newfoundintrest

newfoundintrest

M40 F41

Making our club experience better

December 08 2020

Hi everyone. I'm wondering if there is a trick to making things happen a tad faster when we go out to the club's here in Perth. Both my wife and I enjoy a good Chatt and to meet new people. But at the end of the day were there not just for the conversation but to play. We seen to be standing round talking till past midnight (which is our curfew) then going home without playing. Is there a trick to making things happen a tad faster, as everyone seems to be far to happy to stand around and Chatt, not to play?? Any help

Comments

  • RHP

    RHP User

    5 years ago

    We have also found this on the very few times we get a chance to go to perth clubs (swingers) We now send about 15-20minutes working out who is there to look good and who is there down to earth to play, Then we simply just ask would you be keen in grabing a room for some play time , we normal play behind closed doors,

  • LibraLovers

    LibraLovers

    5 years ago

    "It's been awesome chatting to you. We're going to grab a room for some play time now because we turn into a pumpkin at midnight. We think you're really sexy and the invite is there if you would like to join us. If not perhaps we can give you our number for another time?"

  • newfoundintrest

    newfoundintrest

    5 years ago

    I like that approach. Guess we have to be more direct

  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    5 years ago

    There's no Trick. Just be yourselves without being pushy, demanding, smug or creepy. I have been to a few clubs across Australia, just because you've paid your entry fee doesn't guarantee a shag. You're a couple too, so not everyone will be attracted to you. Just because someone talks to you, doesn't mean they are up for a shag with you both. Rule #101: There should be no expectations or pressures. Ms Foxy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    5 years ago

    Turkey slapping 😂😂😂

  • newfoundintrest

    newfoundintrest

    5 years ago

    I always find it amusing that there seams to be very little sexy talk happening. When we're at a club to experience sex and play. I totally get the no expectations as you may or may not find people yher whine you gell with but, it's like going to MC Donald's and not getting anything, why go. Cafes don't have cover fees

  • funtimescouple1

    funtimescouple1

    5 years ago

    Sure start off talking about general / swinging stuff and if things are going ok then flirt, I.e. give compliments and talk about what you like to do in the bedroom and see if they flirt back. If they don't politely move on.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    5 years ago

    You could always suggest “well I might go for a bit of a wank in the dunnies. Interested in giving me a hand”

  • Mrs_Deep_Love

    Mrs_Deep_Love

    5 years ago

    Just politely ask "Would you like to join us in a room?"

  • RHP

    RHP User

    5 years ago

    Which clubs have you been to. Went to my first yesterday and it was disappointing

  • newfoundintrest

    newfoundintrest

    5 years ago

    We have been to both infusions and club 103. Out personal impressions of both are different. One is a great environment but super slow to start and the other was I think an off night, we still managed to find a couple to light play with. Still, both would be good on a good night and slow on a slow night. It really depends