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April 09 2017
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RHP User
9 years ago
I'd say the fact that you're clearly looking for a serious relationship, and you haven't left the door open for the casual crowd in a "but no harm in a little fun in the meantime" sort of a way, means you'll only be contacted by the rare man who is also looking for that (and the thousands of others who don't actually read profiles). So that might account for some of it. But if you're not being contacted by even those rare men, then I'd look at the negativity. This is a common thing in profiles, people have finally worked out the things that they don't want, and understandably put those in. But the result is it makes you sound negative, and without knowing anything else about you can cause a casual reader to assume you are a bit angry and negative. Coupled with the slightly stern photos, that might be turning people off.
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RHP User
9 years ago
There is nothing wrong with your photo or your profile.
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RHP User
9 years ago
my take is a combination of things, don't get me wrong here, I love kids, I have my own. But unlike me, your age, one part of the combination, 3 children, so the assumption right or wrong would be the children are quite young, and the mention of them not being afraid of their feelings, that would make most men take for the hills. Too much baggage, good baggage in one sense, but most want casual or if not, buying a family into the bargain takes it to a whole other level. I like your honesty in your profile and wouldn't want you to change that, but might just be too much for the average casual fucker 😉
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'Rick_Blaine' I'd say the fact that you're clearly looking for a serious relationship, and you haven't left the door open for the casual crowd in a "but no harm in a little fun in the meantime" sort of a way, means you'll only be contacted by the rare man who is also looking for that (and the thousands of others who don't actually read profiles). So that might account for some of it. But if you're not being contacted by even those rare men, then I'd look at the negativity. This is a common thing in profiles, people have finally worked out the things that they don't want, and understandably put those in. But the result is it makes you sound negative, and without knowing anything else about you can cause a casual reader to assume you are a bit angry and negative. Coupled with the slightly stern photos, that might be turning people off. see the problem...where does it say OP is looking for a 'relationship'? More than a one-nighter does not a relationship make.My only suggestion is that perhaps a guy is concerned that as a single mother of 3 you may not have enough time? KH
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RHP User
9 years ago
I think it's a very good profile that explains clearly what you want, so be patient and you may just find exactly what you're looking for ☺️☺️
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RHP User
9 years ago
...add smiling pics. Can't hurt. I like smiles..
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RHP User
9 years ago
Thank you for your honesty and taking the time to reply. It would seem an overhaul is in need. Something I will work on...thank you x
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RHP User
9 years ago
Nothing wrong with your profile Op. You have a clear face profile picture and your profile reflects who you are and what your looking for. Sometimes you just have to stop looking and be patient, the right one will come along when you least expect it. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
that all the other women's inboxes are overflowing with messages, so what's wrong with me/my profile? It's really not true of all the women here...myself included! If your profile is not a basic rhp template, and you think it's an accurate reflection of you and what you're looking for, then I wouldn't worry. You may not be inundated with messages of interest, but you're also not stuck wading through copious amounts of non-matching profiles either! ;-) - Posted from rhpmobile
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Aristippusx2
9 years ago
Good Morning Miss Leo Welcome to the forum I (Mr A) would back up Koolgrey comment=Smiles are an enhancement of a persons personality. Nothing wrong with your profile.
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RHP User
9 years ago
And I like that you have been honest and to the point. Like koolgrey above mentioned about seeing a smile, show it off I bet it's lovely :) and it will give people a bit more insight into you, but at the end of the day hang in there, good luck 👍🏻 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
100% better with the smiling shots 👍🏻 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Hey Missleo Nothing at all wrong with your profile photos are great and it does read fine but maybe to looking for a date like. if you were looking for my age bracket though you would have received a message from me. I would think that saying "Ideally I'd like to meet Mr Right" although you say or just interested those short words would put many off. All the best. Cheers
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RHP User
9 years ago
Love the new pictures, particularly the face pic with your glasses on, very sexy 😉
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RHP User
9 years ago
It might be worth considering Miss Leo's rewritten her profile... Looking good Miss Leo! The critical question, though: has it made any difference?
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RHP User
9 years ago
Each of you has had some wonderful ideas and feedback and I'm super appreciative. Thank you for taking the time to look and comment and review the changes I made too.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Maybe it's still early days... views have increased... flirts and messages are pretty much the same. I appreciate all the help... I think someone mentioned that maybe it's just not the right time and to be patient.... I'm reverting to that.... whatever happens, happens
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RHP User
9 years ago
I think you need a few bubbly cheeky flirtatious photos, they are all borderline serious.
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luv2meatu
9 years ago
I don't see anything at all "Wrong"with your profile Genuine,honest and nice photos. :-) - Posted from rhpmobile
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