Menage e trois

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  kassmebits

  15 years ago

  From painful experience, never ever get involved with ppl you know. it can be devestating when it goes sour! and if it was an old friend, you may do irrepairable damage to that relationship.

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  I have had a few threesomes (or three+) in my younger days, so will provide a few different scenarios I have had and maybe that has some insight.Scenario 1: Out with my best mate, met three girls, much beer later it ends up with couple + couple, and the third girl split her time between the pairs (if that makes sense). So two mates + randoms.Scenario 2: Out with the best mate again, not so much beer, but a girl I had been friends with for ages just drops the clanger that she finds us both cute and was a bit confused about who she likes yada yada. We give each other a nudge and a wink, she clues on to whats happening, and after the initial shock and trepidation gets her first MFM. Happy days all round. So thats Three friends.Scenario 3: At work one of my colleagues spots I'm putting in some spadework with a saucy lass and asks if theres any more chicks about, so I ask the chick if she minds sharing as it would be rough to leave a mate in the cold, so at 4am it all goes naked. Two mates + random.Scenario 4: Same colleague, we drop by my ex-GF's house on the way home from a shift (we had to pass by her house anyway) small talk leads to big talk which leads to the bedroom. MFM ensues.So once again, Three friends.Scenario 5: Whilst dating the ex-GF from above, we end up spending a bit of time with a former 'playmate' of mine due to common social and recreational interests (music bands etc), one night they have a few drinks and there's sime suggestive commentary from them both. I laugh it off.Two days later, same sort of deal, although I'm not laughing this time... the whole thing goes naked and many hours of wanton lust ensue as the girls firstly tear each other apart before hammering me into next week, and then going back to each other. They kept that 'interest' going for about a year. I was occasionally involved.So thats Couple+friend.Anyhow,MY BELIEF is that I prefer to include a trusted person that I know, rather than randoms.My other half, knowing all of the above and more, has hit me up with the suggestion of going down the threesome path, but is very particular as it would be her first time as a 'group', and is looking for her first full FF experience... so she has some jitters and would prefer a stranger/random (because they then go away I guess) Like you I guess she has been holding it all back, and isnt sure how her friends might take it all.

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  You guys pretty much confirmed what I expected...dont just launch in there the way you would ' Oh Im going to Perth for a shopping trip...wanna come?' with 'Oh I am really into girls and would love to see you suck my husband...wanna come on my face?' Its safer all round for somethings to remain fantasies...unless you get some inkling that thye might swing otherways... One of my biggest fantasies is to be at the club blind folded & being spanked on the cross (hubby overseeing)...only when finished to find that it is that friend we have the hots for who has jumped in...not knowing who I was either...YUM! what a delishous shock! SoilderB all I can say is that you are one very lucky man!!! xxx Mrs H xxx

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  Well the threesomes that I have had involving friends and lots of alcohol were back when I was single. It was just fun and experimentation, no commitment. It's different now that I am in a committed relationship. It would be rather strange to get drunk with a friend now and end up in a threesome. These things need more boundaries to make sure there are no hurt feelings or jealousy. Mrs NTN

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  Its just about understanding your friends.As I illustrated above, some of these were with friends and there was no blowback as I knew that the friends in question were pretty liberated. Some I would never mention it to.If you can answer the question of 'What in your right mind made you think I'd be interested??' you are on a winner, if the answer is 'erm no idea', then that friend is probably fairly straight and not a wise choice.

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