Losing Interest when I figure them out?

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  Franksnbeans

  3 months ago

  Plenty have probably lost interest in you also!

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  MsSuperFoxy

  3 months ago

  You are not alone! Maybe you don’t lose interest because you’re “picky.” Maybe you lose interest because curiosity fades once the mystery does. Sometimes we’re not drawn to people, we’re drawn to the idea of them. And when the illusion settles into something ordinary, the spark goes with it. It might be about allowing yourself to want someone, who actually chooses you back. Ms Foxy

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  RHP User

  3 months ago

  Honestly it depends on what your definition of picky is. If it is about the physical interest will disappear and sometimes very quickly If you are picky about core value, thoughts on the world and connection of mind etc. Losing interest is not something that generally will happen.

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  Firejuggler

  3 months ago

  Sounds like conversation you are having with guys is a bit one sided. Are they asking questions about you or just prattling on about themselves?

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  Andrea_Sydney

  3 months ago

  Look up “avoidant attachment style” and do a bit of reading and see if any of that resonates.

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  nightingale8

  3 months ago

  Because they won’t take over one of your bedroom drawers with their shit 🙂

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  Notice_Me

  3 months ago

  Unspoken expectations are premeditated resentments Individuals must take responsibility for their own emotional energy and needs, rather than blaming others for failing to read their minds.

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  BarberBoss1981

  3 months ago

  Babe you're here for sugar dating...you are only going to attract one type of man hahaha

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  PartnersnCrime

  3 months ago

  In psychology they call it dismissive-avoidant attachment, and it's something that would be great to work on with a therapist if long term warm and reliable relationships is in your life plans 😊

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  shaneocammo

  3 months ago

  Sounds like you need a decent fuck

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  Auxefun

  2 months ago

  I think it works both ways also as men get older (well I speak for me) intrigue and unknown is trigger for arousal. It kinda equates with excitement. Old cliche fuck my brain and you’re in without question. Dicks pussy breast etc all are nice but everyone has them some nicer than others but if not triggered by the brain they kinda become blurred or non important. They also become more attractive with intrigue and curiosity I don’t like the hard to get or treat em mean to keep em keen concept but a fun diversion and interesting topics or a life that is off the norm is fun. Anyway interesting read all the same

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