Mmf threesomes joining couples

December 17 2017

Hi guys, So Im really turned on by joining couples ATM I really want to pop my threesome cheery but I'm finding it hard to get my foot in the door anywhere with it is there something I'm doing wrong or any little tips to improve my chances of getting involved with a couple? Thanks in advance - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • DynamicCouple36

    DynamicCouple36

    8 years ago

    How exactly have you been approaching couples and what have you been saying (writing) In the instances where we have had a MFM, the other male has been very respectful, well mannered , patient and subtle in his approach with regards the conversations (both on here and face to face ) leading up to an enjoyable MFM 3some. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • DynamicCouple36

    DynamicCouple36

    8 years ago

    To fully read the couples profile wording before making contact with them - Posted from rhpmobile

  • DynamicCouple36

    DynamicCouple36

    8 years ago

    is that there are far more single males, on here, that are looking to have a 3some with a couple, then there are couples looking to have a 3some with a male. The couples are therefore often “spoilt fir choice “ and can literally pick and choose whoever appeals to them. So it’s about what you have to offer them. What makes you stand out amongst the rest of the candidates. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    8 years ago

    Single males are at the bottom of the food chain in the swinging world. Single bi women are at the top. As a result, you need to present yourself in the best possible light so that they might show some interest in what you are offering. Your best chance is to get an invite to one of your friends Private parties and be on your best behaviour. Good luck. It's a hard gig. And it's gotta be hard......

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Have you tried attending some house parties? You can meet eligible couples that way. It’s much easier to seduce people F2F rather than trying to pick up online.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    I've only been successful the once in nearly three years, and that was a random couple that pursued me, not the other way around. I have sent plenty of messages to couples and get some replies. Of those replies easily half are of the ''no thanks'' variety, the other half we'll send a few messages back and forth checking each other out, but it ultimately goes nowhere - usually the couple decides I'm not what they're after. I'm not terribly fussy - hell, I'd fuck a giraffe and a hippopotamus if they messaged me, but the simple fact of the matter is that most people on here are fussy. It's quite easy to feel affronted when you start out on the internet dating scene. Us blokes, most of us anyway, we're vain creatures and our vanity is easily dented. We sign up here and elsewhere, we think we're halfway attractive, we try to package ourselves as best we can - and for the most part we get nothing. No flirts, no messages, no apparent interest at all. We think it's going to be a veritable tsunami of sex, but for most of us that just isn't the case. I myself felt affronted when I messaged couples - and I only messaged those that I thought appeared to be after the same as me - and received tepid responses (when I actually got any at all). My ''journey'' (I must be watching too much ABC as everything is about ''journeys'' on there lately) has at last brought me to a point of indifference - if something comes along that's great, but if it doesn't? Oh well. I am lucky that I get a couple of shags a year out in the real world so I don't become some sex-starved slobbering angry beast.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Well if you pass thru Singapore let us know 😉

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    I was on Rhp as a single guy for awhile before I was invited to join a couple. don't take the rejection personally, you can have a great profile, and good looks and still get knocked back a hundread times. What the other guys are saying about attending the parties does sound like a good option as personally I think I come across a lot better in real life. I'm yet to attend a party as a single guy and I'll be honest it's a little daunting to me but hey fortune favours the bold

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Which means your only really interested in the girl, now sure, there is a market but it’s a much harder sell. Patience Grasshopper.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    I’m guessing it’s your location? You’re a loooong way away from most folks :) Mrs LAL - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Quoting 'DynamicCouple36' How exactly have you been approaching couples and what have you been saying (writing) In the instances where we have had a MFM, the other male has been very respectful, well mannered , patient and subtle in his approach with regards the conversations (both on here and face to face ) leading up to an enjoyable MFM 3some. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Good - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Quoting 'Livingandloving2' I’m guessing it’s your location? You’re a loooong way away from most folks :) Mrs LAL - Posted from rhpmobile There's actually a surprising amount of couples on here and other sites for a small place like Darwin. I have learnt though that there are, I suspect, quite a few of those couples who are actually either a single bloke or the bloke half of the couple who is just dreaming. A general observation for me is that if ''they'' want to get straight to dirty chat (''so, what is it you want to do to me?'' and the like) then I am wasting my time, or they are wasting my time, whichever. That's only occasionally though, the rest of the time it's probably because my profile sucks. I've tried elaborate and detailed, short and sweet and received criticism for both styles. It is what it is now, I have other things to do.

  • FeistyFatty

    FeistyFatty

    8 years ago

    Sorry babes you'd be a hard sell to alot of couples. Being that you're straight; I'd instantly say no thanks and not even examine your profile any further. Im sure im not alone in my orefernece for bi men for threesome or moresome play. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • WanderlustfulDuo

    WanderlustfulDuo

    8 years ago

    When I was a single male many years ago I jumped on rhp with the aim of meeting couples. It was hard work as the competition is high and couples are weary of men not turning up. I met three separate couples and it was amazing! Well worth the trouble. I suggest you get some better photos up. Ones that aren't taken in a messy bathroom or bedroom. That's a turn off and the competition is great. State what you absolutely want on your profile. Don't send dick pics until asked. Put them in a private gallery. Indicate if you're comfortable with bi/straight play. Consider your target market when writing your profile and uploading pics. When chatting to couples make sure you address both in your communications. Be honest. Be patient. Don't get offended, most won't reply to you. It's worth the effort! Oh and spell check and re-read everything you write. Things get miss interpreted easily, and your communication channels are limited! Don't mess up the first few messages. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • DynamicCouple36

    DynamicCouple36

    8 years ago

    You quoted us yet did not say much ? Just what is it that you are wanting to say ? - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    The photos I can see on your profile aren't appealing at all. The cluttered bathroom and a mirror that looks like you just blew your load over it aren't a good look. Women and couples are more likely to pay attention to that sort of thing.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    get a sex change.. full chop... and go for a MMF...(YOU the F)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Most couples aren't into competition, don't try and compete with the male in the relationship, no ego trips, and no " I bet you'll love watching me fuck ya missus", don't send dick pics unless appropriate time or asked to see, don't come across as sleazy " babe, darling, "that stuff. Be respectful. And above all be different, couples get hammered by guys that all say the same thing to start with, come up with something different to catch their attention and don't expect to meet that night, week. It may take a few week for some couples. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    It's very important as wonderlustfulDuo said that when communicating with a couple to engage with both of the couple. As the male in the relationship if I just feel the guy is in it to fuck my missus and not interested in acknowledging me, then he is not on the same page as we are. I'm not talking in a bi way but a respectful way and getting the same thing out of a mfm that we are looking to get out of it then the conversation would go no further. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Be respectful :-) In our experience the single males who stood out to us were the ones who could hold a good conversation which wasn't sex related. On meeting the single male would talk more with mr spice which i found to be respectful (Maybe I'm backward?) But as myself and the single male had been messaging/texting and sending photos prior to meeting and mr spice wasn't involved in those conversations (he isnt much of a texter) I found it highly respectful that on a social meet that these people spoke more to mr spice than myself on the social meet. Albeit there was some not so subtle flirting and touching between myself and single male. When it came down to playing it was the most sexiest, relaxed and raunchy night! And We really cannot wait to do it again ;) Also to add I was not aware that bisexual males were more saught after by couples? We steer clear of bisexual men as Mr spice is straight (such a shame! ☹) Tam xx - Posted from rhpmobile

  • madotara69

    madotara69

    8 years ago

    in the sense I don't feel sexual attraction with guys, even the bi guys who have played up with us, being with them when spitroasting Tara, double penetration, being watched while deepthroated or fucking, Tara loves sucking cock it's her favourite thing, seeing her sucking a guys cock with a passion and driven by lustful determination, so fucking sexy and him expressing how much he enjoys.. it's a different sexual attraction than bi sexual, seeing a bloke having the time of his life. Tara wants to fuck guys with her strap on, she is bisexual and I guess what I am saying is.. For a truly awesome mfm threesome, whether straight, bi, or any sexual, you have to be your self and feel comfortable being yourself, everyone just being who they are. Try being someone you are not and joining a couple won't be the experience anyone was wanting. Intimacy and the chemicals of arousal as three spirits meet is when an mfm is truly awesome, sexual energy of three..... becomes heightened senses in sexually explicit sexual sex state of mind. You are a single bloke wanting to join a couple for a threesome, be yourself and know you are no better or less, an equal in an odd situation, most importantly in spirit, it'll guide you and be felt as you cross paths with like minded folk. A simplistic expression 'some things can't be told, only shown' Cheers mate and merry christmas. Mado Mado Tara xx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Question? MMF Is the Bi terminology? MFM is the hetero terminology? Is that right??

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    it was important to anyone new to make sure they get it right. No mixups when trying to hook up with people. Just a thought.........

  • madotara69

    madotara69

    8 years ago

    Quoting 'midnightblue71' it was important to anyone new to make sure they get it right. No mixups when trying to hook up with people. Just a thought......... Crikey I've lost touch with who is who around this neck of the woods midnightblue, I'm not sure if you know me ? if you do... well that speaks for it'self, if you don't then please consider there is no intensions other than to dazzle you because dazzling may very well have you feeling absolutely dazzled. Just a thought ? Unkind words and thoughtless snubs are but the echoes of a small and frightened person. Hardly applies to you midnightblue, no your 'just a thought' is in the better interests of bringing meaning with meanings in that.. and you are correct, there is no terminological inexactitudes, clear and simple, thoughtful, educative. Insight is where the 'just a thought' I believe perhaps better put as 'a just thought' For someone wanting to experience to join a couple in having a threesome, further to seek the experience, and to whether the experience is one; the meanings of MMF by what the dynamics mean to the couple is very much different if met with the invitation of an MFM guy who is straight and finds out only just bound, shackled in handcuffs, hubbies finest ropework with every knot in the right spot, gagged and blindfolded, anal sexually explicit sexual sex aids, amal and anal lubricant, wifes array from one extreme to another's rack of strap-ons, beside the chest of home built motorised sex machines each named for performance preferences, they pop up in Guntreat Classifieds even Crackup or Backpaged now and then eg, The Concrete Pump $1300.00 runs well selling cheap or swap to upgrade either a Super Dual Tunnel Precision Boring Rig or ~Raxle~ HardrDeeprTurboTrusr if and only the machine is a genuine ~Raxle~, no cheap knock offs, call Daddy make an offering. Bit different than joining a hubby to work in with pleasuring the wife in spitroasting, double penetration, bit of roleplay, deepthroated, maybe balls tied up to his cock so they can bounce of her arse in doggy sort of MFM. Except the once in a blue moon midnightblue, occurs an MFM MMF synchronicity flowing together in equilibrium and that only happens if the F's in the MFM or MMF got their Daddy's ~Raxle~ HardrDeeprTurboTrustr Disclaimer the only interests beneficial with ~Raxle~ HardrDeeprTurboThrustr are Tara's. Yeah no the ~Raxle~ doesn't do it for me, so it's definitely not an advertisement for couples pleasure machines ~Raxle~. Mr Zoggs Sex Wax, it's the best thing for your stick Merry Christmas midnightblue Mado Mado Tara xx