Mood Setters vs Mood Killers

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  RHP User

  one year ago

  Mood setters Drinks at a nice bar Drinks at a private residence Someone who has showered, shaven, cologne, and put a little effort in an outfit Good commincation and banter is probably my biggest mood setter Mood Killers "Come over and fuck" within the 1st 5 mins of chatting online Bad breath Playing on the phone all the time Not paying attention to the convo No attempt at starting a convo 1st meet and you don't look anything like your photos Lying about your participation level Pushing boundaries too much when no has been said a few times I am by far not experienced in the whole swinging thing but very keen to try with nice people but this is just my two cents on the topic

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  RHP User

  one year ago

  Loud, pumping dance music doesn’t really do it for me when trying to set a mood…why not chill or mid tempo soft jazz?

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  nightingale8

  one year ago

  I don’t know why but whenever I have attended parties I have always appreciated the small selection of jelly sweets on hand. I don’t usually eat these in my normal life! Snakes anyone

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  RHP User

  one year ago

  Totally agree! Don't turn up with daggy clothes, looking unkempt, as happened at a meet and greet not long ago. Why on earth would you think anyone would be attracted to you. Make an effort.

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  OpalRose

  one year ago

  You have to get all you can take, while all hell is breaking loose. Thrills in the night as the city sleeps. Creatures of the night, saint and sinner, not sure about you but I love it loud. X-ray eyes and magic touch, dirty living and you’ll sure know something. Take me, I want you in the ladies room. Love em and leave em im a hard luck woman. Call me dr love, and shout it out loud. Sweet pain of flaming youth, Great expectations, but do you love me? I’m dressed to kill, ladies in waiting it’s a two timer. Anything for my baby, love her all I can. Or, just be chill and have a spa party. 😘

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  boobsandbusted

  one year ago

  Mood setter would be offering a neck and shoulder massage without wandering down to boobs within 14 seconds. just concentrating on some genuine muscles and starting off the intimacy by touching remaining completely above board and non sexual 🤔, mood killer is open mouth smacking and chewing of gum mixed with suggestively licking lips 🤮

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  Blueflamingo

  one year ago

  Totally agree with you, adding...: Mood setters. Eye contact, if you can't look me in the eyes, I just can't feel connected to you. Mood killers at clubs is when spectators think they are commentators and chitchatters, please stop talking and just enjoy the show with your eyes. Eyes, I like eyes 😅

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  Generic_Chick

  one year ago

  I’m also a fan of NOT: 1. Talking for hours on end without any reference to getting down and playing. 2. Keeping your body parts to yourself during said hours of talking - I like people that are respectful go getters. 3. Waiting for guests to break the ice. That said I do love cheese, so anyone that feeds me cheese and wine is an instant winner 🤣

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  Generic_Chick

  one year ago

  Bonus points if they have organised some kind of plan to get the party going, or communicate expectations and boundaries clearly

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