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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  To be honest, I see nothing wrong with your profile at all! You have nice clear face pics up and you have taken the time to fill in the profile about yourself and what you are seeking! < It might be in the messages? (Only thing I can think of to be honest)! Do you acknowledge at all in your messages that you have actually read her profile? Do you tell them a little about yourself as well? That is all I have sorry, as you do have a good profile! < Good luck with it all and don't give up hope! xo xFunlovingx

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  Hello Want,We are critical when it comes to a profile and our advice may help.Spelling, Grammar and PunctuationA sexy brain is as good as a sexy body ;)

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  To be totally honest, it's a little bit bland. Everything looks good until you get to the actual profile description where you are given the chance to show some personality and stand out from the crowd. But you've only written two lines which sound eerily similar to the majority of other guys on here! I'd beef that section up a bit, be a little different to the rest of your competition :) . As for the messages, I'm sure all the other girls on here can attest to the fact that nearly every message title we receive on here is 'Hi', or 'Hey', or 'Hey there'. Again, stand out a little and write something a little bit different, make reference to what she's written in her profile so she can tell you've actually read it, and in your first message, avoid talking about your 16 inch penis, your recent imprisonment or your looming deadline for your arranged marriage! ;) . Good luck! Tinky

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  Dear Wantsum I agree with Funloving, your profile is very cool. Love the pic of you on your motorbike. Personally I would have that as your main pic. I like to use my imagination and see a happy pic first up. A hint about messages would be is to read the females profile thoroughly and perhaps mention/comment on what she says about herself, that engages a next message. It shows you "do" have interest in her profile. Us girls want to feel unique. Good luck and keeping sifting, there are some really nice people on this site. Take care bs xxx

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  Oh Wantsum, don't listen to them... they are filled with easter spirits like Egg Nog or something.. . You trip up in the very first line with "Hi Lady's". Try saying that out loud.... now try again.... ok, now try saying it without sounding like a sleazy prick. . .. How'd you go? Can't be done can it.? So maybe give that a tweak. . The rest of your profile is generic enough to cast a wide net (good work!), but probably not detailed enough for a girl to go 'oh cool... this guy would be great to know better'. So at best you fall into the mediocre / average bucket. I mean given the m:f ration here they can find someone who goes to the gym, has fun in and out of the bedroom, hangs out with friends, and relaxes pretty much anywhere, let alone Australind. . So throw in some more stuff that makes you different and more interesting than Joe in Bunbury. . Lose the frowny, confused facepic and replace it with one where you're smiling. . Now get ready to beat them back with a stick.... . ps (I'll let you play 'remove the extra apostrophes' in your own time) pps - If all this fails it's probably because you're a Taurus

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  Quoting 'Krissy_G'Need something that stands out a bit more. Even just putting a quote in from an author would make it a lot more appealing. May be just me but I dont really think you need the part about guys not contacting you, that said more to me about you than the rest of the profile. I agree with Krissy. I mean, I know a guy who gets way more profile views from men than women on RHP and he is ridiculously straight, yet still hasn't resorted to the "please guys, pleeeeease stop contacting me" line. Considering this is taking up 25% of your entire profile, it probably couldn't hurt to remove it, or pretty it up with some substance either side of it. Don't forget to spell check it for the pedantic bitches like me who also spot apostrophe overuse from a mile away! . Tell us more about what makes you who you are. Why should I send you a message and not the next guy in my search results? And yes, as the other ladies have said, if you message me, please make the message longer than your profile and at least pretend that you've read mine. Whilst I'm at pains to mention the smiley Mr Nick Wilde, he makes a very good point (somewhere deep) in his profile where he relates profile content to effort invested in his messages. . I also like the motorbike pic best ... That's probably the result of enjoying having powerful things throbbing between my legs I suppose. . Keep at it though, it's a very big pond!

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  I think honestly the biggest problem is geographic compatibility. In this case incompatiblity... I have been on RHP for 6 mths and to be completely honest I didn't think it was that much of a priority, I can drive, my parents live in bunbury and I go once a month 4 a visit. But now I look at the half dozen FWBs I made, they er all live on average a 5 minute drive away! Embaressing really.?! But the thing is there is not much to go by on RHP so u use the info that is there to make a 'very quick' first assessment, so that leaves u at a disadvantage statistically, BIG time :( How to fix it? Your profile will have to be twice as good as all the city boys ones. Everyone is drawn in by different things. The top 3 things missing in my eyes are these 1. The template profiles r now driving me insane, no real insight into a person at all. I love long profiles that show ur personality. Ie. Exaggerate hemlines and dislikes, bam it up, be funny. Then have a serious paragraph or two. If we read your profile and actually get a sense of what u r like as a person, u'd skip right to the top of many girls list! 2). Photography/pics I am shocked at how many out of focus shots there are or of ones with guys looking upset, angry, worried and no smiles in sight! Scary really! Mix it up, take some arty or funny or stupid photos that stick out or even a pic of something that represents u somehow 3). Sending a message to a girl, you will stand out so fast if ur emails go past a line! It astounds me that guys just can't be arsed, if u put in some effort girls will stop and give u the time, well I know that is how I sort through which messages I'll reply to first and these days with my forum addiction, they r pretty much the only ones I reply to! One last thing, in your profile's opening line, travels to Perth and others areas regularly or something? Hope that helps? (I really want to suggest lying and put up Perth city, not honest, but the honest thing is u couldn't get a look in with australind! Or maybe australind is so small u wanted to be more anonymous...? Hehe but that would be wrong of me to suggest... ;) T

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  mmmm wantsum........ your profile has to make someone want to contact you, more info bout your interests would help, something that is going to attract a woman to want to get to know u ....... the options are endless!! u love riding your bike and would love someone who is into that???

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  man, its your main profile pic.... no potential woman wants to see a main pic of you with your legs wrapped around your other gal.....ie the bikebahahahahahaha! don't worry I was totally kidding.... just be yourself - the ones that get you will get you for the right reasons.....

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  Not sexy enough, and you sound TOOOO nice... you don't sound sexy. Most girls want a nice guy to marry, but want a sexy guy in the bedroom.... so spice it up a bit.

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  Your profile is accurate ? If your looking for fun ? No need for too many specific personal details . Read her profile ! How you word your profile will govern the type of person you pick up . Looking for a relationship add personal but keep it private , ok so personal as in romantic , imaginative , leave something to keep her guessing in other words spontaneous no need to advertise .

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