Men in couples

April 01 2026

Wanting to get with a woman to experiment and I'm willing to have their partner with them but the women all don't message and I'm left just messaging the men. Why is this?

Comments

  • RHP

    RHP User

    2 months ago

    Most couples I know run it that way, men leading the hunt or the search and thus the conversation. How has your success been in messaging female profiles?

  • Fuckyousweetness

    Fuckyousweetness

    2 months ago

    Why are you messaging couples why not single females? That way you won't have to endure taking to the males.

  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    2 months ago

    Because half the “couples” on here are actually just thirsty single men posing as couples sitting behind a keyboard with a box of tissues. So naturally you end up messaging just the man because he’s the only real one behind the profile. Being an "experimental unicorn" is advertising the wrong bait. If you’re hoping to experiment with a woman, it makes sense you’d want to hear from her. If she's not chatting or you hear excuses she can't talk, or being pressured in any shape or form, just end it. It's ok to ghost in this situation. All the best. Ms Foxy

  • Nightglider

    Nightglider

    2 months ago

    One of the main issues couples who are looking for unicorns fail IMO. Only communicating with the Mr. As always pointed out, many couple profiles are suspected to be men posing as a couple. Add to that the lack of pics on the profile showing Mr at all. It has often made me question. If couples are seriously after their elusive unicorn. These are part of the reason I don’t seek couples anymore. Too much additional work, that I don’t get from chatting with solo men.

  • wiifm

    wiifm

    2 months ago

    You added us as a friend last night. my female partner A is ambivalent about starting a conversation with anyone, as is the case with most females. Reach out and ask to talk to A and see if she responds. xx D

  • Oskalabelle

    Oskalabelle

    2 months ago

    I noticed your profile is a guest account. I’m assuming that might mean you can’t reach out to the profiles that interest you first, a paid account would likely allow you to message just women profiles and is likely the reason you hear from men only if you’re putting up “dates”

  • PandaAndBri

    PandaAndBri

    29 days ago

    Definitely try a club or party. You will find like minded ladies there that come with or without a guy attached. B