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Making love without love
January 28 2014
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RHP User
12 years ago
With a woman he spent a single night with :) And, heartfelt tantric sex will definitely get you there x - Posted from rhpmobile
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MsSuperFoxy
12 years ago
I believe that whom ever I have been with, I have loved the moment. I also believe making love is different to being in Love. As for loving them? Well I have cared for them on various degrees one way or other and told me that I care. I have only told one person I loved them. Everyone I have ever had sex and intimate with, I hold a special place in my heart. They have a piece of me and I have a piece of them. That includes my one night stands - not that I have had many. I've cared and that's it. Foxy
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RHP User
12 years ago
On this one, when I have sex, I get involved with my whole mind and body......... However, I shall be so blunt and crude as to say when the need comes to just 'scratch an itch', whilst I would prefer someone I have some sort of attachment to, I have also just grabbed a body............ Sorry, it's the truth....... Enjoy
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Taby_DK
12 years ago
When I was single sex was sex. I believed a had maybe once or twice 'made love' to a guy I had a casual fuck with or a previous short term boyfriend who I thought I loved at the time but really didn't. It wasn't until I met Mr and we committed to each other and professed our love that we had our first 'making love' sex. And WOW! I can honestly now say I had never made love before meeting Mr. There is something so intimate and tender about having sex with someone you love deeply and truly. In a way I prefer it to kinky sex (can't believe I just said that!) because anyone can give me kinky sex whereas MR is the only one who can make love to me and give me those feelings when we are having one of our deep love making sessions. We do however do an equal amount of just pure fucking with no lovely dovey stuff so I definitely know the difference between just fucking, scratching an inch and intimate 'I Love You' sex. Mr is my third relationship but my first long term one. He is also the first and only man I have truly loved up to this stage in my life. So I think this is why I never 'made love' to my previous ex's because I wasn't truly in love with them it was just lust. Taby xx
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RHP User
12 years ago
Maybe maybe not.. I am I still in love after I have cum ? Maybe that should be the question !
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RHP User
12 years ago
that some people can over the years I come to be able to separate sex from love, I have.But I find that sex becomes love making with someone I love, with more tenderness . We as a couple have had a few meets and I think I can speak for both us when I say that with our playmates love hasn't come into it, just good fun sex. Durty
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RHP User
12 years ago
is in LOVE with ANYONE who pays it atttention.. So.. "YES" here.. I can fck for no other reason then it is available..
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RHP User
12 years ago
In group situations it is just sex, but one on one I need more than a need for sex. Whether that love is reciprocated, that's hard to tell. In group play I never cum, I only cum with people I love.
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RHP User
12 years ago
"Making love" can be a beautiful experience. You don't have to 'love' the person with all of your heart. A connection is required, sure, blissful intimacy can be achieved with a mate/FB/ONS if the connection is right on the night. I could also just 'fuck' the guy I was with for 20 years. I think it's about the sensitivity and closeness of the connection at the time. Mmm, making lurve...
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gazpacho
12 years ago
My thinking is that you can fall in love along the way... even if it is for a few minutes while you ejaculate. Some people say that is lust.. but Im not so sure. HugsGazpacho xxxx
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RHP User
12 years ago
I believe that when someone becomes a lover and not just a ONS or FB we reach a whole new level of intimacy. It all depends on the mood. Sometimes a quick hard fuck is what's needed and wanted, other times nothing beats make long, langurous love.
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RHP User
12 years ago
you dislike, yes. Simple really
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RHP User
12 years ago
One can make love, and look at each other with love and kiss as if they are long lost lovers, all on the first night they ever met.... Thats the type of connection i tend to have with some women from time to time and it's amazing... - Posted from rhpmobile
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Lovinit28andKC72
12 years ago
It's all to do with connection, you don't have to be in love to make love, a great connection makes it sensual and sexy as hell, not so much of a connection makes it fucking.....both can be pretty damn good.....💋 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'gazpacho51' My thinking is that you can fall in love along the way... even if it is for a few minutes while you ejaculate. Some people say that is lust.. but Im not so sure. HugsGazpacho xxxx I love everyone I'm with for as long as I am with them. And that is about as 'in love' as I want to get. If we are fucking, then I love you, and then I go home.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I have truly loved, and truly shagged..... and I really don't see any point in defining a difference between love making or shagging. I can be slow and tender, and I can be dominant and assertive. The Who, When and How is just a case of moods, moments and locations and not the relationship status of the participants. It's all sex....DG
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On_Safari
12 years ago
I love making love, if the person I am with is someone I grnuinely care about then making love with them or just fucking the guts out of them is so much more "fulfilling". I've said it before and I'll say it again "a fuck is a fuck" it's up to the fuckee if the fucker is "into" them or not. I had a random once, humbugged me for weeks even after being told as he walked me to the car that I regretted allowing it to happen and he was completely unsatisfying. (Shrugs) yes you can love the person you are with whilst making love to or fucking them then not give them a second's thought afterward. It's all in their approach/mindset to the intimate moment as much as it is yours. Love comes in many guises Him n Me......I think it's our individual capacity for Love that can define us as human beings but a good hard breathless mindblowing fuck with someone you may never see again has it's place in the erotic loving annals of time. It's a totally different scenario when you are "in love" ~ Indy's 2 bobs worth.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I used to think fucking was fucking, just sometimes it was done with more tenderness and passion than other times. Then I was recently told "I cant just fuck you, we don't fuck.....we make love" Op you ask can you make love to some one you don't love......I ask can you just fuck someone that you are in lov
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RHP User
12 years ago
continue...Can you just fuck someone that you are in love with?
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On_Safari
12 years ago
A stiff penis has no conscience!!!
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RHP User
12 years ago
Yes, I can definitely make love without being in love, but never without affection.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'gazpacho51' My thinking is that you can fall in love along the way... even if it is for a few minutes while you ejaculate. You ejaculate for HOW long? No wonder your hair has lost its colour.
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wingman2014
12 years ago
I know that I was in desperate need for passion and intimacy in my life at the time . Fucking is fun Lets face it . But sometimes we need more . I like to make the most of the experience and that takes time to explore and discover no matter who it is. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
I think Gazpacho means that the cum coma/good feeling lasts for a few Minutes. I have also been told on good authority that if you ask a man a question at this time they always tell you the truth... Or is it that they will agree to anything? Hmmm ☺️
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'I_N_D_A_G_I_N_E' A stiff penis has no conscience!!! Is that the same for wet pussy? There are actually thinking humans attached to the cock and maybe those that find it hard to get some let the little guy get the right of way. Most men are much more than the cock they are attached to.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Ya think? "Rolleyes" :-P
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RHP User
12 years ago
*Rolleyes*
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him_and_me
12 years ago
Quoting 'Lovinit28' It's all to do with connection, you don't have to be in love to make love, a great connection makes it sensual and sexy as hell, not so much of a connection makes it fucking.....both can be pretty damn good.....💋 - Posted from rhpmobile Maybe that's what it comes down to. Perhaps love is just a really strong connection with another person, so any connection will allow you to make love rather than bonk. @JayJay - I think you can just fuck someone you are in love with. @cwhereitgoes - I would suggest that being civil to someone you don't like is not really on a par to making love to someone you don't love. Do people often have voluntary sex with people they don't like? I don't know... x Me
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gazpacho
12 years ago
Quoting 'him_and_me'Do people often have voluntary sex with people they don't like? I don't know... x Me That's the business right there... but your question was "can you make love to someone if there is no real affection there?" I'm ignoring you lot, misbehaving up there... twisting my words around to suit yourselves. What I mean is, that even if you meet a total stranger on a darkened path to the beach on a moonlit night, just errrr ... waiting for a mate, even if no words are exchanged, you can form a very real emotional and physical attachment which can develop in just a matter of minutes, that can grab you by the heartstrings with real affection that you do make love, in such a way that you can remember those precious moments for years afterwards. And I never asked for a name or a number, damn it. :p HugsGazpacho
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'JayJay_66' continue...Can you just fuck someone that you are in love with? sounds like a sympathy/guilt fuck
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