M52
Married men ---- why?
May 18 2014
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RHP User
12 years ago
They're pricks. When I was married I clearly stated same on my profile, because the girls will always find you out. It's about honesty. (The ex had a profile of her own and we had a couple's profile too btw.) It's one of the biggest reasons single folk here have such a hard time. Still - wouldn't be dead for quids!!! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
How many married guys have a couple profile up without the little woman knowing??? Found out my ex had done this, messaged couples pretending to be me, including face pics & slot shots of me without my knowledge. Maybe OK in a capitol city, not here in bumfuck central..... Mid Life Crisis sums it up methinks.
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RHP User
12 years ago
We wuz just as honest as all the single men and all them there women (cuz, we all knows women never lie). We are the way we are now just so's you can feel all superior like. Ain't that nice of us.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Because they are both hjopless and hopeful :-) xxQ
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RHP User
12 years ago
If you are here to have sexy fun, why does it matter? If I am attracted to a guy on here who fits my criteria, and after meeting up he looks like his pics, Im going to enjoy my guy for the night. I don't care who he goes home to. In fact, married men are far better for me as they are not clingy and don't want to text me all day. And I love the feeling of power and control over her man :p
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RHP User
12 years ago
Strange comment,were does superiority enter the fray! We all abide by the decisions we make,If you want to lie and be a fictitious person go for it,me personally - you can lie to me once,cause I wont be there for the next one,no superiority there. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
I guess some guys will do anything to get their dick wet. Obviously not happy with their lives at home and live in a pretend world. Cant do that myself. I would rather be myself and upfront.. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Because if they put married then women won't meet them. I have no problem as long as they don't play women and lead them to believe there's a chance of a relationship. I've had married playmates, they had single on their profile but were honest about it when I met them.
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PartyOrg
12 years ago
I understand the question you pose, and also understand it can be frustrating when people don't show up, but what I don't understand is your problem with married men. Are you looking for men, and do you want them to be single i.e not in a relationship of any sort, or are you trying to self glorify yourself by stating you are single and very ethical?
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RHP User
12 years ago
I am married and make no secret of it. I don't care if you are married, as long as you tick my boxes, then we are all good for some fun. I don't want to know that your partner knows or doesn't know, there is little point asking, as if a man is cheating, that means he is lying to his significant other, I am under no impression they will feel obligated to be truthful to me. So I don't ask. I meet on my terms and most guys I hook up with don't even know my actual name (not because I lie, I just don't tell them). So it beats me why they feel the need to pretend to be something they are not....
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RHP User
12 years ago
Men seem to lie... Can't help it.. Is it the male genes or charteristics? Woman seem to be more honest? Is it all because males & females are 2 different creatures?? That's all I'm getting at. Woman cool calm & collected & men go weird wiggly & wonke ?? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
I looked at your photo.... and I have my doubts as to whether YOU are really a tiger!
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On_Safari
12 years ago
"I don't care who he goes home to. In fact, married men are far better for me as they are not clingy and don't want to text me all day. And I love the feeling of power and control over her man :p" Err WTF⁉️ hahahaha I think you'll find your "power" is at best fleeting (about 60 seconds) and only on average 6in deep. And in another post today you said all married men are average and what was the word.....unkempt? 😎 It's great to have a healthy dose of confidence though. Welcome Miss
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RHP User
12 years ago
Now that that's cleared up, Indy:
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RHP User
12 years ago
No I'm not a tiger... Lol I'm a human - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'jensman1903' We wuz just as honest as all the single men and all them there women (cuz, we all knows women never lie). We are the way we are now just so's you can feel all superior like. Ain't that nice of us. It aint cowboy. Never will be either. you aint eva gonna cut my mustard brother. And one of ya brothers are yet to bust me
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'I_N_D_A_G_I_N_E' "I don't care who he goes home to. In fact, married men are far better for me as they are not clingy and don't want to text me all day. And I love the feeling of power and control over her man :p" Err WTF⁉️ hahahaha I think you'll find your "power" is at best fleeting (about 60 seconds) and only on average 6in deep. And in another post today you said all married men are average and what was the word.....unkempt? 😎 It's great to have a healthy dose of confidence though. Welcome Miss I was referring to couples on here pretending to be a couple.
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RHP User
12 years ago
You on a dry spell from scoring on here..and trying some Psychology to get women to BELIEVE you are an enightened being?? Who gives a fck who lies and who don't?Not me.. not at all..I do what I do, and do it well...IF I choose to lie, it is because I WANT to.IF I choose to tell the brutal truth, it is because I WANT to. There is a profound saying.. which I cannot, for the life of me remember.. or find.. It is an answer to someone wanting to change the world... the last line states..".... Just make a better you" See if you can find it eh.. and leave the philosophy of cheating married men to THEM
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RHP User
12 years ago
Go find out why married Women take their wedding rings off on a Saturday night and Lie too OF course... Women Don't even HAVE to lie do they?WHY?Because Males don't USUALLY give a fck if they are married or not..
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RHP User
12 years ago
So let's try the direct approach.Everybody lies. Some more than others but being a married male is not the determining factor. Anyone who claims that they never lie is a liar. It appears to me that the OP is trying to score points with the female audience by denouncing the evils of deceitful males hoping, thereby, to elevate his own standing in their eyes.That's where the attitude of superiority I was referring to comes from, Andyinoz. I'm actually a very honest man, in spite of the fact that I'm married, but I doubt that you'd appreciate my honesty if we were to meet.Corri, I don't remember ever making advances towards you and, not meaning to burst your bubble, I'm not at all interested in your 'mustard'. I have no brothers. I do have a sister but she doesn't want your mustard either. Sorry.
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RHP User
12 years ago
just make everyone distrustful. Men, women, whatever. I have been bullshitted to on 2 occasions that I know of by married men. One is still trying to contact me because we were awesome together until I found out. The second was found out by his wife who contacted me who I then sent every single lying email her way so he could see how the lying fuck operates. He then went on to threaten me which I told the prick to fuck off and if he wanted to play with me, then game on. He ran away with his tale between his legs.
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tamworthguy46
12 years ago
That's a fairly easy question to answer, People lie especially when they married or attached and seeking a side order of casual Sex with fries and a coke lol, as telling the truth limits their options. Or they think it will ? Some people will enter in to Affairs etc, if all cards are laid out beforehand , but they will still be Bullshitting to the people background ! At the end of the day Everyone hates being Bullshitted to, and being played, that is what really hurts......and the wrath that follows when they are caught out is often deserved. Karma isn't it ? Tam
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'cougar4fun' I am married and make no secret of it. I don't care if you are married, as long as you tick my boxes, then we are all good for some fun. I don't want to know that your partner knows or doesn't know, there is little point asking, as if a man is cheating, that means he is lying to his significant other, I am under no impression they will feel obligated to be truthful to me. So I don't ask. I meet on my terms and most guys I hook up with don't even know my actual name (not because I lie, I just don't tell them). So it beats me why they feel the need to pretend to be something they are not.... That's pretty well nailed it...
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RHP User
12 years ago
I'm married, I say it in my profile.. I also point it out to people I pick up from clubs etc... Before anything happens, u say it as it is... Then go from there, good or bad. However; Who are you to hate on these guys... They are doing there thing and can do what they want... Right or wrong, the can do whatever the hell they like... The a grown men. Instead of worrying about what other guys are doing, concentrate on your own business. You just sound like a guy who can't get a woman because the married men are are getting in first... Yes, you might have a few women, so shut up and have fun. You want clean high moral people, go to a mainstream dating site... Rhp caters for all walks... Dates, FWB, casuals, lovers, one nighters, gangbangs, cheating spouses, straight, gay, bi .... All orgies !! Save your wasted post and stop hating in ither people. But as the old saying goes - haters gonna hate. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Love your work!!!! Jens, holier than thou much? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
I guess i'm wondering. 1. How does married guys being here impact you? 2. Are married guys not allowed to be here? They have just as much right to be here than you. I'm not married, and not trying to stick up for them. But everyone has their reasons for joining a site like this. You messages comes across as rather agitated. Life is short, it's not worth worrying about shit like this - someone rubs you up the wrong way just move on / block them.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I've never laid claim to being better than anyone. More conscious of the realities of human nature perhaps. So anyway, Twisted_Mister, do you take exception to anything I've written in particular or are you just taking pot shots? Hmmm?
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RHP User
12 years ago
Im more than happy to hold my hands up,yes I misread the interpritation you meant. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Because most women say if your married or attached move on im not interested !!!!!!! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
This is just getting entertaining :)
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RHP User
12 years ago
Honestly I don't care who is married or single... It's just a forum.. I don't really care at all.. But it's like watching a good movie .... I've hit a nerve with some & didn't expect to be attacked by some...... Overall amusing ;-) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Why have you gone back to Dina,what did the Little Mermaid do?....you fickle tuning you:-) :-) :-) xx Q
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RHP User
12 years ago
Bloody auto thingy....fickle thing....tuning was funny but:-) :-) :-) xxQ
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RHP User
12 years ago
Just another failed fishing expedition.
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madotara69
12 years ago
Quoting 'jensman1903' Just another failed fishing expedition. flashing the prawn again J man?
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madotara69
12 years ago
Dangling the prawn for better terminological purposes.
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tamworthguy46
12 years ago
Quoting 'Melbourne_Babe' If you are here to have sexy fun, why does it matter? If I am attracted to a guy on here who fits my criteria, and after meeting up he looks like his pics, Im going to enjoy my guy for the night. I don't care who he goes home to. In fact, married men are far better for me as they are not clingy and don't want to text me all day. And I love the feeling of power and control over her man :p Melbourne, I'm going to have to give you points for honesty, you state your married on your profile, and you don't really care if your lover is or isn't, if your attracted to them, I do find the power and control over her man a little disturbing in context though, but hey if that excites you ? power to ya.I certainly won't be judging you !
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'coops14' I'm married, I say it in my profile.. I also point it out to people I pick up from clubs etc... Before anything happens, u say it as it is... Then go from there, good or bad. However; Who are you to hate on these guys... They are doing there thing and can do what they want... Right or wrong, the can do whatever the hell they like... The a grown men. Instead of worrying about what other guys are doing, concentrate on your own business. You just sound like a guy who can't get a woman because the married men are are getting in first... Yes, you might have a few women, so shut up and have fun. You want clean high moral people, go to a mainstream dating site... Rhp caters for all walks... Dates, FWB, casuals, lovers, one nighters, gangbangs, cheating spouses, straight, gay, bi .... All orgies !! Save your wasted post and stop hating in ither people. But as the old saying goes - haters gonna hate. - Posted from rhpmobile I think he is referring to the lying rather than the cheating. Nobody deserves to be lied to about it. They have taken my moral choice away from me by not declaring it. If they can find someone who is up for it, all the luck to them, just don't involve me without my consent.
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RHP User
12 years ago
its unfair to single out the guys here, women are just as bad. There are a lot of women that lie about their marriage status as well.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Am 55yo and married,and have stated and been up front all the time.Even though I have had as it were,slaps in the face,I have never not stated the fact.Also in the past if I felt the lady didn't reallise I was married I made it my point of telling her.So,there are some of us who are responsible and in my case I advise I'm looking for a married lady.and a mature woman at that.It would be nice to get a reply saying thanks for being truthful,as one lovely lady did.Only one mind you.But I do agree,to many bullshit and mislead,which I too,dislike.So to those people,male/female I say get a life.
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Lovinit28andKC72
12 years ago
People do what they do for whatever reason, but don't lie about it. At least then if everything is out on the table, you can assess and make an accurate decision......💋 So married people, single people on couples profile, if you're telling porkies, just be honest and upfront it actually might work better for you, but then again it might not, but don't fuck people over and let them know, as so they can make the decision.......💋 oh please and thank you
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RHP User
12 years ago
If the person or people you are "playing" with or considering "playing" with are married/attached or not.... To us. We have been on RHP for about 3/4 months and met some really wonderful and exceptional people. However, our ratio of wonderful to wanker is very weighted!! And wankers win!!! We have been victim to the old game of having a couples profile but in actuality it's only the man who wants and continually (even when declined) requests one on one. The single man that's actually married. The married man who states he's married, you say thanks but no thanks, he gets on his "moral high horse" (of all things lol) and makes US feel guilty for refusing him!!! This site is riddled with liars and game players. I have succumbed to many a sob story and befriended men only to be played and have it brought to my attention my hubby that they're just cheats and liars and think I'm an easy target because were on a "sex site". We are 100% honest all the way and have been stunned by the lack or respect we've has on return. We are not wanting to add the drama of a pissed off wife or husband knocking on our door thank you........ Hence, why were now chasing a unicorn, won't be renewing and will look further down the escort line to fulfill put fantasies...... It's been an education. Mrs Curious😈 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
I was pregnant with my exs first child when I discovered the chat logs on the computer of this site. Over 20 local women he had exchanged pictures. Phone number and even one our address. I had already had a son previously who had not long finished cancer treatment. You can imagine how I felt hey? I totally lost my mojo. I let it eat me away and then just when I started to feel like I could trust again after our second child he was caught again. I let myself think that I was the problem and I gave up on myself. Gained weight. Felt miserable. Its important to remember that these selfish men (and women) that cant be honest with what they really want are NOT an indicator of your self worth. In fact the woman is most likely 100x better than him but just doesnt know it.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I prefer married guys as there is less chance of him getting delusions of grandeur and think we'll run off in to the sunset to get married and be swinging of the chandeliers for the rest of our lives. I am cheating as I am getting no sex at home and I want sex. I need sex. I need the touch of a man.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I think everyone has a reason for being here and I don't really care what that reason is. As others have stated just be honest right from the start, at least then it's my decision to make. I can understand why some people do lie about their married/attached status but I also believe in the saying : What goes around comes around, so good luck to them.
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erotictouch4u
12 years ago
The moment you said "married men LIE" you just showed yourself to be one of the crowd who have an axe to grind about something and generalise against a particular group of people.Just like saying "all men are bastards" or "all women are bitches", generalisations shouldn't be made because in any group not all are the same. ET xox
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Lovinit28' People do what they do for whatever reason, but don't lie about it. At least then if everything is out on the table, you can assess and make an accurate decision......💋 So married people, single people on couples profile, if you're telling porkies, just be honest and upfront it actually might work better for you, but then again it might not, but don't fuck people over and let them know, as so they can make the decision.......💋 oh please and thank you
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RHP User
12 years ago
You are telling us that you put up this forum for your own amusement....that you could care less about the topic? Ii think that is called trolling .....Q
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RHP User
12 years ago
Is it Troll season or something? You all seems to multiply like rats.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Have feelings to, ya know. I love troll posts. It gets do off the couch when he gets the pop corn. And cavey, , you are as always a breath of fresh air.
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RHP User
12 years ago
DG, I pads Suck!
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RHP User
12 years ago
The problem is often the nut on top of the keyboard ;-) lol
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RHP User
12 years ago
I feel a change in photo on the wind.... I'll have to find another big 'thing' to amuse and entertain with (as opposed to those in here amused and entertained BY a big thing..... usually theirs. LOL
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'bbtiger666' Honestly I don't care who is married or single... It's just a forum.. I don't really care at all.. But it's like watching a good movie .... I've hit a nerve with some & didn't expect to be attacked by some...... Overall amusing ;-) - Posted from rhpmobile I interpreted it as you were obviously being knocked back and some married guys were doing all right on RHP. And now you are back tracking / that was my interpretation. This site is for everyone married, single, and everything in between and it is each of ours choice to meet, chat & play with who ever we want.Build a bridge and get over it
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kamalover
12 years ago
Quoting 'andyinoz' Strange comment,were does superiority enter the fray! We all abide by the decisions we make,If you want to lie and be a fictitious person go for it,me personally - you can lie to me once,cause I wont be there for the next one,no superiority there. - Posted from rhpmobile There you are! Thanks for such a sincere comment. Adult sites are for mainly extra marital activities. People are here to experience and enjoy sex. When my partner and I had a couple’s profile we met few people. We enjoyed the company of married men, but single men always pushy and demanding with us. After few bad incidents with single guys my partner stop playing not only with others, she lost interest in sex. Why married guys looking for someone for discreet fun, because they love their family ( wife & Kids) and want to live with them. They may sexually desperate, but doesn’t want to be selfish and become single or attached whenever they feel like to do. I do respect married men and woman who is looking for some extra help with their sexual needs. And when it comes to lying about your marital status, how many married men will get a reply? not even from a married women. They all want single or unattached men. And some profiles even have some very rude comments about married men. When I put my single profile, I do get few responses but that all from single men who want to know about my partner and how they use her. So I can’t blaim the people who lie, they may have some bad experience.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Some men get there fix on here then ignore the woman. It goes both ways. At the end of the day your going to pay for dishonesty OFFLINE so I dont question it so much anymore.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I sort of agree with poster as it does make It hard for guys who are married and are honest As a lot of women are burnt by them So we do get tarred with same brush But we ain't all like that yes I'm married as States On profile wife does know and wants it
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Lovinit28andKC72
12 years ago
So you chose a big bunny, interesting!!!! And the bunny drinks VB, geez you could have chosen a bunny that drinks a decent beer.....😜
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'I_N_D_A_G_I_N_E' "I don't care who he goes home to. In fact, married men are far better for me as they are not clingy and don't want to text me all day. And I love the feeling of power and control over her man :p" Err WTF⁉️ hahahaha I think you'll find your "power" is at best fleeting (about 60 seconds) and only on average 6in deep. And in another post today you said all married men are average and what was the word.....unkempt? 😎 It's great to have a healthy dose of confidence though. Welcome Miss Well said lovely!
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RHP User
12 years ago
Give the Easter Bunny a break. He's a hard worker.... Shutting all those chocolate eggs takes it out of him!
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gazpacho
12 years ago
Quoting 'Melbourne_Babe' If you are here to have sexy fun, why does it matter? If I am attracted to a guy on here who fits my criteria, and after meeting up he looks like his pics, Im going to enjoy my guy for the night. I don't care who he goes home to. ........ These are pearls of wisdom from the mouth of a babe. I love your approach and I feel exactly the same way. People get far too serious about this idea. It's sex. It's fun. It's mind numbingly wonderful. What's the big deal about marital status? HugsGazpacho
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RHP User
12 years ago
We will seek out a married man that does not go clubbing by himself, only been with his wife for years no one else. And he is seeking just a bit on the side but can only organize time out very occasionally. We Like: No dramas, Safe, he wont want to take anything home .
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gazpacho
12 years ago
I can understand that. The attitudes of married men differ. They're there for a shag. That's it. At time you come across in married guys whose attitude seems to be that they're there because the ol man is no good at it. You, as a dude, can sense the attitude. They would get as emotionally close to your lover as she will permit, and given half a shot, cut your grass. Married men have none of this attitude. Hugs Gazpacho - Posted from rhpmobile
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gazpacho
12 years ago
Auto correct. In married = unmarried. Obviously not a real word but there you go. - Posted from rhpmobile
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kamalover
12 years ago
Quoting 'Curiousplay1980' If the person or people you are "playing" with or considering "playing" with are married/attached or not.... To us. We have been on RHP for about 3/4 months and met some really wonderful and exceptional people. However, our ratio of wonderful to wanker is very weighted!! And wankers win!!! We have been victim to the old game of having a couples profile but in actuality it's only the man who wants and continually (even when declined) requests one on one. The single man that's actually married. The married man who states he's married, you say thanks but no thanks, he gets on his "moral high horse" (of all things lol) and makes US feel guilty for refusing him!!! This site is riddled with liars and game players. I have succumbed to many a sob story and befriended men only to be played and have it brought to my attention my hubby that they're just cheats and liars and think I'm an easy target because were on a "sex site". We are 100% honest all the way and have been stunned by the lack or respect we've has on return. We are not wanting to add the drama of a pissed off wife or husband knocking on our door thank you........ Hence, why were now chasing a unicorn, won't be renewing and will look further down the escort line to fulfill put fantasies...... It's been an education. Mrs Curious😈 - Posted from rhpmobile Thanks Mrs Curious for such a honest entry. We also had same experiences and I lost my partner's participation in this life style because of all the bad experiences we had. Always tried to be honest and open as far as we can go on a site like this. Had paid memberships in few different sites, but could not meet any sincere and genuine people who simply love sex and respect the people who love sex. I too seriously thinking of paying some one to fullfil my fantasies.
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Seachange73
12 years ago
Quoting 'Lovinit28' People do what they do for whatever reason, but don't lie about it. At least then if everything is out on the table, you can assess and make an accurate decision......💋 So married people, single people on couples profile, if you're telling porkies, just be honest and upfront it actually might work better for you, but then again it might not, but don't fuck people over and let them know, as so they can make the decision.......💋 oh please and thank you I agree with you. I have been approached by many married men here. Many say they are single and I later find out they are not. A bummer. I may like, er love sex and intimacy, but I still have my morals. I would rather play with single unattached men as I prefer not to involve or hurt innocent parties. I have been there before and it hurt me a lot when my ex-husband did it to me. I think it was the trust factor. With men here, I will only play with unmarried, or unattached men. There are many ways to find out the truth. I respect those who are upfront about their status but just wont work for me. I do understand some of their reasons but it was not enough for me to go on. Just the way I was raised.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Just wrote an in depth response to all the posts and fucking mobile lost it all. Anyway to all the moral police ... values are only measured by attitude. Attitudes are inherited ,with the exception of few. But please what ever you attempt in life make sure you give it your best. Ive made many mistakes but I can honestly say that I've never been called unintelligent. Some commentators on this post need to think a little bit longer before sending don't let attention to detail ruin your believable soapbox's You stand out like an erection at lady jane. Sorry for any typos off chops pretending to be intelligent but got bored and run out of pickup. Note to oneself don't go home with wet hair. nd always keep a spare pair of slightly soiled undies in your bag in case you get a slow leaker or panty collector. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
We have one who just wont go away. He's a rude little man with a horrible, nasty attitude. He lives locally to us, and has recognised Michael from our gallery photos. We've said no thanks a number of times now, as we really don't want to play with someone else's husband, its not who we are. He's so far told us a list of lies that are incredible, but I know they are lies, as his wife and I work together, and she tells a completely different story. I'm not sure what to do, as I don't wish to interfere in their relationship in any way. I hate that men lie, I really do, my ex partner told so many lies that he believed them all i'm sure, and I've told my Michael that if I ever catch him in a lie, there will be some very serious explaining to do.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I have no idea why a married guy would pretend not to be on this site - seems like that would make for a god-awful complication down the track! Besides there are advantages to hooking up with a married people - they are not going to brag at the pub, they're not going to get clingy, they're not going to cause trouble, they know what they're doing and they understand a play partner's needs in terms of privacy, space, discretion and availability... Just saying :)
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RHP User
11 years ago
very well said
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RHP User
11 years ago
Yep. Well said indeed.
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rupamohan
11 years ago
People do lie in many situations and all have their justification. They justify some lies as harmless lies. I am not casting judgement what is right or wrong but only providing reasons and possible solutions. I guess many married men may think it is unfair that if you are looking for NSA why should my martial status matter? In general if two person are looking for NSA why they need to know what is their relationship status with others? The problem could have easily reduced if instead of girls demanding unattached men..can be more specific why? as every one can have own reason. I don't want to generalise every girl will have same reason to demand unattached men. For e,g if a girl feels married man is on the site without wife's approval and this could lead to problems. She can say she needs to talk to wife to confirm it is OK. However a girl may simply like to play safe and ask for unattached men. The man is left with no choice but to lie. Similar to how in any other situation people justify that they were pushed into lying. people justify all is fair in love and war...they can always extend it to NSA.
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kamalover
11 years ago
Great reply . This is the place where we all are looking for some extra fun not a relationship. How many of you are here to have an on going relationship? Quoting 'cougar4fun' I am married and make no secret of it. I don't care if you are married, as long as you tick my boxes, then we are all good for some fun. I don't want to know that your partner knows or doesn't know, there is little point asking, as if a man is cheating, that means he is lying to his significant other, I am under no impression they will feel obligated to be truthful to me. So I don't ask. I meet on my terms and most guys I hook up with don't even know my actual name (not because I lie, I just don't tell them). So it beats me why they feel the need to pretend to be something they are not....
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RHP User
11 years ago
Men, married or not are here for sex. They don't care if the female is married or not. Females, in general and from our observations, also say they are here for sex but are really looking for more than 'just sex'. Which is why, in general, females do not want married men but men couldn't care if she was married or not. And also why clever men who want to get laid (only) will continue to lie - it gets them what they want! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
I'm pretty sure I've read it all now.We don't care what peoples situations are that is of no concern to us, we invite people in for sex not to worry about what else they have going on in their lives. To me this just seems like a thread to promote yourself being a self righteous non lying man, of which we all know does not exist.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'melbournekama' Great reply . This is the place where we all are looking for some extra fun not a relationship. How many of you are here to have an on going relationship? Totally disagree melbournekarma. I am here for on going relationships and I would a say a large proportion of women who participate on this forum are too. Casual hookups and "extra fun" are not that great because not all men make much of an effort to get invited back for a repeat performance. Which again is what lots of women want. Not all, but lots. Besides if I want some "extra fun" I just go to a swingers club, etc. I don't need to spend time meeting up with total strangers on one to one basis. That makes no sense at all.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Young unattached female on RHP = "potential hottie/unicorn etc" Young unattached male on RHP = "potential stud". Young married female on RHP = "potential hottie" Young married male on RHP = "lying, cheating bastard". Older unmarried female on RHP = "potential hottie/unicorn etc" Older unmarried male on RHP = "potential stud" Older married woman on RHP = "potential hottie/cougar etc" Older married male on RHP = "lying, cheating bastard". Perceptions people....perceptions. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'nortiesecret' Besides there are advantages to hooking up with a married people - they are not going to brag at the pub, they're not going to get clingy, they're not going to cause trouble, they know what they're doing and they understand a play partner's needs in terms of privacy, space, discretion and availability... I always wonder why some people say that married / attached people won't ever become clingy, start wanting more etc. Marriage doesn't magically create some sort of protective shield against a partner becoming emotionally attached to someone else, in fact if one or both partners are cheating then I would say it's likely that there are already issues in the marriage which makes them more vulnerable to seeing and seeking a better alternative with someone else, whether that possibility is real or in their mind only. Obviously that's not always the case, but this idea that all married people are somehow immune to forming deeper attachments to other sex partners seems quite naive to me.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Luckdragon23' ...... Obviously that's not always the case, but this idea that all married people are somehow immune to forming deeper attachments to other sex partners seems quite naive to me. Plenty of stories of attached/married people getting clingy with their bit on the outside, and all hell breaking loose.... rather predictably...
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rupamohan
11 years ago
40+ single of specific gender and forum regulars - 80%, rest 20 % are looking for just being at forum. Under 40 single same gender as above regular site user but never wrote in forum - 10% Attractive enough to demand the benefit of relationship but will take the responsibilities of NSA only- 100%ENJOY!!! Don't take it seriously. No one knows real answer!!!Quoting 'melbournekama' Great reply . This is the place where we all are looking for some extra fun not a relationship. How many of you are here to have an on going relationship?
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RHP User
11 years ago
Interesting reading. I'm up front about being married and have a great relationship bar one area...... I can see why a lot of married guys have bullshit profiles , because to be honest having a married guy profile attracts very little attention. Similar to many I'm just looking for some fun sex that's otherwise not happening. We all have a different story as to why we are here, but ultimately I believe this is a sex site not a dating site do hopefully we can all get some pleasures from it.
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RHP User
11 years ago
has all this moral indignation gotten you a root yet ?
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RHP User
11 years ago
fucking people who are 'taboo' creates a chemical reaction - it's why people who have sexual experience, and are coupled, pursue lovers while they are still hooked up.it heightens sexual climax, and it becomes your 'life-force'. it's impossible to live a 'house, monogamy, mortgage and 2 children' life if your desires have already spoken to you.this might seem selfish and self-absorbed, except for the fact that sex and the life society sets out for you are completely alien to each other. that's the best way I can say it
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting '50zcool' has all this moral indignation gotten you a root yet ? This comment made my day.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I don't think this one's been done before, will there be some form of pyre?. It's good to know that even on an adult hookup site there's someone prepared to keep everyone in check.
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