the site entirely. Only have friends I've met or chatted to extensively. Some I have met at M&G's but have had no real conversation/interaction with so have not accepted the friend request (don't take that personal folks). Surprisingly I haven't bonked bugger all, they're actually friends don't ya know 😳
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RHP User
11 years ago
The people on my list are people I have some sort of connection with..And Amy,there ain't nothing wrong with being "loose"...you are a sexually active and adventurous woman....women have been judged for milenia regarding their sexuality.we have to stop judging ourselves and others xxFreya
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AnnieWhichway
11 years ago
Thankyou. (takes blindfold off). For me the friends list has changed over the time I've been here. At first I thought it was a contest to see how many friends you can collect. Now I see it differently. Yes I keep some of my playmates and some that I may play with one day. And there's a few wannabes there to confuse everyone about who's been with me and who hasn't. But more importantly, true friends that I feel I can chat to whenever I need to or they need to. So I keep them in my top 6. Not sure what I do if there becomes a seventh......
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RHP User
11 years ago
Waiting for the "Friendslist King" to comment....... lol
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RHP User
11 years ago
It seems that I may have to reduce my "Friends List" further. I think to make it simple, I will make my list just the Members I've met and Members who regularly contact me. Naturally, there will be people who are not on my "Friends List" that I have met in person. In fact, their number far outweigh the number of Members on my "Friends List" and they too know who they are. I can see a drastic drop in my "Friends List" now !!! Amy
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RHP User
11 years ago
I don't have any, yet I still have email friends here, who they are is nobody else's business and that's the way I prefer it. If I wanted a status symbol I'd buy a jeep err Jag.
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RHP User
11 years ago
They come and they go in life and in here... I've spoken to some really nice natural lady's here over time and even some very nice man... But at the end of the day friends driftf in to your life then drift out of it...
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RHP User
11 years ago
Chevy is too busy with his cuff 😝 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Nah... I meant the dude with a small town in his list
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RHP User
11 years ago
The majority of random friend requests that I've seen (particularly from male guest members), have either an email address or a phone number written in the profile - which suggests (to me at least), that it is not necessarily sent to be accepted - but sent to get attention and as a means of initiating contact should there be any interest.
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Plain280
11 years ago
Empty duh
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